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Nutrition, not Calories: Childhood Obesity Meets Childhood Anorexia

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A couple of years ago, I got an unsolicited copy of a mainstream parenting magazine in the mail. I flipped through it and found an article on children and healthy eating. It caught my interest because feeding my children well has been one of the top priorities of my own parenting. But it turned out the article wasn’t about healthy eating at all. It was about eating to reduce weight gain in your child. It recommended, among other things, substituting popsicles for ice cream in order to reduce calorie intake. The recommended popsicles were nothing but frozen corn syrup and colored water. Whatever calories they had were entirely empty ones. At least ice cream has the nutritional benefits of dairy.

I’m not suggesting that we all feed our kids ice cream all the time, but another lower-calorie option would be to reduce the amount of ice cream a child eats, or the number of ice cream occasions in her life. Or if you really want to ax the ice cream, why not substitute frozen berries? But advertising for junk food littered the pages of the magazine, and I can’t help but think the editors were loathe to dissuade their readers from the offerings of corporate food processors.

The article I remember was especially egregious in calling popsicles “healthier” than ice cream, but so much of the public health hand-wringing about obesity we’ve been hearing of late seems to be missing a great opportunity to educate parents about nutrition.

Obesity may be unhealthy, but so are other food-related problems. Just this week, the news broke that eating disorders are on the rise among children younger than twelve. Girls — and some boys, though the problem tends to be a gendered one — as young as 7 and 8 are being admitted to hospitals for the problem usually associated with teens.

Dr. Jim Lock, director of the Eating Disorder Program at Packard Children's Hospital thinks part of the problem may be that “psychological puberty” is hitting girls sooner:

In terms of interest in appearance, clothing, social behavior and sexualization, girls at twelve are experiencing what girls at fourteen were experiencing just a decade ago.

So although the whole world seems to be busy preaching against obesity and warning of a coming diabetes apocalypse, I fret about the danger of eating disorders in my own two daughters, aged five and three.

The prediction that in 20 years, half of all U.S. Americans will be obese may be alarming, but a 2008 article published in Preventing Chronic Disease reported that 25% of high school girls and 11% of high school boys had disordered eating habits to a degree that warrants “clinical evaluation.”

Perhaps because I have always been chronically underweight (with accompanying health problems like reduced immunity, irregular periods, hair loss, and other things), I have never even considered dieting to lose weight. There have been times in my life when I’ve needed daily milkshakes to keep myself from getting too thin. It’s a genetic thing, and no, you don’t “wish you had my problem,” because it is a problem. And if being too thin is a problem from a strictly physiological standpoint, being too thin — or trying to become too thin — because you have a psychological disorder that misrepresents your body to you is a really big problem. And a 25% rate among girls alone is a public health crisis.

I’m glad we are being made more aware of the problem of obesity in our society. But I wish the focus, instead of being on weight and calories, was on health and nutrition. I wish the campaigns to make kids healthier focused on both over- and under-eating, on what makes food good for you and how food can bring communities together, rather than whether or not it might make you “fat.” An ice ream social, a holiday meal, a birthday cake — these are not near occasions of sin, but celebrations that merit special food we don’t eat every day.

As Johanna Kandel, of the Alliance for Eating Disorder Awareness said,

There's been so much emphasis on childhood obesity, all these programs to ameliorate the situation and in a way we're actually potentiating eating disorders. That's a very thin line we need to walk and make sure the dialogue is one

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LucindaA 5 pts

I have suffered from chronic digestion issues for 15 years now and was eventually diagnosed with Celiac among other things. I have to watch what I eat very carefully, read labels all the time, and avoid countless foods that could harm me. As a result, I have become obsessed with nutrition. So we talk about it a lot at our house.

My kids (7 & 9) hear endlessly that food is fuel and what we put in our bodies impacts not just how we look but how we feel. We talk about bodies coming in all shapes and sizes and that an ideal weight is different for everyone. What is important is being healthy, not skinny. My daughter is becoming aware of her body and her image so I really hope that she absorbs what I have tried to teach her. But when there is such a lack of emphasis on healthy eating all around her by the institutions in her life (school, church, friend, etc.) I wonder how she will navigate through all of this.

I agree with you that true nutritional alternatives are seldom encouraged. It's quite frustrating.

IWantThursdays 5 pts

My son is nearing two. He loves fruit but also bread. Some nights all he wants to eat is bread and if that is all I can get him to eat, then I let him eat it. Other days we pound down the blueberries and applesauce and bananas.
The paragraph about the fathers and their "thin" 5 month old daughters....I'm speechless. And scared. That scares me.
I teach my son --as best I can for his age--about healthy eating. And I plan to set an example. I don't drink soda, I limit fried foods, I eat my vegetables. Am I a perfect eater --certainly not because I will also teach him to enjoy a good ice cream cone in the middle of summer.
I believe in balance.

tara

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jenn-adou 5 pts

Excellent article.

"But I wish the focus, instead of being on weight and calories, was on health and nutrition."

That is my sentiment exactly.

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Rose Leigh 5 pts

Oh yes, I remember the first time my husband met a large group of my family. I warned him they picked at my weight, he didn't see how they could since I was a healthy person. Ten minutes after walking intothe door he heard it first hand: "Wow! Freshman 15 or 25 there girl?" along with 2 or 3 other snippy remarks I have learned to block from my mind...

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Rose Leigh 5 pts

I was always the "fat" kid. Even through high school I had a terrible complex about it that followed me throughout college. I wasn't forced to exercise much and ate spaghetti-o's as frequently as frozen pizza and homemade meals. Mostly due to being a chronically picky eater as a kid and the parents' work schedules.

Not having proper nutrition taught to me during the pre-teen years, and even younger, has affected me my entire life. Looking back at pictures from my senior year of high school I am stunned at how underweight I look to myself, and how I considered myself fat and unattractive then compared to my two best friends who fit into sizes 1 and 0. My size 9 or 10 was huge compared to them!

Today I am trying to undergo a lifestyle change, along with my husband, so that we can be healthier and happier. I also hope that, when i do have children of my own, I will be better prepared to help them make healthy choices and support (not make fun of) them no matter what size they are.

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theoutcast 5 pts

My husband frets about the spurts of limited eating my son goes through. You make an excellent point about portion. Things become bad if kids are told they are bad. I say let him enjoy if he has had a decent meal.

I like to wait until my kid says he's hungry -- of course I do encourage him to eat at meals -- but I see so many people laying snack after snack in front of their kids. The child doesn't even have a chance to say mom, "I'm hungry".

I went through a time in my teens when I had a "control over food complex". Eating too little, too little fat. I only fretted about food that much because I had the time on my hands and access to plenty of options to turn down. Only in America do we function this way.

Heather blogs about Motherhood & Other Offensive Situations at http://www.ultimateoutcasts.com.