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Trying To Teach my Mom

I'm not a phone person.  I feel guilty about it when it comes to my relationship with my parents, especially my mom, because she'd like to hear from me more often.  I've been trying to bring her in to the digital age.  Impossible I thought.  But my dad has an iPad and has had an iphone for a while, so he's been limping in.  I try to do the obligitory call once a week and let her know that there's nothing new, that hubby and I are both good, the babies are growing, etc.  

But sometimes one week turns into two weeks, then I'm in the third week and I start getting messages where she says "whats the matter don't you love me anymore?".  See now I'm starting to feel guilty just because it's been a few weeks.  I have to confess, sometimes I call when I know she won't answer, and just leave a message.  Please don't tell her!  haha.  i wish she would text me

I send her photo's of the babies every couple of weeks.  i should call her soon

But then there's every day life stuff.  I need to make the doggies grooming appointments.  Turbo and Holly need their teeth cleaned and vaccinations.  I should make an appointment with Stanley Steamer.  And I put it off and put it off until you can no longer tell that the puppies have eyes.  Wow, I just jolted myself into action and made appointments for grooming next week and 2 of them can go in for dentals and shots on Friday.

Is there anyone else out there like me that would rather text than talk?  Actually the question really is:  Is there anyone out there My Age that would rather text than talk?  

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HomeRearedChef 1339 pts

I am not crazy about texting. Sorry! And I have always hated talking on the phone (except when I used to talk to my hubby when we were dating, then I could have fallen asleep knowing he was on the other end). But he just picked up these great phones from AT&T (yeah, those rotten weasels) that have great speaker phones. I can talk to anyone now while still typing away at my computer. Very, very cool!

elaineR.N. 448 pts

I like the convenience aspect of texting, for example letting someone know that I am almost there (not while driving of course, Oprah!) or when I am running late, etc. But, not only would I rather talk on the phone, my preference is to either Skype or Facetime. This way, we can just about be in the same room having a chit chat. Though when it comes to my mother and calling, all I have to do is call, answer loaded questions and then listen to her commentary. I keep remembering, she is almost 90 and it gets me through. P.S., I won't tell your mom if you don't tell mine!!

KarenLynnn 829 pts

elaineR.N. I'll never tell :)

HomeRearedChef 1339 pts

KarenLynnnelaineR.N. I promise not to tell on either of you gals. :)

SunbonnetSmart.com 432 pts

KarenLynn! Love texting...it's a blessing...does she live nearby? Can you give her a phone and sit and text with her to each other?...It's just so sad not to have that option. I bet she'd get into it...You are right...that would really lighten your burden...Much Love, Fondly, Robin

KarenLynnn 829 pts

SunbonnetSmart.com you would think she would embrace it more as she was a secretary back in the day and quite a good typer. i know her fingers aren't very nimble, but still. i will take your advice and next time we are together, i'll make her text back and forth with me. she's in PA, i live in WI.

beckeyp 11 pts

Yes Yes Yes!!!! Most of the time I would much prefer to shoot out a quick to the point text than end up in a long drawn out phone conversation! I just don't like talking on the phone!

KarenLynnn 829 pts

beckeyp it's so much easier to shoot a message! i'm glad i'm not the only anti-phone person :)

Laine Griffin 290 pts

I text my mom all day most days, and we talk a few times a week, most weeks. We're buddies. I'm not as good keeping up with my dad. He's bad at it too. We guilt each other back and forth LOL. Most of the time, yes, I would rather take the easy way out of things and text. I keep up with everyone else basically over Facebook or text.

KarenLynnn 829 pts

Laine Griffin That's cool that you are buddies with your Mom. I am with my daughter, but my relationship with my mother is different. Nikki and I text each other most every day, sometimes from different rooms in the same house so we don't have to holler and wake a sleeping baby. haha.

SunbonnetSmart.com 432 pts

KarenLynnnLaine Griffin What a great idea, KarenLynn...Intercom texting...I'll be trying that....Thanks! Fondly, Robin

victorias_view 1826 pts moderator

I talk to my Mom three times a week on the phone but I don't think their is any way she would learn to text. I don't even think her cel phone has that option. LOL! But with my sisters we are more apt to text and dish on Facebook :)

KarenLynnn 829 pts

victorias_view i don't have enough to say to talk on the phone three times a week!

victorias_view 1826 pts moderator

KarenLynnn LOL! My mom is a talker I don`t even have to say a word just listen ;)

Denise 716 pts moderator

See! This right here is why my monthly to do lists so often include "call my father"! He doesn't really do that guilt thing, he'll just call me - no big deal. But I do feel badly because I don't call (I get busy or I don't really have anything big to talk about.) I just wish he'd text. Or join Facebook. It would be so much easier and he'd know more about what was going on in my world (Daily snow pictures and all.)

KarenLynnn 829 pts

Denise I'm so glad you understand! I'm glad he doesn't do the guilt trip on you. My mom is only partially guilting me and partially joking