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Taylor Swift & Kanye West: White Women, Tears, and Coded Images

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Okay, so I think we all know about Taylor Swift being interrupted last year at the VMA's right? Right. Kanye West caught all kinds of hell for it, and even for his subsequent apologies. So, then why am I linking to the video from this year's show? You can't convince me that you don't want to talk about the past when you do a performance all about it.

Barefoot, standing like a broken doll, and all but crying your way through the whole thing. Ooh, a whole stage show geared to present this image of delicate white femininity while you sing about your innocence being violated. By a scary black man.

Gee, that's not a coded message we've seen before at all. Oh wait, let's talk about the idea of white people feeling violated by black people "not knowing their place" and what that's meant historically to American society. Better yet, let's really dig down into why we're singing about violated innocence like being interrupted on stage is at all equivalent to being physically assaulted. Oh, but then we might have to get into who interrupted her and whether this would be such a big deal if the racial makeup was different.

I'm certain someone will swear she didn't mean to stir up the kind of images that she did. Especially in this "post racial" society. Which, if we were remotely post-racial might hold some water. Not a lot. But some. As we're not actually post anything? Intent (or lack thereof) only carries so much weight before it doesn't matter why you're encouraging the same virulent hate that spewed last year in the immediate aftermath of Kanye's bad manners. Yes, I said bad manners. Because being rude is what he's guilty of and not much else. He's a jackass with issues that he let spill all over her big moment. That sucks. But, that's not a reason to still be playing the victim a year later and using dog whistle racism as a subtext in your performance.

Taylor Swift's paean to being Kanye's "victim" makes me want to roll my eyes at her routine as well as some of the reactions to it. Because if this is what happens when someone is rude to a white woman in public, we really haven't come past race at all. Not even a little bit.

In fact, while we're on the subject of coded language and images, let's talk about the phrase "White Women's Tears" and why it seems to be both problematic and accurate in this situation. There's a case that could be made for inherent misogyny in the way the phrase is used. After all Taylor's feelings were undoubtedly hurt, and she's got a right to express that pain right? Right. So, as a musician she expresses those emotions in the way that best suits her and we shouldn't read more into it than her telling her side of the story.

Except she's not expressing those emotions in a vacuum, and she's well aware of the racial subtext after a year of her fans using racial epithets about Kanye at every turn. She's had a year to debut this song (especially since according to her camp she wrote it in her diary last year) but she held onto it for a publicity stunt on Sunday night. There's some complicated historical and social subtext tangled up in the use of tears this way, and in the reaction to those tears. It's a subtext that makes the phrase "White Woman's Tears" a convenient shorthand for a situation that boils down to a white woman wielding her tears as a weapon against a POC. We're back to intent and the question of whether those tears (genuine or otherwise) and their ability to derail and/or escalate a situation can be separated out from the emotions that may be prompting them.

Personally, I look at the reaction to Kanye's interruption of Taylor Swift, and I think that we have a long way to go before the major concern is the terminology and not the act. But then, I'm not a white woman and my tears don't have any power, so I'm obviously biased by my experiences with the phenomenon. This time the goal of the tears is likely to generate some more sympathy, but we can't ignore the death threats against him that were generated

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AlesiaMichelle 5 pts

OMG- Thank You!! I totally agree!!
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lisanoel03 5 pts

Again, I didn't see the racial subtext in her performance however, I don't understand why anyone can essentially say we expect HER to only respond appropriately when clearly she was treated inappropriately first? Was this a wise play for her? Probably not from my point of view. But I really don't see why we expect a 20 something girl to behave appropriately but not a 30 something man? Is there racial subtext to your expectations?

Again, I agree with others who've said you can NOT possibly know how she would have acted if it were a white male, or even a female that had done the same thing to her. A HUGE moment was stolen from her and I believe she would have taken the chance to use the situation regardless of who had done it. The point is he is the one that did, HE created the situation between a white female and a black male, so how can we blame her for her reaction and pretend to know that she is only acting this way because he was a black male.
I do know that racism, real racism is still in our country but I think it only does a great disservice when people, of any race, try to infuse racism in everything where it may or may not be.
Was there not a race element to Kayne's original feeling that she didn't deserve to win????

sfassioli 5 pts

I didn't see the VMA's this year but I know that Taylor Swift benefited from Kanye's interuption last year. I know he was disrespectful to do it, but wouldn't we all like a friend like Kanye? Someone to stand up and say my friend is the best!

