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People often say that one person's actions can't change the world. That one woman using a reusable shopping bag won't do anything. That one mom buying her groceries at the farmers' market doesn't make a difference. That one family isn't going to stop global warming by composting.

And ... I think that's fair. It's true that my actions alone aren't going to STOP global warming in it's tracks.

But here's the other truth that those people never mention:

We can't curb global warming WITHOUT individual action.

I've said this before, but I think it bears repeating: social movement precedes public policy. And historically, women and mothers have been the backbone of social movements.

Most people, when asked who was responsible for abolition, would immediately respond: Lincoln. But Lincoln didn't just show up on the national scene in a vacuum. On the contrary, the moral crisis over slavery was first fought in individual homes, towns, and churches. Hundreds and hundreds of mothers read Harriet Beecher Stowe's landmark novel, Uncle Tom's Cabin. Hundreds and hundreds of mothers imagined what it would be like to have their child sold into slavery. And soon, hundreds and hundreds of mothers were declaring slavery to be immoral.

Abolition was quickly gaining steam in social circles and churches, but meanwhile, in Washington, Congress and the Presidents of the era were practicing avoidance. For eight years in 1830s and 40s, Congress was actually FORBIDDEN from even DISCUSSING slavery. Finally, in 1850, two years before Uncle Tom's Cabin was published, Congress passed the Compromise of 1850, and with it, the Fugitive Slave Law, which made every citizen complicit in the slave trade. In 1857, the Supreme Court ruled that slaves were property in the egregious Dred Scott decision. When Lincoln was elected, South Carolina seceded from the Union, and the lame duck President Buchanan, actually sat around and did NOTHING. That's right. Nothing.

My point is, while the abolition movement was heating up, while this crisis that would eventually lead to secession was becoming a bigger and bigger issue, our elected leaders did very little. It was not until they were compelled to act by societal forces that anything ever changed. So while, yes, eventually, slavery was abolished due to the 13th Amendment, there wouldn't have ever BEEN a thirteenth amendment if it weren't for individuals banding together to create the abolition movement.

Today, our nation is also facing a major crisis. And just like in 1850, our elected leaders are showing a certain reluctance to actually lead. Indeed, if you were to look at the actions of our government to curb global warming, one would probably think, "We're all doomed."

But ... we're not doomed, and here's why. While the government dilly dallies, and the Earth grows hotter, individuals have been acting. Farmers markets are multiplying. Reusable bags are all the rage. People are driving less, and using public transit more often. People are recycling, composting, line drying clothes, and growing their own food.

And these people who seem to be responsible for most of these changes?

Women. Mothers.

It's very simple really. Mothers still tend to be the ones responsible for the management of a household. They are the ones who often are responsible for buying the groceries, cooking, and drying the clothes. And thus, they are the ones who wield the power to change how their family as a whole operates.

Mothers in our society tend to get ignored by everyone but advertisers and politicians. And the advertisers assume that mothers only care about shopping, and the politicians assume that mothers only care about soccer games and safety.

But the truth is, mothers are much, much more intelligent and complex.

Mothers care about safety, yes, but they're not just worried about terrorists and kidnappers. They care about the safety of our food systems. They care about the toxins that are in our household cleaning products. They care about antibiotics in our drinking water.

And beyond safety, these mothers care about people. They care about building a better society. Their hearts ache for the child whose entire life was dispaced by Katrina. They worry for the Bangladeshi mother who is going to bear the brunt of climate change.

The moms I've had the fortune to meet on the blogosphere are fierce, they are determined, and they

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greenmoms 5 pts

Your post is so incredible and inspiring, that I am going to share it with appropriate family, friends, and especially my GreenMoms group. Let me know if this is not ok. I am assuming it is. Thanks!

GreenMoms, Melinda

www.GreenMomsCoastside.com ( http://www.greenmomscoastside.com/ )

Green On! Your Children Will Thank You For It.

greenmoms 5 pts

Your blog was....wow! I laughed, I cried. You are so right, and thanks for the tribute to moms BTW.

