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What Every Father Should Do For His Daughter

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This post is actually The Heart Stuff of FATHERHOOD, because Christy at From Dates to Diapers shared her blogspace with father and blogger Michael Mitchell, who writes at Life To Her Years, a truly wonderful blog where he lists all the ways to be a wonderful father. DO NOT MISS THIS. And then forward it to all the fathers in your life, to let them know how great they are.

Father and his daughter playing

Credit Image: Photo by Señor Codol via Flickr

50 Rules for Dads of Daughters {by Michael Mitchell}

  • 1. Love her mom. Treat her mother with respect, honor, and a big heaping spoonful of public displays of affection. When she grows up, the odds are good she’ll fall in love with and marry someone who treats her much like you treated her mother. Good or bad, that’s just the way it is. I’d prefer good.
  • 2. Always be there. Quality time doesn’t happen without quantity time. Hang out together for no other reason than just to be in each other’s presence. Be genuinely interested in the things that interest her. She needs her dad to be involved in her life at every stage. Don’t just sit idly by while she add years to her… add life to her years.
  • 3. Save the day. She’ll grow up looking for a hero. It might as well be you. She’ll need you to come through for her over and over again throughout her life. Rise to the occasion. Red cape and blue tights optional.

There are 47 other lovely ideas over at Christy's blog, so click on the link below!

Read more from 50 Rules for Dads of Daughters at From Dates to Diapers

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jenny0922 5 pts

I'm touched. Makes me think of my hubby and little girl. Very heartwarming post.

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justlinda 22 pts

I read it and it's a nice piece... I smiled and nodded a few times. Lovely.

But there are lots of ways to be a good dad that aren't on that list, and sometimes a good dad may be very different than this list, but no less wonderful.

I could write a list about my own dad, who I consider to be a great dad. It might make you smile and nod, and it could even bring a tear once or twice. But it would look radically different from the list posted in this blog.

Good dads - no matter what flavor - should be revered. Regardless of whether they parent sons or daughters...

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Jen Manders Volz
Jen Manders Volz

I like most of the list. I think the most important thing about #1 is more the second sentence "treat her with respect, honor" and blah. I think that you MUST treat the mother (and father) of your child with respect and honor even if you don't love her. I see that as a major problem with our current state of mixed families, not that they are mixed, but the frequent issues between parents. I think i'm pretty lucky in that respect, Chris is too scared to say bad things about me.

Jenny Fast
Jenny Fast

I cried as soon as I started reading this list. I LOVE #1... I really think this should be applied to moms as well - when you have a baby, don't forget your husband... Love him and show him affection. It's important for kids to grow up with this example in their lives if possible!

Sharon Emery
Sharon Emery

I'm pretty 'meh' about most of the list. He really did nearly lose me right at #1. Unfortunately, it doesn't take love to make a baby.

I do particularly like #42, though. 'Let her know she can always come home. No matter what.' My dad *still* does this, and I love him for that. He tells me in different ways now than he did when I was 20, but he still lets me know. :)

Teri Hall Beeso
Teri Hall Beeso

Made me cry too...makes me sad for my daughter that she will never have any of those 50 things from her dad:(