Bio
I write Stirrup Queens when I'm not reading other people's blogs, cooking, or chasing after my twins. I'm the author of two books: Life from Scratch,...
 
 
 
 

Most Popular

Tween Condom Sized for Smaller Penises

  • Share This Post
  • Pin It
  • 18
  • Sparkle (
    )
     

One size does not fit all in the world of condoms, especially when some of the users still haven't had their voice change. Catering to the under-fourteen set, The Telegraph reports a Swiss company has created a mini-condom to fit a mini-penis. They have called it the Hotshot, which is obviously a better name than my suggestion: Tweenises.

Open Condom Packet

The obvious question is if this fits the "if you build it, they will come" mentality and whether mini-condoms encourage preteens to have sex by giving tacit approval through its existence. Yet statistics show that preteens are having sex. According to The Telegraph, the company that makes Hotshots, Lamprecht AG, states that it was moved to create the product when it saw statistics on boys engaging in risky behavior at a young age.

Currently, the condoms are only for sale in Switzerland, though -- they could be on sale soon in the U.K., the country with the "highest teen pregnancy rate in Europe."

And more important than simply being sold in stores, The Washington Times states the condom will be "distributed in Swiss schools as part of a prevention campaign by the Swiss AIDS Federation." It's being combined with education, not just hanging on a shelf, condoning the idea of teen sex. Some might say that by being realistic and taking into account documented preteen practices, the company can do more to curb the problem of teen pregnancy and the transmission of STDs.

As much as you're not going to want to hear this, as a former middle school teacher, I can tell you that preteens are having sex, and they are woefully ill-informed. We moved teaching sex-ed from eighth grade down to sixth grade the year that I taught the course because we realized that by 13, it was already too late to set up protective practices. Sixth grade was decided upon because by 12, some kids were already sexually-active and learning about birth control and the spread of STDs would come after risky behavior.

Of course, it would help greatly if education could begin at home, with parents teaching their kids how to make sound decisions and how to utilize birth control. Because right now, the kids are learning about sex from each other, which is the fastest way for misinformation to the spread.

If they were available in America, would you want preteens to have them?

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens and Lost and Found. Her book is Navigating the Land of If.

  • 18
  • Sparkle (
    )
     

Comments

Post comment as twitter logo facebook logo
Sort: Newest | Oldest
edavis 221 pts

I think the more we can talk with kids about sex and relationships and intimacy, the more children have a chance to process and make decisions based on principles and ideals rather than hormones.  That, of course, sounds quite lofty, but the alternative of having young kids learn from other young kids about stuff they've learned from the media without these long grown discussions just sets them up for choices that they are not ready for or decisions more in line with the extremes.  Access to condoms is a good thing I think.

Melissa Ford 53 pts

I think the fact that I waited was BECAUSE my parents spoke to us frankly, answered all our questions, asked us questions. They made me understand that they cared about whether or not I had sex beyond it being "right" or "wrong." And they helped me understand the reach of consequences. It goes a long way in creating the desired behaviour.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.com/ ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 53 pts

Is the shocking part the fact that 12--14-year-olds are having sex, or that the smaller condoms exist? While I'm sad over the idea of a 12-year-old having sex (I know few who make the choice with the foresight to consider all consequences), I do like the idea of giving them protection before dealing with the problem.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.com/ ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 53 pts

But they've already proven that abstinence-only education has been a failure at affecting pregnancy rates or stopping the spread of STDs. If we're not going to go that route AND we're not going to give the kids protection and information, what is the solution?

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.com/ ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 53 pts

I'm not sure I understand the homeschooling connection--because they won't be exposed to sex education at school?

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.com/ ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

fouragainsttwo 26 pts

I must say that the picture of this "little guy" looks an awful lot like a bottle nipple. Very appropriate since they are for BABIES. I hate the idea that these are needed, but they are needed. AHHHHHHH...I don't want to think about this stuff yet. Can I turn back the clock please!

All kidding aside. As long as education is going out with these condoms, it isn't a horrible idea. I so wish parents did more of the education and not just the schools.

It really isn't difficult to talk to your kids about sex, the first time it's awkward, then it's just normal. It is so important. We teach them to eat their veggies and drive a car. I think we can fit a healthy sex talk in between!
Mandy W.

