I've already decided that if it's possible, I'm voting for Hillary.
I'm not sure she's my favorite candidate. I do think voting for a person of color is also important. Wanting to put a qualified woman in office doesn't negate wanting to support men or women of color. I don't think Barack is ready. I didn't think Edwards was ready in the last cycle, and I don't think Barack is ready in this cycle. I think Barack will someday be president, just not yet. I like what Hillary's Web site says about healthcare, childcare, education and the environment. I agree with a lot of her positions, but she's moderate, and I agree with a lot of moderate Democrats.
I think she's pretty plastic, a professional politician and not particularly charismatic. I liked her better when she had bad hair and was a little bit of a loose cannon. Yes, the woman is greedy for power. Usually you have to be a little power-hungry to run for our country's highest office. Are we more sensitive to her desire for success because she's a Clinton or because she's a woman? Hillary may want to be in office, but she's not dumb. She knows the country is very sensitive to issues of power at this moment. I do believe she intends to use her power for more good than evil. I really do.
I'm voting for Hillary for the same reason I lost my virginity - holding onto it until I found the perfect guy was becoming such an elevated ideal that I was never going to find a guy perfect enough to deserve it, my purity, my lotus flower, my blooming womanhood. I was going to walk around forever, deeming every man I met not worthy, until I finally ruined myself of finding love anywhere, my expectations unrealistic. So I slept with the guy I was dating at the time. I got it over with. And then I moved on to the rest of my life.
This country needs to just go ahead and elect a woman already. It's time. We all know it's time, are itching to just GET IT OVER WITH, get a woman in office and put an end to the questions of whether or not her PMS is going to interfere with her foreign policy. Hey, I'm a woman, and I'm an emotional wreck, but I'm not the kind of woman who is going to run for public office. The kind of woman who runs for public office has big, brass balls of her own that she wears on a pearl strand around her neck. The kind of woman who runs for office stands next to her husband while he's talking about whether or not he had his dick sucked by an intern and then the next year runs for Senate. Folks, Hillary isn't going to break into tears over much. She's a female politician, and she's tough. Give her the job. Let's get this over with.
I am going to vote for Hillary because this country needs practice accepting a female leader, and Hillary can handle being the first. She may not be the best candidate I can think of to be Leader of the Free World, but she's good enough to pave the path for better candidates of the female variety in the future. Allowing women to take a viable swing at our nation's highest office will bring twice as many candidates to the table in future elections.
Our entire judicial system is set on precedent. Our Constitution, on which we base all of our laws, is one big precedent. It's the way we structure our beliefs in this country - we believe that if we've seen it happen once, it can happen again. But until we've seen it happen, we doubt. I've got an opportunity to vote to make it happen. Listen, if Hillary were a right-wing Republican, I wouldn't vote for her just because she's a woman. She's not. I do think she's a moderate Democrat. I'm way more liberal than Hillary, but she's got good positions on healthcare and education, and she's learned from her mistakes on Iraq. She's a good, Democrat woman, up against good, Democrat men. Apples to apples, I'm taking the pear.
This election is an important one, but it's not the only one. We haven't had a female candidate in a viable position to win in my voting history. I'm shocked we've gone this long, and I think it's because running a presidential campaign takes literally millions of dollars. As long as no woman has won the presidency, women will have a VERY hard time raising the money required to run a viable campaign. Campaign reform doesn't even seem to help - then the money just gets funneled to the parties, who dole it out using focus groups and polls and other data to make their decisions, and the American people sit around wondering if a woman can do it, and we wouldn't even be having that particularly discussion if we had a viable, competent female give it a shot. No, I don't think Hillary's perfect. I do think she's too smooth, a Clinton, a lawyer. She is saying she's going to improve healthcare, and she gave it a good try before. I believe this is an issue close to her heart. It's the issue that's closest to my heart right now. I like some of the other Dems, but if all things are equal and it's woman versus man, I'm going to vote to break that barrier. You can vote the way you want. It's a free country.
And I'd like it to be a free country led by someone with big brass ovaries. For once.
