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The Wear Everything Challenge - What are We REALLY Giving Up?

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Almost two years ago, when the economy was still good and there was no real reason not to run out to the mall and buy something new, I wrote a post for BlogHer about how to shop your closet.  The idea is simple, and is one that I return to over and over again: you can't shop effectively until you know what you have, and the place to start is with a systematic analysis of what's in the closet.

In the two years since I wrote that post, the economy has tanked and we've all been compelled to think harder about our shopping. Budgeting is in and conspicuous consumption is out, even for those who can afford it.  "Recessionista" is the new fashion buzzword for women who are chic and cheap all at once.

I hate that word, I really do.

This week, Salon ran a piece by Rebecca Traister titled, "Shop in Your Own Closet!"  Traister's essay dissects how fashion magazines are handling the recession, and she links to that long-ago post about shopping your closet.

This is very practical advice. It is very sturdy. It is very sage. It is very depressing. As someone who kind of loathes shopping, I nonetheless am horrified by the idea. No one should shop in their own closet unless they are rich and their closet is huge, in which case, they can probably still afford to shop outside their closet anyway. For the rest of us, this is just a fancy way of saying, "Wear the same clothes you've been wearing for the past 10 years." I admire the sentiment, but it's precisely this kind of workmanlike thrift that could suck all the joy out of magazine reading.

That really is depressing, isn't it?

I both agree and disagree with Traister.  The shop-your-closet philosophy is essentially utilitarian, as opposed to aesthetic; it's not about having things that are pretty or fabulous, but about having things that work.  And yes, you absolutely can have a closet of pretty things that work for you, but that's not the point; the idea is to get in there and weed out the chaff and start wearing the good stuff.

In the end, it's not all that sexy, shopping your closet.  It is practical and sturdy and sage.

At the same time, though, I feel compelled to say this: most of us -- at least most of you who read and respond to what I write here -- are NOT rich and do NOT have huge closets.  We also have no idea what's really in our closets, no matter what their size, and we're already wearing the same things over and over again, they're just not the nice things or the interesting things.

So yes, our wardrobes often are practical and sturdy and depressing.  But not because we're shopping in our closets instead of shopping in stores; because we're only wearing a sliver of what we own, and the pieces we fall back on are practical and sturdy and, sometimes, depressing.

So why would we choose to give up buying if what we already own is so depressing?  The recession certainly has something to do with it -- when you are confronted, on a daily basis, with stories of people who are barely getting through the day, it's hard to justify another sweater or pair of boots or trip to the mall.  We're all aware of how bad things are, even if -- like me -- you're not really feeling it in any tangible way in your day-to-day life.  But I think there is more to it than that.

Traister's piece examines the way fashion magazines have adopted the rhetoric of not shopping in an effort to remain relevant in a recession -- but giving up shopping is about more than just economics and rhetoric.  Joslyn at Simple Lovely has started a 90 day "spending hiatus," during which she is purchasing only necessities.  She has two reasons for this:

First, I see it as sort of a “money cleanse.” Most Americans go to the gym religiously in January to make up for all sorts of gastronomical sins, and while I certainly eat a lot over the holidays, I seem to have a bigger issue with spending -- that extra bottle of wine at the grocery store, one more gift for the girls, a few more ornaments for the tree... No matter how diligent I’ve been prior, I somehow lose all focus and get caught up in the abundance of December. Come January,

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Rita Arens 7 pts

My husband and I share a closet. When I go to other people's houses, I'm shocked to find most people don't share a closet with their spouse unless they have a huge walk-in.  We have a pretty normal closet, three-sided, but we've always shared. And thus, neither of us has a ton of clothes.

We recently added some custom racks and other fancies to our closet, and we weeded out everything. Now neither of us has anything in our closet that we don't wear. It feels awesome! 

Rita Arens writes at Surrender Dorothy ( http://surrenderdorothy.typepad.com ) and BlogHer and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ).

Susan Wagner 5 pts

You are dead on here -- buy ONLY what you really love, and you will always have things you want to wear.  

The Wear Everything Challenge is less about not shopping than it is about sorting through what's in the closet in order to make better choices when you DO shop.

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smd042 5 pts

Surprisingly, I sort of can't relate to this.  I don't have a huge wardrobe, but I don't think I've run out of things to wear either.

I frequently toss out the things that I don't wear very often, and I have one simple buying rule when it comes to clothes:

I don't buy what I don't LOVE.

It does not matter how good of a deal, or how cheap it is, if I don't LOVE it, I don't buy it.

That said, I don't think anyone needs to go on a total don't-buy-new-clothes kick, for several reasons.  1. It doesn't help the economy to get all scared and hide your money.  2.There is always the thrift store and/or the clearance rack.

Just don't buy it if you don't love it, and then your closet will always make you happy. 

Tracy Evans 5 pts

 Yikes. I'm currently going thru my closet because of an upcoming move out-of-state. I swear I can open a department store with the amount of clothes I have. Granted, I don't get rid of clothes that often but still. I realized that I have some excellent suits and dresses I haven't worn in a while. All classic styles but with built in shoulder pads. No wonder I haven't put them on in a few years.

If anyone knows if there's a way to have a tailor or seamstress remove the pads let me know. I'd like to wear some of these outfits again but don't want to look like I just walked off the set of Dynasty. If I can't remove them without runing the outfit somebody's going to get one helluva donation!

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