XXandra

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  1. Some Unique Orgasm Tips

    6/3/09 2:53pm by XXandra
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    Who knew the cure for some really big problems is right under our nose and between our legs. Yup, according a recent post by Penelope Trunk, people who have orgasms earn more, hang out with higher powered people, are better at public speaking, and walk with a more confident gait. Of course, there’s always a hitch. Or in this case, a gap—the "orgasm gap."  Read more >

  2. Ask a cougar: Why do Younger Men Like Older Women?

    5/18/09 8:41pm by XXandra
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    I got an email from an anonymous cougar who wonders why younger men like older women. She’s had a relationship with a young man and described it as torture, always worried if he’s comparing you to younger women.  Read more >

  3. Ask A Cougar: Should You Consider a Job in Porn?

    5/13/09 4:26pm by XXandra
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    Just when I was wondering, ‘What’s next in porn?’ Along comes an article in the May 2009 issue of Marie Claire about the rise of MILF porn.  Read more >

  4. Ask A Cougar: How to Be A Cougar Woman

    5/6/09 4:30pm by XXandra
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    You ever hear that statistic about how the more educated you are, the less likely you’ll want to marry? Or how the divorce rate increases with each marriage? What does that tell you? Maybe that us seasoned gals got more interesting things to do than fuss and fret over what he meant by that comment, or what he was really doing that weekend. We’re busy doing exactly what we want to do and not necessarily because there’s some grand sense of purpose and destiny behind it. Maybe it’s just fun and feels good.  Read more >

  5. Ask A Cougar: Traveling With Your Younger Boyfriend (and a Dog)

    4/29/09 4:50pm by XXandra
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    When I told a friend that Michael, my younger boyfriend, and I were taking a road trip to San Diego for the weekend, I could see her eyebrows arch even though we were talking by phone. Then I heard her question even though I was the one talking, “What, Pam, could you possibility have to talk about on a 10 hour car ride with a guy nearly half your age?”  Read more >

  6. Ask A Cougar: Does a cougar need to be rich, not just sexy?

    4/21/09 3:37pm by XXandra
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    Is it enough for an older woman wanting to date a younger man to be sexy or does she need to be rich too? I mean, let’s really think about this because we all know the reverse is true. I’m going to take a windy road to answer this vital question. Let’s start with TV, which I deeply love. We all agree, I’m sure, that TV is one of the most powerful persuaders of how we see ourselves. Which is exactly why I drove over to my friend’s house for the 10PM premier of the newest reality show, The Cougar.  Read more >

  7. Ask A Cougar: When to have sex with a "cub"

    4/14/09 12:47pm by XXandra
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    There comes a time in every woman’s life when she has to ask herself, does it really matter how long after the first date you wait before having sex with a guy? A question that brings me to another question from a reader calling herself, “Jaguar.”  Jaguar was annoyed at having been left hanging in the last post and asks, “How long should a cougar wait before having sex with a new cub?”  Read more >

  8. 4 Reasons to Avoid Natural Menopause Treatment

    4/7/09 9:26am by XXandra
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    I finally hit my limit today. I’m officially fed up with menopause websites that slam “hrt,” or hormone replacement therapy, in order to sell some so called, natural menopause treatment. The natural alternative, they claim, is a miracle product that fixes all your menopause symptoms and makes you feel like a million bucks. Or, at the very least makes them a million bucks.  Read more >

  9. Looking for the Caring Caveman

    2/2/09 9:42pm by XXandra
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    Think you’re turned on by the same fantasies that turn on most other women? Take my completely unscientific test and find out. Which one of the following scenes turns your button “on”?  Read more >

  10. Life In the Toilet

    1/23/09 11:27am by XXandra
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    I know this isn’t exactly polite conversation, trust me, it’s necessary. You’re about to read the “inside” history, the story of my stomach. For all those with unremitting digestive problems, read on: there is hope.  Read more >

XXandra

Full Name
XXandra
Member Since
October 2008
About Me: 

Everyone knows you only talk about sex in secret. Everyone but me that is. I’m Pamela, approaching "older woman" status fast and furiously, and blogging with unabashed bias and candidness about sex, menopause, hormones, and relationships. Who’s doing it, how they’re doing it, and what keeps them doing it. Now, for those all thinking, "that’s got to be one short website, older women don't have sex!" Let me respectfully say, "oh, so wrong." Just see for yourself at http://seasonedsex.com/.

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