Cross-posted from Surrender, Dorothy.






Comments
Rita, better save this one for your next book
By: Lisa Stone Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoBam!
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Surfette
*snort*
By: veronicaeye Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoI'm voting for Hillary for the same reason I lost my virginity - holding onto it until I found the perfect guy was becoming such an elevated ideal that I was never going to find a guy perfect enough to deserve it, my purity, my lotus flower, my blooming womanhood.
I love it! This is awesome. Thanks for the reasons and the laugh.
My favorite post EVER
By: Denise Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoThis post might possibly be my favorite blog post of all time. Loved every word.
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Flamingo House Happenings
Oh. My. G.................
By: Erin Kotecki Vest Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoLOVE THIS.
Disagree that Barack isn't ready, but agree on just about every thing else.
Politics & News Contributing Editor
Queen of Spain
Love It!
By: mammaloves Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoThe trouble is my first time wasn't so hot.
Terrific post!!
Vote, just another four-letter for ...
By: Lisa Stone Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agodisappointing sex. Work with me ladies:
"Did you vote (person)?"
"I'm so voted"
"Mothervoter."
Think #3 is my fave.
Lisa Stone
BlogHer Co-founder
Surfette
Make that "muthavoter"
By: Lisa Stone Posted: 17 weeks 6 days ago(ducking)
Lisa Stone
BlogHer Co-founder
Surfette
We need to get NIKE to support her - JUST DO IT.
By: dkaye315 Posted: 17 weeks 5 days agoReally great post.
Being a Republicrat, I don't vote for the party, but for the best qualified person. In years past, there have been elections where I didn't have faith in any of the candidates, so I didn't vote - wasn't willing to cast a vote for one to ensure the loss of another.
While it is definitely time for a change, I'll reserve final judgment on whom I feel will be the best candidate to lead this crumbling country until we're in the final stretch - when all punches are pulled and the mudslinging begins. The better candidate will be the one to rise above the mudslinging and hold steadfast to their original platform(s). That, in my eyes, will distinguish the candidates between being just another "Politician" or a "True Leader."
jmo
Donna
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Great Post, Rita
By: Maria Niles Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoI actually wrote a lengthy post last night with a very different perspective but I think your post is brilliant and I've edited mine to encourage everyone to read yours. I'm glad we are having this discussion.
PopConsumer
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Wonderful Post!
By: MSmith Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoI haven't decided who I'm voting for yet, but I agree with just about everything you said.
Years ago when I needed to hire my first lawyer, I went out of my way to find a woman because I decided if I was going to give my hard earned money to someone in such a white male dominated industry, I wanted it to be a woman, preferably of color.
Well I eventually found a woman who came highly recommended and she did my legal work for years. Then for no apparent reason she started to flake out on me. Work didn,t get done, deadlines weren't met and I could never get her on the phone. She eventually moved to another state and I haven't heard from her since.
My lesson? Still hire a woman. It's just as easy to complain about the crappy work of a woman as it is the crappy work of a man!
Megan
www.megansminute.com
Amazing, Rita
By: Morra Aarons Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoUS ranks 82nd in the world in female representation- voting in Hillary is the only thing that can change that.
Thank you for writing this. But I'm still undecided.
Thank you
By: kperfetto Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoI am going to vote for Hillary because this country needs practice accepting a female leader, and Hillary can handle being the first. She may not be the best candidate I can think of to be Leader of the Free World, but she's good enough to pave the path for better candidates of the female variety in the future.
I needed a reason to believe in Hilary Clinton again; I'll take it. I swing far, far left, but I agree: Obama isn't ready.
Available Light & Five Dollar Radio
You are so boss.
By: CityMama Posted: 17 weeks 6 days agoMan, you rule! Hard!
You make a compelling argument for voting for Hillary, but gah, I think it comes down to the fact that I don't align myself with moderate democrats. I want more radical changeosity...which is why I'm voting Edwards... I may have my chance to vote for Hillary yet.
