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Why the Anti-Aging Industry is an Assault on Womens' Well-Being

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Gaea Yudron Sage's Play Exploring creative aging, wellness and spirit www.sagesplay.com

In 2002, three scientists published an article in Scientific American noting that "no currently marketed intervention has yet been proved to slow, stop or reverse human aging." But that doesn't stop millions of people from buying expensive anti-aging creams, utilizing various forms of cosmetic surgery, and generally doing everything they can to stave off any evidence that they are in fact growing older by the minute. Playing on everyone's fear of looking older is worth a lot of money-- the world's anti-aging industry has grown to $115 billion.

Sure, I would like to look 35 again but not 35. I'm 69. I am an older woman and I take the aging process au naturel. My hair is silver, I have gained some weight, acquired some wrinkles and sport the definitive neck skin that made Nora Ephron title one of her books I Hate My Neck or something similar.

To me the huge anti-aging industry is an insidious hype and an assault on our well-being. I refuse to go for it. It is just another highly lucrative way to paint aging as a fearsome, debilitating, humiliating, awful prospect that one must deny or avoid at all costs. Talk about stressful! Thinking that way is stressful. It encourages women buy into a perspective which tells them they are not good enough, not beautiful enough, not young enough, etc.

I find so much emphasis on youthful beauty wearisome.  Our focus on impossible standards of youthful beauty at all ages is exhausting and it leaves out so much.

Women are assaulted about beauty all their lives. As we age, what a wonderful freedom to loosen our grip on these long-held pressures.

Yes, I love the jasmine-scented Vitamin E cream I use on my face.  I like looking good, though my idea of what that means has changed over the years.I am grateful for health and vitality. I take care of my health, mostly with natural, herbal, and homeopathic medicine.

I don't support the anti-aging industry in any way and I never will. I don't want to have to pass for young! Aging has its own beauty; the later years provide the opportunity for a lot of personal growth. Age is a powerful deeply spiritual time of life. By now, a woman knows herself. Hopefully she loves and accepts herself and recognizes her strength and potency. Wanna get cosmetic surgery? Of course you can. Millions of women are doing just that. Just leave me out of it. I like life in the slow lane. I am my own authority  and I am enjoying a peaceful low-stress way of aging au naturel.

 

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Susan Swartz 5 pts

I had tea with a friend who is starting radiation for breast cancer. She showed me her knitted prosthesis as soft as a baby's winter hat. I met her new dog. We talked about husbands and grandkids and how we hated the word boob. A week later I got my Kaiser postcard saying I'd passed this year's mammogram. I don't hate my neck and I love my 67 year old breasts.

gaeayudron 5 pts

Gaea Yudron Sage's Play Exploring creative aging, wellness and spirit www.sagesplay.com ( http://www.sagesplay.com )

Hi Jenna, I colored my hair until I was in my mid 50s, then started to let it grow out by weaving the color through the emerging silvers. I like my hair gray for the political/philosophical statement it makes, and I like the way it looks. There's a lot of other territory to explore and process in terms of accepting aging and embracing it as a positive, valuable stage of life.

gaeayudron 5 pts

Gaea Yudron Sage's Play Exploring creative aging, wellness and spirit www.sagesplay.com ( http://www.sagesplay.com )

I personally like having my hair natural...some women like to color it...it's a choice...to me there are many other deeper issues involved...freedom is important...

gaeayudron 5 pts

Gaea Yudron Sage's Play Exploring creative aging, wellness and spirit www.sagesplay.com ( http://www.sagesplay.com )

You go for it woman....it's time they saw an actual person! And I'm sure it would be a very marvelous adventure.

JennaHatfield 380 pts

I have no problem with appropriately aging. My mom and my paternal grandmother are absolutely gorgeous. They take care of themselves, mind you, and my mom proved her doctor wrong by losing weight after her full hysterectomy. (He told her he'd never seen anyone lose a significant amount of weight after the procedure. Pfft.) They're fabulous role models for aging but still "being" young.

But, I'm sorry, I'm going to use hair dye. I got my first legitimate grays at the age of eighteen. I'm going to dye my hair. I don't know when I'll quit. My grandmother, also prematurely gray, stopped sometime in her 40's. She now just adds a little bit of silver wash in and has beautiful hair. (Though she made the mistake of trying to dye it for my wedding. Funny story. I just laughed out loud remembering it. So I'll learn from her mistakes and not go back to color once I do go gray.)

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

Virginia DeBolt 40 pts

I was thinking just the other day that it would be a public service to the children of Hollywood who never see anyone who looks gray or naturally aged if I went to Hollywood and hung around in public places.

Virginia DeBolt
Web Teacher ( http://www.webteacher.ws/ ) | First 50 Words ( http://first50.wordpress.com )

Briselle 5 pts

When I decided to let my hair go grey, I was asked several times why I didn't want to make myself look younger?
I guess it reminded me of when I was a teenager and my mother always told me that I should wear a padded bra. Why for goodness sake? A padded bra wasn't going to make my breasts bigger. And nor will coloured hair make me younger.
Why do I always need to be something that I am not just to please other people?
It's good to know there are others who share my feelings