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Washing Dishes...Again

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When we moved to our new home eight months ago, I was worried. You see, our new home has no dishwasher. And I had kind of made a personal vow that I would never move to another home without a dishwasher again until all my kids had left the nest.

I love dishwashers. Matter of fact, if I had to put all my appliances in order (yes, odd, but something I've done while living without electricity in the rainforest), it would be like this:


1. Stove (Burners beat out all. Plain and simple. I suck at making fires.)
2. Oven (Yes, stoves and ovens are still two separate appliances in most of the world.)
3. Washer (Indeed, this pair, although always thought of as one unit...ahem, washer/dryer...is alas two appliances. And if I could only have one, by goodness, it would be the washer easily says the woman who washed ALL her and her husband's clothing in rivers and buckets for two years.)
4. Refrigerator (Did you know you can store cheese under your bed in the jungle? OK, that explains it's place in front of the dryer.)
5. Dishwasher (I always call it my "dish-elves". Leave them in the metal box and an hour later they'll be clean and ready to put away. Miraculous.)
6. Dryer (So darn handy in accomplishing the process of clean and dry laundry much of the year.)
7. Hot Water Heater (I'd rather all of the above before my great love of heated water enters the equation. Don't ask me to list this in the middle of winter though.)


Hmmm.... Computers aren't appliances, right?

Anyhow, today, as I did the dishes for the third time, I felt tired. It was 4:30. Dinner was just beginning to formulate...otherwise known as I-was-just-getting-my-lazy-tired-cooking-butt-into-gear. Babe was holding onto my pant leg, which as lovely as it is, still feels like walking around with a teetering vase pinned to you. My two daughters were "helping" me clean chocolate off of dishes.

And I was attempting to work on sautee'ing soup veggies and cutting vegetables, with daughter "help." (AKA constant intervention. Ack, what am I doing letting them use that knife?!) And as I stood still there, scrub, scrub, scrubbing away at each of those newly dirtied dishes, I felt zapped. Done with the day. Seriously. When is bedtime?

And then--BAM--the wafting scent of buttery onions, mushrooms and celery hit me. My reality check for the day. Here we were, cleaning up a messy, but busily happy kitchen. Delicious food cooking. The art of cooking (though more complicated when done with a 3 and 5-year-old sous-chef) still done with love together. Our dessert already made (hence 3rd round of dishes).

I mean, it crossed my mind that just five years ago I'd have been closing my Franklin Covey planner, situating papers on my lovely non-profit desk, dreaming of a day just like this one. A little gardening, reading to the kids, cooking dessert before dinner, feeding chickens, sweeping toys out from under my feet at every turn, rocking babes down for short naps. No matter how I look at it--luxurious. Frugally, simply my version of my dream job. For now.

And so, we feasted tonight. Together. Mushroom, wild rice soup. Greens, toasted pecans, and apple slice salad. Buttery toast. And those deliciously addictive nearly sugarless Chocolate Rice Crispies. Highly recommended.  (By the way, if you don't have rice syrup or maple, honey worked great.)

And for as much as doing the dishes often feels like a drag. It's only momentarily. It's the "More dishes?!" response in me. But when I sink my hands into that warm, sudsy water and watch as each dish emerges clean, resting on a towel to dry, it feels good. Better than picking up toys. Putting away laundry. Scrubbing counters. Making beds. (Though don't ask me to wax nostalgic on the dirty pots and pans.)

So, question for you. If you were to put your appliances in order, what would be on top? And, have you ever put chocolate in or on your rice crispies? My husband said these were reminiscent of his grandma's "American Roadster Bars." (Explains his eating three of them tonight!)

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MealMixer 5 pts

I'd have to say laundry machine because I have 2 active boys (counting my husband!). We have a dishwasher but I end up washing a lot of things by hand and don't mind it...it's the putting away that bugs me!

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RosieDreams 5 pts

Agreed.
I would happily wash a huge pile of dishes over hand washing a load of clothes! Just hand washing a nice sweater and our diaper covers takes me ridiculous amounts of time. And that's not including the one or two days it still needs to dry completely.

Thanks for stopping by.

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RosieDreams 5 pts

That's cool. I know not using a dishwasher reduces use of electricity but I've read it increases use of water. Bad for places like my old home in Southern California.
I can relate to the chores though...my 3 and 5 year olds can't wait to wash dishes outside in another month when it warms up a bit more. I'm equally excited to have a few less dishes. :)

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RosieDreams 5 pts

So funny. When we moved in to this new (but old) home, I immediately drove two hours north to the appliance store to ask about fitting a dishwasher in our one natural little cubby spot in the kitchen. It's 6 inches too narrow for a 'real' machine though. I then did a mix of demanding and pleading for a small dishwasher...because seriously, how was I going to keep up with the dishes?! But after peeking in one of the small ones, geesh, they're tiny. Like barely good for two people who cook lots of homemade food. Glad to hear your experience with the 'apartment size' one and 6 people. I'll keep washing by hand...until we move on...someday. Thanks for visiting and for the comment love.

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Grace Hwang Lynch 7 pts

I didn't think it was a big deal when we got this house, as I always had a dishwasher and rarely used it.

When my kids got to the sippy cup phase, I would have given anything for a dishwasher. Now that my kids are mostly using regular cups and dishes, it's not so bad. Sometimes, I like the sound of the water, the bubbles, etc. Sometimes, I wish I could just throw everything into the machine and close the door!

A (clothes)washing machine, on the other hand, I could NOT live without!

Grace Hwang Lynch blogs at HapaMama ( http://hapamama.com ) and A Year (Almost) Without Shopping ( http://www.blogher.com/ A Year (Almost) Without Shopping ).

Denise 9 pts moderator

the house we live in right now has a little apartment sized dishwasher and with a family of six, I find myself unable to get all of the dishes into it.

So - I either wash the rest by hand or I run a second load.

The other day, I was washing some pans by hand and I really did find myself enjoying it. It was weird and I thought maybe I was coming down with something.

Now here's your post... and I get it. I totally get it.

~Denise
BlogHer Community Manager
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Hey Jen 5 pts

I stopped using my dishwasher around a year or so ago to cut help cut down on the cost of electricity and to be just a little bit greener. Washing dishes by hand doesn't necessarily make me a happy happy joy joy, but I don't mind it. Plus now as a chore my girls have to switch days washing so I hardly have to anymore. ;)

midnightbliss 5 pts

the first for me would be the washer because i just don't like washing clothes, the next would be the refrigerator for storing and keeping foods.