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Is the Way You Use Social Media Hurting Your Career?

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Every time I read an article like the recent "How social media can hurt your career" on Careerbuilder, I am grateful that we didn't have social media back when I was in college. Young, testing the waters, and with a lot of opinions to share, I wonder if I would have unknowingly committed a faux pas in the weakness of a heated moment that would have hurt me professionally? Of course, stupid choices are not reserved for the young. Grown and experienced adults make them every day. The differences are some are more public than others and now social media is being used by employers as a microscopic tool inspecting your every utterance.

As social media becomes the latest branding strategy, networking technique, job seeking tool and recruitment vehicle, it's also becoming the latest way for people to get job offers rescinded, reprimanded at work and even fired.

While I am all for expressing oneself and acknowledge that for many of us our online friends are as valuable as any person we know IRL ("in real life"), some of the examples I read about are really eligible for the Darwin Awards. Like the offhanded "my boss is an idiot" type remarks on Twitter and Facebook or the "I'm doing something illegal, immoral or against company policy right now at my desk" sort of fare that really makes you wonder whether the author thinks that no one is really going to read it? Unless you are working in a cave, chances are your boss, co-workers, employer, or someone is going to have something to say about your comments. Remember the 6 degrees of separation that makes social networking such a powerful tool? Well the power saw cuts both ways.

Of course what is and is not appropriate is in the eye of each individual. Yet when it comes to professional life you really do have to get that you should never put anything in print (and these days that includes tweets, status updates, etc.) that you (or your mother) would be embarrassed seeing on the front page of the newspaper (or say the front page of CNN.com). "How to Get Fired on Facebook" highlights a beautiful example of both employee and employer acting inappropriately.  It might be easy to judge and think it is a total anomaly but in "why facebook is sooo gonna get you fired" you've got a few real-world examples of dumb Facebook moves. Then you have 160+ comments where many of them are people throwing out crazy opinions and judgments of the people in the examples only to appear just as unsavvy as the folks in the exhibits! Does pointing your finger and inventing new off color words while spouting bigoted remarks somehow make you a more enlightened social media user than the very people you're pointing at? (insert me scratching my head here...)

Of course awkward social media meets hiring manager moments aren't limited to the online space.  "A hiring manager asks a woman to show him her Facebook page in an interview. What should she do?" presents a host of uncomfortable issues.  The poll results are really worth a read.  Only 11% said they would agree straight away to show their page.  Over 53% said they would ask why and then decide whether or not to show it. What you choose in the moment is one thing, but the reality is that employers are looking anyway. 

Forty-five percent of employers reported in a recent CareerBuilder survey that
they use social networking sites to research job candidates, a big jump
from 22 percent last year. Another 11 percent plan to start using
social networking sites for screening. More than 2,600 hiring managers
participated in the survey, which was completed in June 2009.[1]

Ask a Manager has a good middle of the road take on complaining about work on twitter. Tweeting at work can be ok (in moderation of course, unless it is your job description) but there needs to be a level of common sense and professional judgment.  The challenge with that is, however:

As many others before me have observed, this generation is so comfortable with social media and so used to living their lives on it that they don't always understand the need to censor themselves in public spaces where they might be observed and judged by people they want something from (like a job, professional

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accidentalcitygirl 5 pts

My facebook page in particular is a private page that only my friends can see, I can't imagine an instance where I would allow my employer to see the place where I keep in touch with old school and work friends. It never even occured to me until a few days ago that anyone that didn't know me would be interested until I applied for a job and on the application it asked if I had a facebook or myspace page. (shudder) I said no to both.

paulag01 5 pts

Hi Steph,

I think the no gossip rule is excellent.  While I am definitely online as it is one of my key business tools... I definitely know that everything stays out there forever and it is indeed wise to think before one types!

Oh and just so you know you ARE on the social media bandwagon because you just shared your wise comments with us :-)

Paula Gregorowicz
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Stephanie ODea 5 pts

--steph

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Stephanie ODea 5 pts

but I don't socialize online, nor do I post anything that can be deemed controversial. I frequented message boards in my early 20s, and quickly learned how what you put "out there" stays "out there" and it freaked me out. I found the personas and the pipl tools neat, but nothing popped out I didn't already know about. So no twitter or facebook for me, and I'll do everything I can to keep my kids far away.

I don't even gossip over the phone... lol. I learned that lesson the hard way in highschool with 3-way calling! ;-)

--steph

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sassymonkey 6 pts moderator

Which was a big HUH? When it was searching it was bringing up quotes with my name in it. I really wish those were clickable. It was definitely interesting though!

Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca/ ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.ca/ ).

paulag01 5 pts

Love it ....  out of the closet on purses indeed!

Paula Gregorowicz
The Paula G Company

http://www.thepaulagcompany.com

Learn 5 Steps to Move from Fear to Freedom ( http://www.thepaulagcompany.com/feartofreedom ) (free)

paulag01 5 pts

Yeah - no Flip cams back then, right?  It can be a fine line.....

Paula Gregorowicz
The Paula G Company

http://www.thepaulagcompany.com

Learn 5 Steps to Move from Fear to Freedom ( http://www.thepaulagcompany.com/feartofreedom ) (free)

paulag01 5 pts

I hear you - I'd love to know how they choose categories too. It told me "illegal"?  Like where? What articles? huh?  Unless I was writing about personal finance, etc..... weird.... so yes a bit frightening too, but interesting nonetheless.

Paula Gregorowicz
The Paula G Company

http://www.thepaulagcompany.com

Learn 5 Steps to Move from Fear to Freedom ( http://www.thepaulagcompany.com/feartofreedom ) (free)

Denise 10 pts moderator

Sports and politics? Please.

~Denise
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canwestopthis 5 pts

That was kinda weird. They had something I put on my MomDot page. Well, if a potential employer is looking, they know I like purses!

Vered 5 pts

If my mom would cringe when she reads it, I don't post it. This still leaves room for creativity and for being me, but censors anything wildly inappropriate.

My online persona, as guarded as it is, is still probably too opinionated and colorful for the most conservative workplaces, but I don’t see myself ever working in one of those places anyway.

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Candelaria Silva 5 pts

When I think of all the poetry I wrote and read at poetry readings (as they were called then) and my strong opinions that I felt I had to share and hammer home, and my political viewpoints, etc., in my "girlish" days, I am so glad the technology we have now didn't exist.  Now, I rry to hide in plain view.  If anyone would be offended by my opinions - they probably wouldn't hire me.  I am rethinking Facebook - a lot these days.

Great post.

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Good and plenty!

sassymonkey 6 pts moderator

I wish I knew how it gathered the information and that the categories were clicky. For example, I'd love to know when I entered Sassymonkey, sports were almost as prevalent as books. I really don't talk about sports often!

The last year has been interesting as I've moved from being pretty darned anonymous on the net to actually knowing many people who know me both in real life and and online, including the people I work for. It's...odd. And sometimes a bit confining. I'm still adjusting to the fact that people I know and who live down the street read me. Not that people didn't but it was my close friends. Huge difference these days.

And I'm so happy that Facebook wasn't around when I was in university. Ditto digital cameras. (Well, they were around but none of us could afford them.)

Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca/ ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.ca/ ).

landismom 5 pts

And I love that Personas tool, that is really cool!