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PauleyD 5 pts

you and my wife must share a brain. BTW She is biracial too (Black/latino) though to most of the world she is identified as black.
We were talking about this and she was saying that whenever she has an issue with someone who is a different race there is always an assumption that there is a racial undertone, even if there isn't one.
When she was in college, she felt that she received an unfair grade on an assignment, so she talked to her professor about it.
He immediately said that he had an issue like this come up before with another minority student and that if she felt he was being racist that they could discuss the grade and if she felt it was not resolved to her satisfaction, they could bring in an intermediary from the dean's office!
My wife was stunned. Her complaints had nothing to do with any charges of racism. She tried to tell him this, but it seemed to fall on deaf ears.
It ended up getting resolved later when other (including white)students also took issue with this prof's grading criterion.
To paraphrase what you said, a person should be allowed to be angry/disagree/butt heads with someone and not be accused of racism.

catherineabayly 5 pts

This is a fascinating rupture of the idea (pretense) of a post-race society. I don't know enough of the the Swift-West faux pas to weigh, but I think your discussion of racial subtext and the non-existence of a social vacuum seems critically informed. Very interesting.
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Laracolvin 5 pts

Look - Kanye is a moron for doing what he did. I don't think the author or anyone else is defending his actions. But Taylor Swift, by performing this song, misplaced her "grace" tiara. That was not graceful. At all. She would have been more graceful if she had just moved on. Just because she is a sweet, young girl who was wronged doesn't excuse her from thinking critically about the implications of her actions.

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Laracolvin 5 pts

Regardless of Taylor Swift's personal motivation for this song (which we'll probably never get her to admit truthfully) it was a horrible choice for the show's producers to make. But like so many systems in this society, mass media and entertainment continue to be white supremacist systems. And by refusing to consider the implications of what those systems produce - or virulently denying them, we are all perpetuating the problems.

That doesn't mean all white people are bad. I'm white; I like to think of myself as a good person. It means white supremacy and structures that continue to maintain the power of the privileged are problematic! And I agree completely that images evoked by this performance are indeed images of racial injustice - whether they are intended or not. We all know, after all, the path to hell is paved w/unintended consequences.

Shame on the show's producers for continuing to stir the pot regardless of the consequences just for profit. Until we collectively speak out, however, I worry not much will change.

Thanks for your insight and perspective.

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MoreThanMommy 5 pts

I already responded to the comment before, and have probably said more than enough, but... I wasn't saying that she shouldn't consider it. I was saying that she shouldn't be attacked for it.

And I have to add that Kanye didn't just interrupt her speech. He took the microphone from her hands and told her that she didn't deserve the award. Can you honestly say that you wouldn't be upset for a long time about someone doing that to you on national TV after working your life toward that goal, especially at the age of 19? It was WRONG. And while I don't know that I would have chosen to sing about it, the fact that he's black isn't a good justification for her not singing about it.

Let's talk about why that made some folks uncomfortable, but let's let the judgment on Taylor go. She has behaved, overall, with a lot more grace than most people would have. In fact, were she not quite so "damsel-ish," she probably would have cursed him out.

Christy

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MoreThanMommy 5 pts

Ok, but I am NOT a white woman. I am biracial, actually, but black is black when it comes right down to how you are perceived. I don't think everyone would see your argument with your husband in the same way. I think we have progressed enough that some people will see it a different way. But the point is, you are still allowed to have a fight with your husband in the parking lot. Your actions aren't the problem. The problem is the perceptions of those actions. In this case, we can't know what Taylor was thinking, but she has the right to express herself, just as she would if Kanye were white. Our perceptions of her actions don't give us the right to stop her from speaking out. Our perceptions give us the right to talk about how it made US feel, or how we perceived things, but not to tell her that she is wrong.

