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What I Learned While Publishing My Book

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In September, I released my first full-length published book titled Open to Your Intuitive Intelligence™: Reflections on Nature and Wisdom and to say I am excited is an understatement. Along the way I learned a great deal about what it takes to start and more importantly complete a project like this. Whether you are looking to publish as part of your business or for professional gratification, here are some lessons learned.

I had always wanted to combine my photography with the work that I do professionally. It had been a sparkle in my head for a long time. Yet, whenever I would start to entertain the idea I would run into nothing but resistance from people telling me it couldn't be done. Too hard, too expensive to do full-color, no one will want to buy it, etc. I found this disheartening and for a long time I let it hold me back. That is, until I got the support of my entire mastermind group behind me. I just knew it could be done in a way that would work and serve the world. So I set about starting the project. From the get-go it was a very personal project to me. To be honest one of the reasons I really wanted to do it was to surprise my mother because she always loved my photos and my writing. However, during the process of creating this inspired project, she got ill and died. I really wanted to give up on the whole thing. Yet through the love of my mentor, friends, and colleagues I got back in the saddle and wrote.

You can read the entire story of my personal journey on my book's website but I wanted to share with you some of the key things I learned about how to start and finish such a project.

Just Start
I waited a long time to get started. It was an idea I had in my head for years, yet I waited for someone else to tell me - get started girl! If you have an idea and a burning desire, just get started. You never know where it will lead or what form it'll ultimately take, but you owe it to yourself to start.

Be Realistic
It is unlikely you are ever going to get rich from a book whether self-published or traditionally published. Therefore, do not throw out all your income producing activities to write it. That said...get down to business and write! Find yourself manageable chunks of time whether daily or weekly to focus on and move the project forward. For me it was a daily practice in wisdom. I didn't do a whole lot on any one day (at least during the early stages) but I did keep at it. The journey of 100, 200, 300 pages begins with just a few words.

Do the Research
Finding the right way to publish my book so it was up to my standards of quality but actually cost-effective to produce was a journey. I tapped experts and colleagues who had been down this road before. Your project will likely look different than mine, but there is a far chance that someone has walked that road before you. Find them, Google them, and ask around. It takes time and homework to evaluate your options and yet it is a very necessary step if you plan on celebrating in the end instead of sitting at home with a lot of expenses out the door but nothing to show for it.

Pick Yourself Up When You Fall
I totally wanted to pack in the project after my mother got ill. I didn't care about it any more. I sobbed a lot and then I sobbed some more. Luckily for me I had some dear friends and colleagues who encouraged me to come back to the project after the heaviest lifting of immediate grief was past. It took me about 9 months before I began again in earnest, but I DID. That is the most important lesson you can learn.

Get Support
I could never have done this project alone...on an emotional or practical level. Surround yourself with people - a coach, mastermind group, writer's group - who will support you constructively and objectively, but lovingly. Then, when it comes time to kick it in gear for the final mile, invest in a good editor, designer, and any other support people you need to make a top notch product a reality.

Go the Extra Mile
I'll be honest,

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bibliophile 5 pts

I could never write a book. The fact that people can do that is amazing to me. I'm just a reader, not a writer. I read a lot of indie published books on my Kindle. Some of those authors really skipped the editing process. I know indie authors don't have access to all the perks of a traditional publishing house but editing is really important.

Sofia Michaels 10 pts

Thank you for sharing your journey with the community and congratulations.

It's fun to hear about the different ways people write and the cathartic personal growth that comes out of it. I'm currently writing my fifth and sixth books for the Sofia Michaels brand, I know each book is really my teacher. Each topic of a book is chosen by "Where do I need to grow now?"

You also served as a sign of someone who has done it for other women who can look to you and complete a book. Enjoy your bliss!

JudithG 6 pts

You did it! Congratulations. Writing a book is a huge accomplishment. It took me four years to write mine, which I self-published. For others thinking along that line, I highly recommend an editor, designer for the cover and professional layout for the ereader and POD formats. It may be grueling (and sometimes costly) but worth it when the marketing push begins. What I didn't expect was the sense of loss I experienced when I finished. Now on to the next book.

lainierenee 14 pts

Congratulations on publishing your book! I am going through the process of creating a book proposal. In the past, I have submitted book proposals which were turned down by both agents and publishers. I am confident that this next go around something will stick. Thanks for posting your wisdom. It is great motivation for someone in my situation.

BLR8577 5 pts

Congratulations! I just completed my first children's book and I agree that it brings such a feeling of accomplishment seeing your ideas in publication. Congrats again!

paulag01 9 pts

Congrats on your first children's book!!

Wacky Mommy 5 pts

Congrats to you! It feels good, huh? Just published my first novel ("That's Not It" -- Nancy Ellen Row is my professional name). It took me forever but it's worth it. Now I'm working on my grandma's memoir. It's a lot lighter than my novel was. Good thing ;)

paulag01 9 pts

Wow - can't imagine a novel. I love good fiction and yet something I don't think I could ever write well. Congrats and enjoy the memoir writing! Wacky Mommy

Amanda_Magee 9 pts

The just start and keep on keeping on are central to this, and just about everything, no? Loved this post. Thank you.

paulag01 9 pts

Thanks so much Rita! Rita Arens

The Puzzle Kids 5 pts

I started writing a blog not long ago, but my goal is a book (maybe more than one). I know my focus right now, but as you have said, it could easily change, and I am open to different directions. I have started, and I will consider this my win for now. I plug away at my writing as it comes to me. Thank you for sharing and congratulations on your success story! You have every right to be overjoyed!!

SwissArmyWife-Laura 6 pts

I’ve worked on the publishing side for many years, and I have nothing but the most admiration for ANYONE who thinks of writing a book, and actually does it. When I’m reading a manuscript, I think of all the things the author sacrificed and put aside to put those ideas into words: the parties they skipped, meals that were probably taken in front of their computer rather than the family dinner table, the late nights, the early mornings, you name it. I appreciate at it. The thing I think authors are wholly unprepared for is, after giving birth to the baby that is their book, once/if they find a publisher, it’s like the baby/book is immediately sent to college. Authors need to be really be primed for what’s to come: the editorial process, which can be grueling and disheartening, but hopefully rewarding in the end; the cover design, which might not be what you expected or dreamed of, but hopefully beautiful and appropriate in the end; and then the marketing/PR gauntlet, if the author is lucky enough to be with a publisher that even does publicity. Some find it difficult to be engaged once the process kicks in. Be your publisher’s partner. Stick with it, make friends (read: play nice) with your editor(s) and art director (if you have access to them) and you’ll love the final product. Go in kicking and screaming with every change that is suggested and you’ll hate the final product and likely, so will the publisher.

thelittlekitchen 6 pts

Congratulations on publishing your book and thank you for sharing what you learned. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother.

Reda 27 pts

I just wrote a post about Xlibris.

It's on from your heart to your home.

Congrats! I know the work and frustration....and I know the excitement.

Well done, Paula.