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A Teacher Can Make a Huge Difference in Your Life

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He came to me with a reputation as being "difficult, headstrong and uncooperative." I trusted the comments from his first grade teacher, as she was not only an experienced, amazing teacher, but also a good friend.

The first time I sat down with Frank, I asked him a question about his weekend, or something mundane like that, and he proceeded to tell the about the rise and fall of the Mayan civilization. To be honest, I was so fascinated that I sat with him for at least 20 minutes until I realized it was past time to get the children to music, and rushed them down the hall.

I learned so many amazing things from him that year, and dubbed him our "little professor." I would often defer to him, saying, "Well, class, let’s see what Professor Jones thinks about this. Frank, what are YOUR thoughts?" And with a shy smile, he would offer his five thousand cents. In fact, on many occasions, he would say something so brilliant, I would point to the door and shout, "PACK YOUR BAGS AND GET OUT! You belong in FIFTH GRADE!" and then the whole class would erupt in laughter as Frank would pretend to leave.

He would, at times, offer me a challenge and refuse to participate in certain writing activities. However, I would somehow manage to help him turn it around -- I can’t remember how -- and as the year progressed, these events would happen less frequently.

It was with amazing pride (and a few tears) that I watched him at Sassy’s graduation last weekend receive the medal as the class valedictorian. This, out of over 700 very capable students, was quite an accomplishment.

I ran into his parents after the ceremony, and I was so happy to be able to congratulate them. It was then that Frank’s father looked at me with a smile, and said this:

"Mrs. Jones, I don’t think Frank would mind if I shared something with you. In his college application essay, he wrote about a very special person who made a difference in his life. It was a teacher who turned things around for him, who called him her 'little professor' and was one that he has never, ever forgotten. You do know … it was about you."

And THAT is why I do what I do. Now pass a tissue -- I am ALL OUT AGAIN.

Please share some thoughts about your favourite teacher.

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vodkamom 5 pts

Yeah, I have totally given up on any anonymity. I embrace the humiliation. :-)

CrazyCharm 5 pts

This reminds me of the feeling that I get when I'm at the store (in my pj pants no doubt) and I run into a student who screams my name and says "This is my teacher!" to his/her parents. How excited they all are to see me almost negates the mortification I feel from getting caught wearing my pj pants in public. lol

poppy 5 pts

It's good to get a second opinion. Now somebody get me a Kleenex!

Poppy hands out unsolicited beauty and style advice at The Beauty Boomer ( http://www.poppisima.blogspot.com ) when she isn't making fun of celebrities on Mamarazzi ( http://www.mamarazzi.org ).

Fiddledeedee 5 pts

Very sweet. My favorite teachers were Mrs. Menke and my 8th grade Speech teacher, Mrs. Hindelang, who taught me to reach for the stars. Profound affect on my life.

DeeDee can be found at Fiddledeedee ( http://fiddledeedee.net )

vodkamom 5 pts

This helped me re-adjust again- and gave me a jump start to this new year. I have to remember that everything I say is important.

Mimi Lenox 5 pts

"I would somehow manage to help him turn it around -- I can’t remember how"...
And THAT, my dear, is what makes you a master teacher. You have intuitive brilliance and heart with children. This is know.

I needed to read this today for many reasons. Thank you very much. I am out of tissues!

Mimi Lenox
mimilenox.com 

vodkamom 5 pts

I had a teacher in third grade who I adored. She never cared that I couldn't stop talking; she never mentioned the day that I wore my mom's garter's and nylon's to school and they were hanging around my ankles; and she made me feel tall- even though I was the smallest in the class.

Thank you, Mrs. Sosa. I will always love you.

Rene Foran 5 pts

I just love how you saw him as an interesting kid with desire to learn and be challenged instead of an uncooperative handful.
You set in motion a bright future and made his school career a positive, rewarding experience.
You made a difference in his life and he's aware of that. You have done your job and you have done it well.

Peace ~ Rene

MrMomWorld 5 pts

I have three teachers who also had a huge impact on my life. Miss Jones/Mrs Buss, Mr Ferryok and Mr Hinske. All for different reasons. Now I have to write a blog post about them. I'll link to this post when I do!

Melissa Ford 5 pts

These are the exact same reasons why I was a teacher. Thank you for sharing this story.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).