We can't progress if we don't all progress. And that is my problem with this piece. It could serve as an educational commentary and instead it comes off like an attack. If we want to change behavior, we also need to stop playing the victim. Kanye isn't the victim in this scenario. Was his behavior impacted by the acts of oppression and violence against black people? Sure. Just as Taylors were influenced by a history of oppression and violence against women. I mean, we want to talk about coded images? How about a man (any man) telling a woman she's not worthy of something she worked to achieve? And physically stealing that away from her?

Honestly, I don't see how we're going to change anything if white women aren't ALLOWED to be mad at/hurt by black men and behave accordingly.

Christy

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Julie Robinson 5 pts

What I find really disturbing is how much hate there really is in this world. I am, however happy that we are United States citizens who have the right to express our feeling through the freedom of speech.

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empathetic 5 pts

I agree fully. It's the nuance of racial relations in modern society that are complex and cannot be simplified simply to appease white folks that feel that because they don't directly act based on bigotry or racial prejudice that it (race) is no longer an issue.

As the wife of a black man, myself being white, I too absorb his experiences as a "minority" and transfer those into my understanding of the world. I don't dismiss or defend - and I have to be fully congizant of society's view of him and how that translates into our daily life.

And as to the question of when can a white woman complain about the actions of a black man? When it has some actual merit, when it hasn't used a black/white dichotomy as its basis and when it is framed with a good dose of context. Interrupting an acceptance speech hardly qualifies as a year-long complaint that holds legitimacy. Taylor Swift may not even be consciously aware of the ramifications or rationale behind her decision - but I won't accept that she shouldn't consider it.

cyphersama 5 pts

You can stop with your condescension any minute now. Hun? You don't know the writer of the piece so you're being awful casual with someone you don't know.

You could have stopped with your last sentence, and left the whole attempt at gender gap analysis off.

MoreThanMommy 5 pts

But at what point can a white woman be upset at something a black man did to her without us proclaiming racism? I think it's one thing if the author had written about how the song/performance impacted her and how, taken in historical context, it might be perceived. That's not what happened. The author attacked Taylor Swift and accused her of playing victim and deliberately vilifying a black man.

I don't think you can disentangle the threads of racism and prejudice in our country. But I also think that at some point, we stop attacking potential allies and start attacking the underlying issues.

Christy

@morethanmommy

MoreThanMommy 5 pts

You can't possibly know how she would have reacted if it had been someone else. You're making assumptions about her based on her appearance which is never a reliable criteria. If you're avoiding her, how can you possibly begin to know her motivation? It is hypocritical to say things like "I tend to avoid dainty damsels" and then accuse Taylor Swift of victimizing Kanye because he's black. He was in the wrong, and she has responded fairly well, especially considering that she was only 19 when it happened.

You obviously had a strong reaction to her performance, but that doesn't make your perception reality. I still think you're way off base.

Christy

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Dawn 5 pts

usually reserved for one who is pre-sexually active. In fact, when we talk about children and their "innocence" there is a heavily weighted bias towards knowledge of sex/sexuality.

Taylor may not have truly known what she was writing - but I'll be dammed if she didn't just channel about 250 years of American race relations into a song about her hurt feelings.

ironed_orchid 5 pts

Just because fragile innocent girlhood is Swift's image, it doesn't mean that she can't use it as a weapon against others.

Whether she does so intentionally or not is besides the point, it is, as you say, all in the subtext, and the subtext here is clearly that black men are scary agressors and white women need to be protected from them.

This message is insulting to both women and to POC.

Karnythia 5 pts

Being contractually obligated to perform a song does not equal being obligated to perform *this* song. After all she wrote it last year and could just as easily never done anything with it beyond vent in her journal. Instead she chose to present to her label as a candidate for recording. You set up a false dichotomy by acting as though a reversal of races would negate the historical & social context that heavily informs this performance and my critique.

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wave412 5 pts

They may not have physically pushed her onto the stage, but I'm pretty sure she'd have been sued for a lot of money if she broke her contract by failing to perform in all the functions at which she's contractually obligated. That's a fairly forceful motivator.

And I didn't set up a false dichotomy (i.e. I didn't imply that you wouldn't be offended if it were a non-white person singing about a white person) but I do agree with your sentiment that I don't know how I'd feel if it was a non-white singer.

