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The Big Picture of Health: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff

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Whether you've just begun to adopt a healthy living lifestyle, or you've been eating and living healthy for years, there's no need to put pressure on yourself to be perfect at it. You don't have to sweat the small stuff.

Yes, if you go out to dinner with friends, it is possible to order healthy off most menus...

  • choose light entrees off the menu
  • avoid the bread and butter
  • choose vegetables in place of fries or baked potatoes
  • say "no" to dessert

But there's no healthy-living law that says you have to.

Yes, if you are out of town, there are still many ways to fit your regular exercise routine in...

  • use the hotel gym or pool
  • take the steps rather than the elevator
  • take a walk and see the sights

But there's no healthy-living law that says you have to.

Yes, if you're having a bad day, there are healthy comfort foods to choose from...

  • fat free and sugar free puddings
  • low fat and no sugar added ice-cream
  • a pasta dish made with whole wheat pasta and a low fat sauce
  • light banana cream pie

But there's no healthy-living law that says you can't just buy a gallon of ice-cream.

We all know that there are no "real" healthy-living laws, but that doesn't always stop us from punishing ourselves when we perceive we are breaking them. That's all it is though, a perception. It's a perception of guilt, and often that negativity leads us to give up on ourselves. It doesn't have to be that way: If we take the little step of not sweating the small stuff, we will see huge results.

  • less stress
  • less guilt
  • increased mental strength
  • more acceptance of ourselves

When we don't sweat the small stuff, we do our body good ... and that's healthy living too.

For the most part, I think I'm making many more healthy choices in my life, and I feel good about that. But I'll admit, on a recent four-day cruise with my daughter, I ordered cheesecake every night from room service just before I went to bed. And even though I could have chosen healthy meals and desserts, I only did so when it was something that I really wanted. I didn't go out of my way to exercise, but I did take the steps instead of the elevator (sometimes). Overall, I didn't sweat the small stuff. And you know what? I had a wonderful, guilt-free vacation with my daughter.

Do you allow yourself a "guilt-free" break from healthy living every now and then? Is it something you might want to try? I hope you'll let us know your thoughts in comments.

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
Also at Catherine-Morgan.com

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Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Thanks Nordette, that's very interesting.
:-)

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
Also at Catherine-Morgan.com ( http://catherine-morgan.com/ )

Nordette Adams 6 pts

While they don't talk much about it on the show, even the contestants on the biggest loser get a day where they can choose a treat.

Nordette Adams ( http://www.bookotopia.com ) is a BlogHer CE ( http://www.blogher.com/haystackprofile/viewprofile... ) & you can find her other stuff through Her 411 ( http://her411.com ).

Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Hi Karen. Thanks for taking the time to share your story, and congratulation on your weight-loss (and keeping it off).
:-)

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
Also at Catherine-Morgan.com ( http://catherine-morgan.com/ )

Karen5Lund 5 pts

More than two years ago I made a decision to lose weight. Although I'd known for quite a while that I needed to, the actual decision was rather spur-of-the-moment, so I made up the guidelines of my diet as I went.

One of my first decisions (read: near the end of the first week) was to allow myself a Cheat/Treat once a week.

Sometimes it was a party or eating out with friends; other times it was something I'd been craving. There was no set day of the week (making it flexible for parties and dining out), but usually it fell on Friday, Saturday or Sunday.

I don't want this to sound depressing, like I was waiting all week for my one goody. I learned a lot of healthy, nutritious recipes and sought out fresh ingredients in-season as much as possible. I ate well, but I ate carefully. And then once a week I would abandon caution and enjoy. It had to be something I really enjoyed and it had to be good quality. No pseudo-sweets made with weird ingredients. (Like my Mother and Grandmother I am allergic to all artificial sweeteners.) I sometimes went to a good bakery and got a really nice, fresh-baked slice of cake. Or I visited my favorite pizzeria and had a beer to go with my two slices.

Perhaps I would have lost weight faster without the Cheat/Treat, but I doubt it. More likely I'd have given in to cravings and feeling deprived and gone off my weight loss entirely. (It was interesting that, although I had not intended it, I usually exercised with more vigor the day after my treat. Not guilt--motivation!)

I'm pleased to report that I reached my goal, losing 40 pounds in 16 months and getting my BMI down from 31 to 25. Best of all, I've kept the weight off for two years.

So it really shouldn't be called a Cheat/Treat. It should just be a Treat--a flexible option to eat something tasty just because it's there, to keep away the cravings, and to maintain a healthy enjoyment of food, in moderation.

Karen E. Lund

Circle of Ignorance ( http://circleofignorance.wordpress.com )

My LinkedIn Profile ( http://www.linkedin.com/in/karen5lund )