WHEN A RELATIONSHIP BECOMES A REVOLVING DOOR...

WHEN A RELATIONSHIP BECOMES A REVOLVING DOOR.....

Relationships are what makes the world go around.....Songs, TV Shows, books, conversations, and so much more center around relationships that we have.......We have all kinds of relationships and yet Romance tends to be a big part of where many put their focus.......What happens when relationships are not making us happy? What happens when relationships seem to be going around and around in circles but going nowhere?

Revolving Doors go around and around....For those who don't get out of the revolving door they get caught going nowhere.....This can seem to be so in relationships.....Same problems, same issues, no solutions and simply going around in circles.....Short term this may be OK, but long term this wears on a person....For we all want to feel we are progressing, changing, and growing in all areas of our lives including our relationships....

Too often people wait for another person to change or make the decision to get out of the revolving door....Often the other person is simply happy going around in circles and have no intention of making any kind of changes....at least not in the present time.....So what does one do? Do they keep going around in circles....what they may consider the safe thing to do....or do they decide to get off of the revolving door?

Relationships are complex and yet they don't have to be......If one is going around in circles and going nowhere it is simply up to them to make the change or not make the change. It is a personal decision.....We create our relationships and we show other people how we want to be treated......We show others what we are willing to accept and not accept.....Our relationships to a large degree are up to us.....

One thing said...Whatever choice one makes...Long term revolving doors wear on a person....and wear on a relationship......Making the decision to leave the Revolving door to make changes in life is rarely an easy decision...but often once the decision has been made to create great relationships a person discovers how much time was wasted going around and around in circles......

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