FourAgainstTwo.com

frenchy Chick 5 pts

I think it is super sad and my thought is ...Who is trying to make money with kids and sex....That's sounds perverted to me...Sex=babies...kids need to know...anyone is still a kid until they reach 18....our job to make sure they know that if couples get pregnant by accident...They can too....Not to worry...I will adopt and a lot of people will. LOL
http://www.lechateaudesfleurs.blogspot.com/

WritRams 6 pts

...I'm not shocked by this, but I am.

Jacqueline Wilson (aka: WritRams) is a writer, blogger, educator, mother and wife. You can find her on her Writer Ramblings blog at www.WritRams.com ( http://www.writrams.com ) writing about a little of everything...maybe even you.

sushishishi 5 pts

AGHHHH!

USA has the biggest teen pregnancy statistics in the world. 1/3 of all girls in the United States will get pregnant in their teenage years, costing us around $7 billion/year.

When are we going to realize that ignoring the issue of sex AND offering ways of "safe" sex are not the answer to our problem!? Our problem is this overshadowing theme of instant gratificaion in this country. Sex is GREAT. In its time. If the adults of this country would practice and preach that message, there would be different statistics...i just know it.

(my first (willing) sexual experience was at age 24, the night of my wedding.)

IsleDance 5 pts

This is just one of the many reasons I support homeschooling. That, and the "Lord of the Flies" society we allow kids to rule. Gah.

One Friday night, I loaded up my life and headed out... ( http://isledance.blogspot.com )

Melissa Ford 53 pts

It is sad. I remember the first kid who came to talk to me at school (when I was a teacher). It was taking all I had not to scream at her, "I was playing with Barbie still when I was your age!"

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.com/ ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

JennaHatfield 184 pts

I have to say that I wish the boys that I had sex with (not at 14) would have had a mom like you. Condoms were NOT all the rage when I was introduced to sex and it was well after they SHOULD have been all the rage.

So, thank you for being you. I hope to raise my boys in a similar sense; a good mix of responsibility and respect.

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

texasebeth 87 pts

So sad it has come to this but it is happening. My sister teaches middle school (6/7/8th grade) & teaches the parenting/child development classes to the pregnant girls. The girls are having sex with boys in their age range, not 16, 17, ot 18 yr olds for the most part (some do of course).

When I was that age, boys still had cooties. *sigh*

I have had some interesting conversations regarding penises with my 5 year old son already. I plan on continuing these conversations, whether I like them or not, as he gets older.

Elizabeth

I tweet @texasebeth ( http://twitter.com/TexasEbeth ) , I blog at My Life, such as it is... ( http://texasebeth.blogspot.com/ ) and my Etsy shop, L ( http://www.landrdesigns.etsy.com/ )

Melissa Ford 53 pts

I think if you talk about it early and often in age-appropriate terms, you take some of the embarrassment out of it. At least, that's what I'm hoping.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.com/ ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 53 pts

True--but we all know men are terrible at judging size :-)

I still like that these are being passed out in schools and people are actually taking seriously the idea of protection rather than just paying it lip service. I'd rather kids didn't have sex, but if they are, I want them to be protected.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.com/ ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

clickmichelle 5 pts

LOL! In Mother Click's condom lesson, a cucumber was used as the teaching aid, along with a regular-sized condom. I told them, "I doubt you are bigger than this cucumber, and look, it still fits. Don't buy the marketing ploy."

Some blog (several years ago) had a hysterical commentary about wishful thinking and Magnum condoms. I wish I could find it now.

clickmichelle 5 pts

And in the Real World, kids have sex and they don't know a lot about it.

I was the embarrassing mom who made sure my sons knew the facts about sex, disease, and reproduction, and asked if they had condoms, needed condoms, or needed money to buy condoms on their way out the door. Granted, this was in the later teen years, and not at 14. But we cannot control when our children will decide that it's time to have sex. All we can do is maintain dialogue and give them the best information we can.

If that includes access to eensy weensy condoms... so be it.

DonnaFreedman 11 pts

I wonder how many 14-year-olds will be willing to say, "Give me the condom for the guys with small willies, please"?
After all, I'd bet money that some guys buy Magnum condoms (for the fuller-figured men) who don't really need them but THINK they do.
I'm reminded of comedian Elayne Boosler's comment about the larger-sized condoms; she thought their slogan should be, "You'll grow into them."
Incidentally: I think "tweenises" is hilarious.