Where's My Damn Answer - Six Women looking for our life answers

We started our blog after meeting for wine a couple of months ago.  We all feel like there are times in our life when we are spinning our wheels SO fast and looking for the right answers only to find ourselves still saying, "is this really what I was supposed to do?". Where's My Damn Answer is a place for us to put our inner voices - to scream out when frustrated, share our accomplishments and generally just try to grow a bit.

Where's My Damn Answer is written by six women (most of us in our 40's but we have one youngster friend Jody who's not quite there yet).  We write about life, love, friendship, dreams, hopes, business, wine, adventures, music, books, kids and more.  Most entries are filled with witty and thought provoking words (at least we think they are).  There's a little of something for everyone. 

I've been trying to find a place where we can build our blog within a community.  It's tough to learn all the ins and outs of this social networking thing.  I FINALLY figured out what "Digg"ing a blog meant and I'm still not sure what the heck the delicious (wherever those dots go) thing is about yet.  

What's the best way to learn about growing a readerbase?  Suggestions are certainly welcome ...