TOO MUCH ROMANCE.....IS THE WORLD COMING TO AN END?....DIGGING INTO THE PAST...DIVORCE FALLOUT...

 

TOO MUCH ROMANCE? Can a Person be TOO ROMANTIC?

I love romance…..I am a very romantic type person……when I can find time to be….Actually I think romance is a way of life….not just a one time type of thing….I think Italians really do romance right….Everything seems romantic in Italy…..the way they talk, the way they eat, even the way they walk…..Romance seems to be a way of life in Italy…..But can there be too much romance?

I think most of us think of romance as dating…..I don’t really think romance is exclusive to dating….I do think it is a way of life….So as far as romancing life I never think there can be too much of a good thing….but when it comes to Dating I do think there can be too much of a good thing that can actually spoil a relationship……

Too much or too little romance can hinder how a romantic relationship (dating type situation) goes…..I think if the relationship has progressed beyond friendship then the relationship should have nice doses of romance on both people’s part. Romance makes the other person feel special…It is what sets it’s relationship apart from most others…..But too much romance can also make a person feel like they are being suffociated….They don’t have time to breath……Too much clinginess is not romantic….it is simply a turnoff to most people……I think in romantic dating relationships a certain amount of space is needed….time to dream about the other person….wonder about them in a good way……time to miss the other person……I always loved my time after a date when I was in the dating world….That time was special for me to reflect and dream about the person I was romantic about….

When I dated I was always romantic….and yet, I did it in the right amount of doses….I simply didn’t smother the person with too much of a good thing. Actually I let them miss me some…..that kept the fire going so to speak….I think healthy relationships that are romantic take time to miss each other…..take time to dream about each other…..and switch back and forth between friendship and romance….in order to appreciate both….

Yes, I think too much romance can be a deterrent to a relationship….and yet I think romance is wonderful…Or perhaps Mae West was right when she said “TOO MUCH OF A GOOD THING IS……WONDERFUL…..”

 

IS THE WORLD COMING TO AN END…?.CHICKEN LITTLE and THE SKY IS FALLING….

I am not predicting anything either way about the world….I simply don’t know…..I do not know if the world is coming to an end like many say it is nor do I know if the world will keep on spinning….That is simply something that is way out of my intellegence……I did always grow up with the Biblical understanding that “Only God knows….” And truly I live my life like that…..I also grew up with how  we were living in the “last days” according to how many interpret the Bible……I simply cannot say….Everyone has their own opinion….

I can tell you this….I am too busy living a full life rather than worring about if this is “it” or the “last days…” It may or may not be…..but I feel that is up to God not me….Yes, perhaps there are signs for us to get “prepared…” but truly there is only so much preparation we can do anyhow if it is true….So for me, I simply am going about my life in hopes that tomorrow I will wake up to another bright sunshiny day……

As said, since as far back as I can remember I remember people predicting the end of time…..It seemed to always get moved up a year or two when the prediction time came and went…..Were they just off? Or where they totally off? Or could they be right? I simply do not know…..Once again….God put me here to live life fully and to discover and complete my Divine Assignments and so for that reason that is what I am doing….To be busy worried about the end of the world coming will take my focus off of all that I can be achieving….

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