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  1. When a Road Trip Changed My Life

    The summer after I was in Eighth Grade, I took a trip with my youth group. We’d been planning for over a year, fund-raising and working toward that goal of renting a cargo van and taking off from our sleepy New England town and heading to parts south for a week. We were participating in a service project for a family in rural Tennessee. Our particular job was to install sheet rock and new floorboards in their home in the Appalachian Mountains, which was way off the beaten path. To say it was a life-changing experience for me seems too trite, too pat.  Read more >

  2. The Kid: Harrowing and Raw

    When I began reading The Kid by Sapphire, I felt as if I'd been grabbed by the throat and thrown into a maelstrom of confusion and fear.  Read more >

  3. Being Free

    I used to drive a lot.  For years, I had a long commute to work and I liked it that way.  It was my own space to prepare for a long work day and to decompress on the ride home. My car was also my freedom, and the highway was the ribbon that connected me to any place I wanted to go.  Back in my single days, I'd hop in my car to go anywhere I felt like--into Boston to see a concert; clear across the state of Massachusetts to meet up with a hot Aussie for a couple beers;  down to Philly, to reconnect with a college friend. I loved me a road trip.  Read more >

  4. What Happened to Goodbye: Realistic Characters, Compelling Story

    From the first page, I could relate to the main character in Sarah Dessen's latest novel, What Happened to Goodbye. Like Mclean, I moved a lot when I was younger. Each move offered the chance to start fresh in another location, knowing nobody.  Read more >

  5. Getting to Happy: Reuiniting With Old Friends

    It had been a long time since I'd read Waiting to Exhale. I was excited to read McMillan's sequel, Getting to Happy, and admittedly a bit apprehensive. Would I still feel the kinship to Bernadine, Robin, Gloria and Savannah that I had felt years ago? Would the characters still resonate with me? I was in a different place in my life back then, and so were the women around whom the books revolve.  Read more >

  6. Girl in Translation: The Lot of a Child Forced to Move

    In her debut novel, Girl in Translation, Jean Kwok takes us on a moving journey that weaves the themes of family ties, culture shock and young love into a rich coming-of-age tapestry.  Read more >

  7. An open letter to Oprah Winfrey

    Dear Oprah, At 4 p.m. Monday, having studiously avoided all on-line references to the "big reveal" that you had scheduled, I flipped on the T.V. in my kitchen. My eyes pricked with tears listening to you weave the tale of Patricia.  As you narrated her story, I knew before you ever said it.  I knew Patricia was your sister.  Allow me to congratulate you on the new addition to your family!  Read more >

  8. Fresh Start Fridays: What They Did for My Family

    Yacht Knot

    We can be emotional pack-rats, as well. Our burdens weigh heavily on our minds. And I know that when I have a lot on my mind (lately, it's been primarily financial concerns, with my kids' education taking the number two slot) my stress bleeds out into my day to day interactions. I'm short and snippy with my kids. I'm grumpy and frazzled and overwhelmed, so when the boy really wants a cereal bar for breakfast and all I can offer him is toast, I'm sometimes more biting and snotty about my response than I'd like to be.  Read more >

  9. How I Fought Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)

    Treadmill

    Last August, as the days quietly got shorter, I knew I'd either have to get myself back on anti-depressants, or find another route to keep my head in a good place -- November was coming. Nothing is worse than having two kids just becoming excited about the upcoming holidays and feeling as if I'm in an absolute pit. of. despair.  Read more >

  10. How I fought Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and lost 45 pounds in the process: Part 1

    It was usually around Veteran's Day when it would hit me full force.  That winter funk.  I realized this back in college.  I couldn't study.  I couldn't write.  I couldn't concentrate on my reading.  I didn't want to  go to class.  I just wanted to pull the covers over my head and go back to sleep.  Read more >

Margaret Barney

Full Name
Margaret Barney
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June 2008
About Me: 

I'm a writer, a woman, a wife, a mother, a feminist, a friend, a sister and more. 

Currently, I'm working on several non-fiction projects while trying keeping my blog current, my kids fed, and my house clean reasonably livable.  I'm a mom of two, and stepmom of two more.   I confess to escaping the chaos by reading and gardening.

I found BlogHer in 2006 and have watched it grow over the years.  I've found amazing women who write on-line, which keeps me from feeling so isolated by my call to writing.

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