I totally agree about leading by example and another thing that seems to work in my greenmoms group is that we inspire the heck out of each other through discussion and sharing of ideas. We only get better at being green when we are supportive of each other.
Lastly, I just want to say that it is so true that one person alone is not going to change the world, but when more and more people start to make little and big green changes collectively, it adds up pretty quick. Thanks for this awesome post!

GreenMoms, Melinda

www.GreenMomsCoastside.com ( http://www.greenmomscoastside.com/ )

Green On! Your Children Will Thank You For It.

AlliesAnswers 5 pts

Such a great post.  It's great to have a reminder that personal green changes matter. 

arduous 5 pts

Christine, I completely agree with you re: leading by example. I'm amazed how much setting an example can cause people to change!!

Beth, I'm not a mom either, but you knew that. But I do think that the contribution of mothers have been historically diminished, so I wrote this, not to leave out other groups, but rather to pay tribute to moms.

SmartMama, love the story!! That's great!

Surely you Nest, TOTALLY agree with you re: honey versus vinegar! That has been true in my personal experience as well.

Ruchi

http://arduousblog.blogspot.com/

Mama Bird 5 pts

I love this post as it affirms so much of why I care about my kids' health and the state of the earth for them and their children. It makes me muse about the folks loudly questioning, for instance, the plastics reduction. It's like the critics of simplicity and attempting to green one's actions are on hypocrisy patrol. When, of course, we all make complicated, varied choices and we're all flawed! That's why I love the SmartMama's calm answers to the critics in the comment above - catch more flies with honey than vinegar - and note that some others who were quietly listening got a lot out of the exchange.Heck, this post shows exactly what I love about blogging and the online green community - half the time I am just curious about the choices others have made since life is so awfully complicated (toxins, climate impact, sustainability, fair trade and on and on not to mention the bottom line!). I want to hear more alternatives to plastics and consumerism, not less. Keep posting! Great affirmation!

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thesmartmama 5 pts

I love this post!  I often get asked why I bother to do x, y or z.  In fact, just two days ago, several members of my office asked me why I was so concerned about plastic bags - I think I carried in my food court bought lunch without a bag.  And I explained to them about every piece of plastic made in the last 50 years STILL BEING AROUND today, with much of it floating in the Great Pacific Garbage Patch, where, in some areas, plastic pieces outnumber plankton at a ratio of 48 to 1.  So that I skipped plastic bags to do my part to eliminate plastic.

And I was asked, what about shopping?  I answered I used re-usable totes.  What about food storage?  I answered usually glass or ceramic or butcher paper.  What about your kids' lunches?  Re-usable containers.  What about dog poop on walks?  For that, yes, plastic, but the bio-plastic bags.  What about your trash cans?  I don't line them - just take them straight to the garbage can, except for the kitchen, and I use paper.

And I could see the wheels turning for one of the women - she's a grandmother.  So I said to her - I want my children and my children's children to enjoy their time on this earth.  To be able to know the oceans are full of fish and not plastic.  Why shouldn't I be part of the solution and not the problem?

And you know?  She had a re-usable tote this morning on her arm.

We can change the world.

Beth Terry 5 pts

Thanks for posting this, Arduous.  It helps clarify why each of us must continue with our individual actions, but also that we must make sure those actions are seen by others.  Not so we can get brownie points for being good little "greenies," (I just used "brownie" and "greenie" in the same sentence) but so we can be an example to others and create ripples that will spread out into the world.

I sometimes feel left out of posts like this because I'm not a mother, but as a woman, I do feel a maternal instinct towards all life in general and particularly the animals that are threatened by so many of our careless actions.

Beth Terry http://www.fakeplasticfish.com

geekgirl 5 pts

I tend to think also, that people lead by example.  Taking the grocery bags to the daycare so they can reuse them for wet clothing, and washing out a jar to reuse for paperclips and going on Saturday to the CSA are things I do for my family - and these small acts teach my children something.  And they give me an avenue to discuss the recycled jar on my desk.

I tend not to think of politicians as leaders, but as figureheads for all the citizens, an amalgam of who we are.  

Christine

Frog in North Georgia ( http://froginnorthgeorgia.com/ )