"Experts" Freak Out Over Shiloh Jolie-Pitt's Lack of Girlie Things

My niece went through a similar phase. It's part of exploring I think. Some may seem more extreme than others (especially if it's pointed out in a tabloid). She had a cute little blonde bob for the longest time then all of a sudden she wanted it chopped off and was wearing what some of her brothers hand me downs (by choice, not necessity). Last year she grew out her hair and is now wearing barettes and pretty shoes.This typecasting of how girls/women should wear their hair and clothing is so suffocating. Yet again, I guess we have it a bit easier than men do in terms of  our selections.

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Did anyone every think that maybe Shiloh decided to cut her own hair or got in a tangle with a bunch of bubble gum? I know a lot of little girls who "went butch" due to a scissor or gum mishap.

But then again, who gives a hoot?

I think it's BEAUTIFUL that they're letting her be herself. I thought it was awesome way back when they said they call her John because she wanted to be after discovering Peter Pan. I think it's great that they're letting her wear what she wants and be who she is. I can't see anything negative coming out of them allowing her to grow into her own person. I wish more parents were willing to let their kids be who they are.

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Where she says "Aren't you worried that you're going to confuse little Shiloh? Give her gender identity issues?"

WTF does Fuller know about gender identity issues? Based on that comment I'm thinking absolutely nothing. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

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Uh-huh.

Really, honestly, WHO CARES WHAT SHILOH WEARS??

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I noticed awhile back that Zahara is always dolled up in princess clothes.  Shiloh is always in denim and sneakers.  I'm no fan of the Jolie-Pitts, but they clearly allow their kids to be themselves. 

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Her yellow shirt reminded me of a quote from the movie Juno (wait, stay with me) when they're decorating the room in gender neutral colors.

I never knew a guy with a yellow room.

It always makes me laugh. Back to the subject at hand.

I was dressed in dresses and pink, non-stop, for years. I didn't have hair until I was almost three and my Mom hated when people called me a boy. Flash-forward my teen and early college years where I shunned anything remotely girly. I don't think she wrecked me psychologically from the over-abundance of pink. I wear it (occasionally) now though I prefer other colors.

I say this because, as you pointed out with the Princess syndrome, I think there's something to be said for not pushing the girl stuff too hard. At the same time, I think there are extremes on either side. And then, on top of that point, it's highly unlikely that anyone at any of these magazines knows exactly what goes on in their home, how they treat their children without cameras and what they are doing to educate their children as a whole about things like gender identity. While they may have hired an expert in a certain field for an interview, the truth is that they can't know the ins and outs of the family without actually spending time with the family. Therefore their "educated" opinions are rather moot.

I think Shiloh will be fine with a haircut that many of us had as little girls and a yellow shirt. She'll be fine if she wears sneakers more than Mary Janes. She'll be fine as long as she has a loving, supportive home. I hope she has that.

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