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The Opposite of Happiness:
The Underside of Joy

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Seré Prince Halverson's debut novel, The Underside of Joy, is the breathtaking story of what happens when your world changes in an instant. A rogue wave takes Ella's husband, Joe, and in an instant everything changes. For three years, Ella has been the only mother their children have known. When Joe's ex-wife Paige shows up at his funeral, intent on reclaiming her children, it becomes clear that nothing will ever be the same again.

the underside of joy Seré Prince HalversonWhile reading this novel, I couldn't help but think that we were all so close to not reading it. Back in May, at BookExpo America's Adult Editors Book Buzz panel, I sat on the floor (it was a crowded room), and I heard the story of how The Underside of Joy came to be published. Penguin Editor Denise Roy told us how this book was rescued from that thing that aspiring writers dread -- the slush pile. It was rescued by literary agent Elizabeth Weed and later passed into Roy's hands. Roy, a widow, was approaching the one-year anniversary of her husband's death when the book found its way to her. It is a somewhat tragic coincidence of perfect timing, but the topic alone isn't what sold the book. The writing is superb.

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The Underside of Joy isn't a novel of stepmother versus birth mother. Ella isn't all good, and Paige isn't all bad. They just don't know each other, and what they do know is not the whole story. There's too much misinformation -- too many secrets. Many times while reading the book, you wish that someone really was the bad guy. There were times I wanted to hate Paige, but I couldn't. I will confess to frequently wishing that Joe were real and alive so I could grab him by his coat collar and give him a good shake. Even though I tried, and believe me I tried, I couldn't make Joe the bad guy. He made mistakes, but he never intended to leave them for others to fix.

I have to give thanks to Prince Halverson for reminding me just how far we've advanced the conversation about post-partum depression since the 1990s. I have spent years online reading personal stories and reading the words of women like Katherine Stone who encourage us all to become educated about post-partum depression and share our stories. What would have had happened if Paige had been able to communicate with other women struggling with post-partum depression?

In The Underside of Joy, Seré Prince Halverson didn't just give us a novel about family drama. She gave us a novel about love, hope and redemption. For every happiness, there is an equal and opposite moment. It is, indeed, the underside of joy.

We'll be discussing The Underside of Joy for the next month in BlogHer Book Club. Join the conversation!

BlogHer Book Club Host Karen Ballum also blogs at Sassymonkey and Sassymonkey Reads.

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dancingnancy1 7 pts

I was so ready to hate Paige, but love how Sere took you from loathing her to completely sympathizing with her.

KatieCanavan 7 pts

I completely agree - Paige was such a wonderful character. You hated her a little, but as the story unfolded, she became a person with a complicated and sad story, and completely sympathetic. I cannot imagine being in her shoes!

sassymonkey 531 pts moderator

KatieCanavan I would have been so easy to make Paige someone that we all hated. Instead the author gave us moments where we got mad at her (manipulating Annie much?) but couldn't fully hate her.

BalancingJane 8 pts

Halverson did a great job of making Paige sympathetic. There were two details that really resonated with me. First, that Paige reacted so extremely and abandoned her children because of her own mother's disease and horrendous actions. Second, that Paige viewed Ella as an interruption to the life she was supposed to have. After treatment, she planned to go back to Joe, but Ella had stepped in. And the part that made it so painful was--through no fault of Ella's--Paige was right: she and Joe probably would have reunited.

sassymonkey 531 pts moderator

BalancingJane I agree that Paige and Joe would have reunited... but I'm not sure they would have stayed together. I don't know that Joe's family really would have welcomed her back and that would have caused a huge strain.

scaron 10 pts

There were many times when I wanted to hate Paige or Joe, but it's really true -- no one was a villain here. They were all just trying to do their best and sometimes doing your best means making mistakes as all three parents did.

sassymonkey 531 pts moderator

scaron There were times were I could almost hate them. Almost. But then there was always something that pulled me back.

Nylorac 6 pts

I found myself mad at Joe too! Then I thought about it more, he was hurt and maybe given more time, he'd have made some other and different decisions.I have to agree, the writing was superb!

sassymonkey 531 pts moderator

Nylorac I was SO mad at him. I mostly got over it by the end but there was still a little bit of bitterness there.

Rita Arens 104 pts

I was thinking about postpartum depression through that whole section. Once I realized that was part of Paige's story, the world shifted.

sassymonkey 531 pts moderator

Rita Arens It did. And it made so many things make more sense.

NotoriousMLE 8 pts

Rita Arens It did and it reminded me that as a society we are very judgmental of mothers, oftentimes wihtout knowing the whole story..