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So I find myself in a new relationship of sorts, but it is wonderful and familiar and pretty damn secure, all wrapped into one.
He went to high school with my cousin. I am 11 months older than he is. He and I became acquaintances in 2006, with me forming a stupid crush on him, at the time I was single and he was pursuing my cousin. My cousin was not interested in him, he was not interested in me, and I went back to my husband. That is a long, ugly story better saved for another day. He met someone new, and the 4 of us went out casually to Providence Waterfire, and on a motorcycle run. I left my husband and met someone new, Shannon left his girlfriend and stayed single for maybe 6 months or so and that's when he and I started chatting deeper online, and when he gave a signal that he was interested in me, I jumped at the chance to be with him, and here I am, sitting on my comfy couch fixin to write about marriage, of all things.
The shocker is even though we have known each other for 4 years, we have gotten to know each other well for the past year, and became an item on July 4, 2009 and moved in together on August 1.
So far, it is WONDERFULLLllll.
We are both divorced. Shannon got married when he was 19, the poor bastard. He married a Mormon girl because he was screwing her and her parents found out. Anyway his wedding was less than anything he could have wanted it to be, at 19 who knows WHAT they want... I got married at 26 and had the wedding I did want.
So me and him were sitting here talking about weddings and he stated that he wanted all 80's music at his reception... if he ever got married again. That's how we talk; I say "If I ever got married again..." that way it isn't scaring him and stuff... He doesnt feel the search light on him, no pressure, and hey, maybe I won't get married ever again, who knows? He kinda messed up when he said "and you could dress like madonna in that wedding gown"... sounds like a fantasy, but I'm game...
