Lying About Birth: Yes, Kate Winslet Should Feel Ashamed
By photofrau on January 31, 2013
A friend recently brought to my attention, via Facebook, that Kate Winslet apparently just came out as having lied about having a natural childbirth when in fact she had an emergency c-section. She was embarrassed about having had the section. There seems to be a “c-sections are nothing to be embarrassed about” movement stirring up over this which I kind of think is ridiculous.
If you spend any time on a birth board you know there are an equal number of crazed natural birth fanatics as there are staunch c-section supporters. And by natural birth, I mean vaginal birth and not necessarily unmedicated birth. Each side has their extremists and then there are those of us normal people who reside in the middle.
You know, the people who know that yes...vaginal birth actually IS better for baby and mother and yes, c-sections do happen with much more frequency than is necessary due to the medical community being terrified of lawsuits should anything hypothetically go wrong during natural child birth. Because I guess lawsuits stemming from complications from c-section are less likely to occur. But on the other hand, medical necessity happens and c-sections are the solution. We middle grounders leave room for both kinds of birth in the world so long as no one is forced or tricked into unnecessary procedures.
Frankly I think Ms. Winslet should be embarrassed. But not about the c-section. I think she should be hiding in her bed with the covers pulled over her head because instead of taking the easiest road provided to her and just making a non-committal statement about how beautiful her child was and how they made it through the birth whole and healthy, she pretended to have had a natural birth.
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Because having a natural birth elevates her status in the eyes of fans, I suppose.
You can’t argue she didn’t do this for the accolades that come with natural childbirth. Because yes, there are accolades. I’m sure everyone who patted her on the back or held her up as a standard now feels betrayed. And they should, just as she should feel completely moronic for having lied about it.
True story, the only kind of c-section that anyone should feel embarrassed about having had... is the kind where you didn’t actually need it. As in medically unnecessary, requested to have it simply because I didn’t want to have to go through pain or stretch out my lady bits. Because those people should be embarrassed. Yet more often than not, you see them bragging about it on birth boards. Why is that?
I’ve had two c-sections and am gearing up for my third. I had a scheduled c-section due to a Frank Breech baby that could not be turned, and I had an emergency c-section when my VBAC failed and my uterus ruptured. Did I feel embarrassed by the scheduled c-section? Not particularly -- nor was I particularly excited about it. I remember feeling deflated and not looking forward to the birth of my child. Who looks forward to major abdominal surgery that opens them up to the dangers of staph infections? And I had to mourn the loss of my dream to attempt an unmedicated water birth. But I had complete faith in my doctor’s judgment and my own research into vaginally delivering a Frank Breech baby scared the bejesus out of me.
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