I was watching an episode of Army Wives in which Joan (a high ranking officer) is being deployed to Iraq and the day she leaves her daughter gets sick and daddy (Army husband) has to take her to the hospital in a hurry with 105 degree temperature. What the heck!!?? She later calls to see how things are and he lies and tells her everything is great, baby is keeping me busy, we miss you, don't worry about us...etc. Well, that's not all that uncommon. It really is pointless to complain to them about our problems at home when they have much more to worry about and there' Read more >