What Not to Say When a Baby Dies

Today Finley would have been 21 weeks old...  

I am currently sitting here wishing I could remember what I was planning to write about. I spent hours waiting for my husband to get off of the laptop so that I could write it, and now it has completely fled from my mind.  

Instead I'm going to write about a conversation I was having with a friend earlier today -  the things that people say when they find out your baby has died to try and comfort you. But usually (in my experience) these things just end up making you feel worse.

1.  It is God's will/he's with God now/only God knows why - Well actually I'm not even sure I believe in a God who would knowingly let me get pregnant, carry my son to full term and then take him away almost as quickly as he was born. That doesn't sound like the kind of God I want to believe in.

Continue reading at http://dear-finley.blogspot.com

Lisa xx

Finley Arthur Sissons 23/03/2012 - 26/03/2012


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