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Unsought Leadership: How Anita Hill Called Out Workplace Harassment and Changed Everything

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Was there ever any domination that did not appear natural to those who possessed it?--John Stuart Mill, 18th century economist

If you’re a woman over 40, you’ve probably had an Anita Hill Moment. That aha when you realized those suggestive comments, undesired gropes, and surreptitious ass-pats you’d long endured in the male-dominated workplace had a name: sexual harassment. 

If you’re under age 40, you probably grew up knowing not only about sexual harassment as a concept, but also that it is a prosecutable offense you shouldn’t put up with it for one minute.  You’ve probably had training about it in your workplace, and know how to report it safely if it rears its ugly head. So whether or not you realized it, you’ve had your Anita Hill moment too.

All because of unsought leadership.

Anita Hill

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Twenty years ago, Hill, an unassuming, elegant, and soft-spoken University of Oklahoma professor, testified under oath to the then all white male U.S. Senate Judiciary Committee that Supreme Court nominee Clarence Thomas had sexually harassed her when she worked for him at the Equal Employment Opportunities Commission several years previously. That both the accuser and the accused are African American escalated the temperature of the rhetoric surrounding the hearings and ignited a media frenzy.

Last column, we talked about how to exert leadership despite not having formal authority or position. Such opportunities are rarely as dramatic as confronting one’s alleged harasser before a Senate committee and, via C-Span, before a riveted public. But they happen everywhere, every day.

My friend Loretta McCarthy, Managing Director of the venture investor consortium Golden Seeds that invests in female-led start-ups, and formerly chief marketing officer for financial giant Oppenheimer Funds and a marketing executive at American Express, told me that in her observation, often the people who know the most about what customers want, for example, are the people with the least formal power in the organization, such as the frontline sales or customer service staff.

But those running the show would be well served to seek them out, and to create welcoming processes through which they can share their knowledge. Remember the Classic Coke debacle? And the more recent tale of how Netflix CEO Reed Hastings disregarded advice not to divide the movie rental services into two parts, causing customers to subscribe to two different services, along with price hikes? They lost 800,000 customers and took a huge revenue bath as a result.

Ever wonder why so many whistleblowers are women?

In many instances, whether profane or profound, leadership isn’t sought but comes to us in the form of a decision crossroads. In those moments of choice, leaders show what they are made of, and new leaders are born. “It is our choices ... that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities,” as J.K. Rowling, author of the Harry Potter series says.

Wikipedia’s list of whistleblowers includes more men than women. But it seems to me that considering women remain fewer than 20% of top leadership positions in companies and organizations across all sectors of the economy, women disproportionately notice power abuses and call them out. Enron’s Sherron Watkins comes to mind.

Because women have traditionally been outside the power structure, perhaps their moral lens remain less obscured by the sense of domination of which John Stewart Mill—who not co-incidentally was an early feminist--speaks in the opening quote above.

Opting Out of Being Co-opted

At a conference marking the Anita Hill—Clarence Thomas events 20th anniversary, held at New York’s Hunter College 10/15, some of my colleagues reported that many women have told them things are worse for women in the workplace since Anita Hill raised the issue of sexual harassment. That’s a common, and understandable, fear-based reaction--one that kept Hill from reporting the incidents at the time they happened.

  • Fear of not being believed.
  • Fear of being seen as a snitch, of not being a team player, of having a personal vendetta.
  • Fear of retaliation—getting fired, not getting that promotion, being cut out of the inner circle.

It’s true that few people come through such confrontations unscathed. Polls at the time that Anita Hill spoke up found that 70% of the public thought she was lying. And in the end, Clarence Thomas was confirmed to the Supreme Court.

Still, important measures of progress are noted in the New York Times editorial “Sexual Harassment 20 Years Later."  Despite warnings that because of how Hill (now a professor at Brandeis) had been publicly treated by the senators, fewer women

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doyan 5 pts

The entire thing stunk of dirty liberal politics. She followed Thomas to his next job after the supposed harassment. Liberals are the masters of politics of personal destruction.

doyan 5 pts

I wonder why she kept following him after the so-called and well timed harassments.

The entire thing stunk of polotics and liberals play dirty polotics better than anyone.

GeorgiaMist 6 pts

I vividly recall watching those Hearings and watching and listening closely to Anita Hill. I believed she was lying then and I believe it still. She's not my "hero" -- I find her to be completely non-credible. To each his own, however. Your opinion may vary.

Gloria Feldt 8 pts

Interesting reaction, GeorgiaMist. Thanks for reading and commenting. Because one of the (male) volunteer lawyers helping her was one of the most ethical people i ever knew, I never had a minute of doubt about her honesty, above and beyond my inclination as a woman to believe her.

Switching to the main point of the piece, have you ever been in a position where you took leadership even though you hadn't sought it because you felt something needed to be done? GeorgiaMist

vpynchon 5 pts

Thanks, Gloria, for the optimism and for your continuing exhortations to step out and step up to the plate. I opted out of the feminist movement for a shameful couple of decades because, as you know, I just wanted to be a lawyer, not a WOMAN lawyer, and it was you who said to me that the only voice I had was female. Maybe THAT was my Anita Hill moment - 20 years later.

Gloria Feldt 8 pts

Aha, variation on theme! There are all sorts of Anita Hill moments because there are all sorts of ways women have been harassed--subtle daily diminishment being one of the most common.

Yesterday I spent an hour on the phone with a bright and ambitious young woman who was trying to persuade me that the way to get younger women engaged in empowering women is to distance her business (through which she said she wanted to engage and empower women) from feminism. She needs to read the chapter in my book No Excuses "Opt Out of Being Co-Opted."

The way to success for women in the workplace is not to try to be men, or to deny their own identity, but to be more authentically ourselves.

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Sharon_Haywood
Sharon_Haywood

RT GloriaFeldt What more needs to be done to eliminate sexual harassment in the workplace? #Leadership http://t.co/nIIRKvIx

GloriaFeldt
GloriaFeldt

ALA_COSWL thank you for the tweets re my BlogHer column! Really appreciate it.

GloriaFeldt
GloriaFeldt

NadineHack Thanks for giving a shout out to my BlogHerCareer column Unsought #Leadership http://t.co/8FXceZk1
When will u b back?

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Terri Patillo
Terri Patillo

Interesting. I recall watching her "testimony" and thinking she was a great liar. I still think she's a liar.