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Karnythia 5 pts

It's heavily weighted to the needs of one race being met above all others or have you missed the part where Eminem acknowledges that he gets different treatment precisely because of his skin color and everyone lauds him for being so aware, while a similar comment from Kanye is automatically judged as him playing the race card. That double standard isn't even remotely applicable in all directions to all racial backgrounds.

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Karnythia 5 pts

She chose to sign the contract to perform and she chose to perform this song that she wrote. At most her label has input, they certainly had no way to force her to do this routine. And as always context matters so it would be different (though no less of a bad publicity stunt) if there was a shift in racial dynamic, because race matters in the U.S. on many levels. One cannot divorce the performance from its social and historical context to set up a false dichotomy.

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wave412 5 pts

Did anyone stop to think that maybe Taylor didn't have a choice about performing this song? Awards shows are about the media industries and promotion and publicity, and she is performing as required by her contract. I have a problem with vilifying her as a person; she's not the one who ultimately approved this performance. And we all know that she couldn't have just refused to do it.

I ask this very honestly (without any anger or condescension, I really am curious): would you be as offended if it were a non-white musician singing about how he or she was wronged by a white person?

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IsleDance 5 pts

There is no excuse for either Eminem's or KW's behaviors. Or anyone else who believes it's okay to take their anger out on (take over) others.

Clearly, racial needs are not being met in this world, regardless of skin color, genetic history or country of residence. Neither are our needs to be protected from abuse.

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Karnythia 5 pts

My motive was to write about what I saw. I'm not about to waste time or text on trying to convince people with a vested interest in denial of the existence of things like aversive racism. That's their work to do and not mine.

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qweerdo 5 pts

I just wish white people could sit back, listen and accept that there is racism in places even if we don't see it. Sit back and listen to people who have experienced it their entire lives.

Nicole_Longstreath 5 pts

Fair enough. Then let me ask you, what's your motive and who is your audience? Are you simply preaching to the choir or are you sincerely trying to reach out to those who may not understand your perspective?

Dawn 5 pts

Childish? Perhaps. But racism is so intrinsically intertwined into the "code" of our American society that it can easily be looked over or re-interpreted as "Oh, get a sense of humor- there is nothing to see here".

The last reported/documented lynching was in 1981. The lynchings in 1930 in Marion were a direct result of a domestic dispute between a white woman and her boyfriend in which the boyfriend was killed...and three black men blamed for the crime, as well as raping the woman.

There are deep issues in the sexuality of white women in relation to that of black men. Believe me - having recently had a patron in restaurant loudly declare that his former girlfriend was dating a black guy now and it was "F**ing Disgusting" - while my husband, and daughter and I sat on the opposite side of the booth - I can tell you that it still happens and is alive and well.

Part of the insidiousness of the problem is it's ability to hide in plain sight.

Its not about getting on the "train" ( or the bus) But the refusal to allow the old coded images and words to be unaddressed. White people might not be able to get away with the Blatant Language of racism (unless you are Dr Laura and try to play off that your freedom of speech is being trod upon) But the coded images and double speak is alive and well. Open your eyes.

Karnythia 5 pts

She wouldn't have given the same performance if Eminem had rushed the stage. If anything we'd have had (as I'm seeing now that he has a new album) a lot of sympathetic murmuring about his issues and possibly a comedic sketch before the whole thing faded into obscurity.

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Karnythia 5 pts

I haven't been living under a rock. I tend to avoid dainty damsels in general and this one in particular has never appealed. That being said, I did feel sorry for her. But the fact that her stage presence apparently relies heavily on victimhood as highlighted on this show, and the condescending lyrics don't change the undertones of why she felt this was an appropriate reaction. She wouldn't have done this if John Mayer had rushed the stage.

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Karnythia 5 pts

I suggest you do some reading on Critical Race theory and white privilege if all you can see here is bitter vitriol and yet you think your comments are happening in a vacuum.

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Karnythia 5 pts

If racism stopped with the Boomers we wouldn't have college kids throwing slave/thug parties right now. There wouldn't be nooses popping up on college campuses or young faces at Tea Party rallies holding racist signs. Racism isn't going away because the Boomers are dying. Their kids and grandkids are more than happy to perpetuate the lessons they were taught. Just like the Boomers picked up racism from their parents, it's a generational gift that keeps on giving.

