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So a friend of mine went to CIAA a couple of weeks ago in Charlotte and the short story is, she got it in with a well known baller. The player is married, has kids, and is known for getting it in outside of his marriage. I've known a couple of girls that he's gotten it in with but none that he's "taken care of."
Now this female has a job and a college degree. She's cute and just got out of a very long term relationship. Based on her looks, and i'm sure she was glammed up, it doesn't surprise me that she'd catch the eye of said player.
After her weekend she came home glowing and super excited about her night hours with him. She noted that she told him that she was not one of these little groupies trolling through the spot. When he asked her to go to his room. She told him that she wouldn't go unless her friends could go. And that he couldn't talk to her any kind of way. Also that they weren't having sex and that she wasn't taking her clothes off.
Yeah, but after a bit of time, she went to his room.
Alone.
They both ended up naked.
And they ended up having sex.
Now, here's where the age old debate comes in. Does this make you a groupie? If you ask her, she'll say no. She is not a groupie. But what did she do that a groupie wouldn't do? All her no's don't really count if they changed to yes' in a matter of hours.
My opinion to her was, take it for what it was. Chances are, he's going to call you a groupie. He doesn't know you. He's not going to leave his wife for you. You got it in. You're single. You had fun. Don't expect anything from it. At the end of the day, it's just another penis inside of you. It was what it was. Next.
I think that i respect the girl who says, you know what? I want to sleep with LL Cool J. If he asks me to go to his room. I'm going. I'm going to get naked. I'm going to walk out. If he calls me again. I'll get naked again. And that's all there is to it. I don't care what you say. He doesn't even have to remember my name the next day. Granted, you don't have to care what I think about you. But that type of girl plays her position. Way to go. Hell, don't even tell anyone. Just do it. We're all grown.
I mean sitting back thinking about it, i'm sure we all have a groupie list. Someone who is just so damn sexy, we'd drop the drawers for famous or not. Hell. I'm already damn near a groupie for hubba hubba, but he still couldn't have gotten it the other night, but to each his own. I've never had a one night stand, which is what this amounts to, again, famous or not.
As much trash as I talk about what i'd do to Idris Elba and Mike Bivens (yeah..crush from way back). I think that my ego is just too big for me to even begin to be regarded that way. I've met some of my biggest crushes and couldn't even put it out there like that. But when I talk amongst my girlfriends it's girl I'd blah blah blah, and he'd never know what hit him. But at the end of the day. I can't have anyone feel like they have the upper hand on me. And to me, personally, I feel like the entertainer would feel like they have the upper hand on whoever the groupie is.
But my thing with groupies and jump offs is to own it and play your position.