Stefania Pomponi Butler
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By: Judith in Umbria Posted: 17 weeks 5 days agoI like this idea. I've been watching from a European country as if at a tennis match. Person of color? Female? The American public is being forced to confront their prejudices both at once. I am not in love with either, but I will vote for Clinton in the expatriates primary.
USians like to think of themselves as world leaders, but we have been foot-dragging on the recognition of talents and abilities of women far too long. We are actually in denial about the possibilities of leadership in anyone but old white guys, yanno? Enough.
http://www.judithgreenwood.com/thinkonit/
I was worried how ya'll would take this.
By: Rita Arens Posted: 17 weeks 5 days agoI got pretty smeared in my comments when I did Week of Hillary on Surrender, Dorothy. I'm amazed and gratified that you can stay undecided regarding a vote without feeling the need to take me down for my positions. I think that speaks volumes to your character. I am proud to be a part of this group.
And Lisa, my company network won't let me comment on Typepad, but thank you for your post today. I heart you, too.
Surrender, Dorothy - When I was your age, we just let them ride in the back window.
hmmmm
By: Mir Kamin Posted: 17 weeks 5 days agoHey Rita,
I've been mulling this over. And you know, I can't remember if I commented on your first post on Surrender, Dorothy or not. But either way, here goes:
I love your conviction. I love your balls. I love that if this is the way you feel, you say it.
That said, I respectfully disagree. I think that electing the wrong woman to the White House will be more damaging to the cause of getting more women into higher office than waiting for the right one. Now, I'm not saying Clinton is the wrong one (she is, for me, but I'm not trying to convince anyone of that, and it's beside the point), but I do wince a little when I see your continued assertion that you really don't care if she's right or not.
When did electing someone on the basis of their gender become acceptable? I want to see a woman in office, sure. Not BECAUSE she's female, though. I'd also like to see a leader of color, but voting for Obama BECAUSE he's black isn't okay with me, either.
Our democratic process (which, yes, okay, isn't actually a democracy, I know) is SUPPOSED to be about selecting the best candidate. The best person for the job. Even if you want to put that aside and say "this will blaze the path for change in the future" you have to consider the possibility that such logic can backfire, badly, if your first representative of the group you want to further isn't an absolute rockstar.
And you know I say all of this in the spirit of debate, and have enormous respect for you. I just don't happen to agree.
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Mir Kamin
(BlogHer Mommy & Family contributing editor)
Personal: Woulda Coulda Shoulda
Having it all with less: Want Not
I think that's fine, Mir.
By: Rita Arens Posted: 17 weeks 5 days agoI like that you can respectfully disagree. And no, if she were a Republican, I wouldn't vote for her, so I'm not voting for her on the basis of gender alone. I know I make my arguments brazenly to get attention, but that point does seem to get lost in the mix. Your reaction is common, and I don't take offense. I think your points are valid - I just don't think that's the point I'm making.
Surrender, Dorothy - When I was your age, we just let them ride in the back window.
Just wonderful writing
By: Kalyn Denny Posted: 17 weeks 5 days agoI loved this post. I agree with almost every word, except I love Edwards and do think he is more than ready.
I'll take Hillary and Edwards in any combination.
Kalyn Denny
Kalyn's Kitchen
Loved this the first time I read it, love it still
By: Susan Getgood Posted: 17 weeks 4 days agoI'm voting for Hillary for much the same reasons.
All things being equal, if a male candidate and a female candidate are equally qualified, have similar positions on the issues etc. etc. it's time for the female candidate. In this case Hillary.
Now of course, things are never entirely equal, and they aren't here either. On most scores, I do give the edge to Hillary anyway, for a number of reasons, but even if she and Obama and Edwards were for all intents and purposes, equally qualified, and so on, I would pick Hillary.
Because I agree. It is LONG past time.
Jeez, did you have to go and remind me?
By: The End of Motherhood Posted: 17 weeks 4 days agoMy first time. Oy. With a politician no less!
Anyway, the point for me is that I would take the woman with a lot of experience and a demonstrated commitment to doing good in the world over the man with a very little bit of experience and a demonstrated commitment to wanting to do good in the world.