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Nicole_Longstreath 5 pts

"It would've been hilarious and awesome if Kanye had run on stage, grabbed the mic, and said, "This is a nice song and Imma let you finish, but...."

Now THAT would have been worth watching the VMAs.

Nicole_Longstreath 5 pts

I didn't say racism is a non-issue. The author presented her argument for racial undertones in spat between two celebrities and I'm calling BS. These are celebrities - it's their job to get you talking about them.

Like I said, I appreciate provocative writing and, even though I find her article to be vitriolically bitter, I appreciate the author's perspective. My preference would be that, as women writers, we write to build bridges and not incite divisive thinking amongst ourselves over non-issues such as Taylor "dissing Kanye" at the VMAs.

rayvingraychel 5 pts

Yeah, her music sucks, and I'm left wondering day after day how she got so famous, but I don't think she's racist. Childish, maybe, but not racist

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empathetic 5 pts

I have to say that your response smacks of condescension - especially the last sentence. I'd venture a guess and say that the writer has had very little choice but to appreciate diversity during the course of her life. Simply because you deem that this is a non-issue does not negate the experiences of others or the application of that experience.

JennaHatfield 10 pts

The song, taken out of context of the whole ordeal, is fine. I'm all about songs (and books and movies and so on) with a message that one "mistake" doesn't ruin your life. I mean, honestly, "Who you are is not what you did," is a freaking fantastic message for all of us. How many times have I done or said something that I really, really don't want to be my defining moment? Countless, sadly.

The song in the context of the VMA's, the clip at the beginning and the general feel leads us into the lines that Dawn ( http://www.blogher.com/member/dawn ) mentioned in her comment above. If she hadn't done all of this at the VMA's, we wouldn't be talking about it. But the obviousness is not lost on even traditional media outlets ( http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-31749_162-20016175-103... ).

I don't know for certain how all of it makes me feel within the context of racial issues. I do know that it's not all "in our heads," as suggested by some others. Even if Taylor really thought that this was an innocent performance, she needs to take off the color-blind glasses and revisit the racial issues that were thrown about with last year's debacle. And then she needs to take responsibility for her continuance of the nonsense, intended or, possibly worse, obliviously.

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empathetic 5 pts

Having viewed the performance, I too thought that this young woman was really making a meal of the interruption last year. Certainly the media played a large role in this - the reactions, to me,played into the racial sub-texts of American culture.

My twelve year old daughter caught it immediately - "Taylor is dissing Kanye mom". It's tired and it's old. Enough of the big bad wolf scenario already.

Dawn 5 pts

at least not yet.

I speak from my very own race relations "experiment" of 20 years now. Yes, my husband and father of my daughter is just That - A Man whom I love. He is also a Black American Man born and raised in Detroit and I am a White American Woman.

If I were to pretend that the second distinction didn't exist - that he was JUST the father of my child and my husband, there would be a whole range of his Very real experiences that I would be denying. Furthermore, to pretend that My place as a White American Woman did not privilege me in a way that could be very damaging to him were I to chose to wield it could be unconsciously disastrous.

Lets say I started screaming at him in a parking lot. Do you think that 90% of people would see a husband and wife having an argument - or a white woman screaming because she was being threated by a black man?

I can assure you it is the latter.

I can't speak for the author, but her point is sound. It is frighteningly easy to - even unwittingly - portray yourself as a victim of the scary black men.

(ie: susan smith claimed a black car-jacker stole her car and 2 sons...It was a couple of weeks before the police figured out that there was no "Black carjacker" - The McCain campaign volunteer who claimed an unidentified "Black Man" had cut her face in the shape of a B, the list goes on...)

It is EASY. It is so easy, it is default mode for most Americans.

My take is that the author was calling it OUT - pointing out that even what seemed a simple performance was something much deeper and sinister in our society.

As to your first question - When? Its taken us 250 years to get to this point, it may take another 250 to get to That point.

