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Wall of Shame: Baby Boudoir Is Icky

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I'm all about women loving their bodies, whatever their shape. Posing for boudoir photos was an empowering experience that allowed me to celebrate my curves and my personality. I loved flaunting what I'm rockin' for the photographer, for my husband and, ultimately, myself. I've encouraged all of my female friends to do it as well. But I don't encourage their two-year-old daughters. Or their four-month-old babies, either.

While the site Babikini doesn't sell boudoir services for babies and young girls, their front image is kind of... icky. See?

Boudoir Baby?
Photo source: Babikini.com


I honestly have a pose from my boudoir session that is strikingly similar. In fact, I think I'm covered up more than that little girl. When I searched for a photo with the term "sexy woman," this photo popped up.

Woman in bikini lying on beach

Almost the same pose. Scary.

Baby rolls are cute. Showing them off with short-shorts and other baby apparel is fun. I get it. I used to nom the inside of my sons' legs, because they were so delicious. The giggle that accompanied that action remains one of my favorite memories. But, really, do babies need string bikinis? In leopard print? Or with cherries? (Really? Cherries?) If ever I needed proof that we are over-sexualizing our little girls sooner and sooner, this is "here's your sign" kind of moment. Kind of makes tutus seem tame.

Maybe it wouldn't be so bad if the pose wasn't so, well, posed. Someone made that little girl stretch out on her arm, put her other arm on her leg and smile at the camera. You have to wonder who decided that photo would be "the one" to represent the company.

The website does boast "one piece" bathing suits as well, though none are currently available.

Although I fear their bathing suit design would look more like this:

Paris Hilton films the video for her first single on the beach at Paradise Cove out in Malibu Photo via Newscom

Than this:


Toddler with bucket on beach

Let's let our little girls be little girls for awhile longer, shall we? Please?

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom), from Stop, Drop and Blog and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land, is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

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anglicanchoir92 5 pts

I find it so sad how little girls are so sexualized in our culture (as well as others). If aged women honked at little boys from their cars or took glamour shots of little boys in speedos, it would be an outrage.

I'm almost 19 and I'd *still* rather wear the blue checkered bathing suit than the black bikini. It's like men's swim trunks are for swimming. Women's bathing suits are for entertaining the men.

magnoliaqueen 5 pts

Over-sexualizing young children just disgusts me. I'm all for kids staying kids as long as possible!

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southernfriedlives 5 pts

I'm not even a mom yet, but this disgusts me.

I remember running around in extremely age-appropriate Sesame Street bathing suits. Oftentimes, I played in the water in shorts and a T-shirt.

I agree with the previous comment, we do not need to help children grow up any faster than they already are these days.

I feel bad for the little girl in the picture

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Kathleen W. 5 pts

Sigh. I just don't get it, why string bikinis are being made for kids. Especially that girls just want to romp and run around in the water and that kind of suit probably does not make it easy. Give me a one-piece any day.

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

When we went swimsuit shopping this summer, we found a black and white string bikini in a size 5T. Seriously. Mainstream store. I took my daughter to LLBean which had completely age-appropriate swimsuits and gave a huge, shuddering sigh.

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multiplemama 5 pts

Girls and boys are "growing up" too fast these days. They don't need our help to speed it up, but to slow it down.

texasebeth 6 pts

Makes me so glad I have a boy. There is nothing wrong with a toddler girl in a 2 piece but not a string bikini. That pose - pure pinup style, no matter what anyone says. Sadly it is getting harder and harder to find non-sexy non-slutty clothes for little girls.

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Hey Jen 5 pts

I posted and the post disappeared.

Anyway, yeah, that reminds of that Toddlers and Tiara's show. Crazy stuff that!

Also, I don't even want my girls who are 11 and 13 post photos of themselves on facebook wearing their swimsuits!