We Are Not Getting Married!
By DeBorrahk on April 21, 2012
You thought everything was fine! But in the back of your mind you had some lingering doubt! You could not quite put your finger on it but there was this little voice saying; “Hmmm I’m not sure!” You had some reservations!
Sometimes there are surprises and you are totally caught off guard! But when the engagement is extended again and again… It is time to really think where is this relationship going? Do we value the same things? What principles do we really share? Am I/we being realistic?
It is really important to have some serious discussions and think about what your future together is going to really be like! What are the desired long time goals! Too often many get involved without really getting to know this person you say that you love. What does love really mean to both of you? You want to know as much as possible about another!
You also want to have a good disagreement! Why? You need to know how you both respond under pressure! Do you clam up? Do you fly off the handle? Can you be objective or do you just point the finger? Can you say you are sorry and mean it? How you resolve conflict in marriage is important! No one is right all the time… Remember marriage is supposed to be a lifetime partnership relationship where two can grow individually as well as together!
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