Nicole_Longstreath 5 pts

Look - I don't want to come off saying "racism's all in your head," but I think you're really reaching here with your analysis. I appreciate provocative words but, frankly, I don't think you're doing anyone any justice with this piece.
Just know that, as the Boomer generation begins to age, their values do too - values which include negative views toward non-whites.
We're moving forward toward an appreciation of diversity - so either get on the train or don't, hun.

aaustin13 5 pts

It would've been hilarious and awesome if Kanye had run on stage, grabbed the mic, and said, "This is a nice song and Imma let you finish, but...."

I mean, if she really wants to say, "It's all good, we all f**k up sometimes," which is the message I hear in the song, wouldn't that have been the best way to make that point? Everyone could've had a big laugh...

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MoreThanMommy 5 pts

No.
Wow. No.

First of all, "delicate, white femininity?" Have you been living under a rock? Taylor is 20 years old and her performance was very much in line with any other performance I've seen from her. This in not Miley Cyrus we're talking about here.

Second, the lyrics are "You're still an innocent," not "I'm still an innocent." It's not about what was done TO her, it's about someone else doing something they may regret. It certainly could refer to Kanye, but the lyrics don't suggest that Taylor feels like a victim.

I am quick to support a sister who is calling racial foul, but I can't even a little bit get on your side on this one. It doesn't make sense to demonize Taylor for being herself, simply because she's white, any more than it does to bring race into the picture with Kanye's actions. He acted like an ass. Sure, if you want to overlay all the things you COULD read into the situation, you can make a hearty list. But just because you can read them, doesn't mean they apply.

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christaleigh78 5 pts

If she hadn't have started the bit with the clip from last year, I wouldn't have seen a connection at all. I think everyone reserves the right to make a mountain out of a molehill if it suits their mood, so although I think the original article was a gross over-reaction, well, so was Kanye's interruption and the attention that followed it. Case in point, I never watch the VMAs anymore because ALL OF IT is an attempt at attention and the whole thing has become quite ridiculous.

allisonbb 5 pts

I agree with lisanoe103. I didn't see anything that made her seem victim of "a scary black man." She also didn't appear to be a "broken doll" or "crying" her way through her performance. In fact, I didn't see tears coming to her eyes at all. If there were any tears, I'm sure it was because of all her eye make up. (I know MY eyes would be watery from a lot of eye make up.)

I thought her song was sweet and she looked graceful. No need for curse words.

I guess it isn't OK for TS to use last years VMA clip, but the snarky remark before KW's was fine.

utopia 5 pts

I did see the VMA's and I am happy I read your blog. I missed that message because the song was so boring. But I see that now. I see us going backwards. I rarely watch Tv for that exact reason.

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lisanoel03 5 pts

am I the only one who isn't seeing this at all. i read the lyrics and basically get out of it that its all good. you made a mistake but that isn't all you are. nobody's perfect type thing!?!?! I don't see some big rasict thing. yeah they played the clips from last year but doesn't that really feel like it should be her place. she was wronged, if she felt some vindication playing it again so be it. sometimes i think we put race into places it has not reason to be. if eminem had done that to her would it be ok for her to have given the exact same performance??

Dawn 5 pts

But, as the white wife of a Black man born and raised in Detroit, I think you hit something spot on here.

I think we can reach beyond just the "poor Taylor" to Kanye's declaration post Katrina that "George Bush doesn't care about Black People". The American Public labeled him a dangerous Black Man right then, and the subsequent Taylor Swift incidences didn't help.

TS may not have consciously realized some of the images she was painting with those lyrics. However, that is part of the problem, isn't it? We - as Americans - have been very, very deeply encoded with the non-language of racism. It is part of the air we breathe. We all "get it" without having to be told.

Tie all of this into every media outlet waiting to reveal the Angry Black Man who is our President and you have a nation who knows how to de-humanize and fear, rather than take a look back at ourselves to see how deeply these messages are buried. Taylor could have ended the song with an accusation of rape - and a good old fashioned lynching.

Dangerous images. Dangerous Times.

honestlyaimee 5 pts

i'm a white girl and my response to taylor...
get off the stage.. my god and get over it. if it wasn't for Kanye she wouldn't have even had a spot in the show this year!! go home taylor and find something else to write a 'not so innocent' song about.

Aimee..