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Why I Hate the Burqa

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Siham and her two daughters are seen at the local McDonald's in Gennevilliers, north suburb of Paris, France, on January 17, 2010. A French parliament report called for a ban on the full Islamic veil, saying Muslim women who wear the burqa or other similar face-covering veils, were posing an unacceptable challenge to French values. After six months of hearings, a panel of 32 lawmakers recommended a ban on the face-covering veil in all schools, hospitals, public transport and government offices, the broadest move yet to restrict Muslim dress in France. Photo by Axelle de Russe/ABACAPRESS.COM

It's time to return to the West's most beloved human rights cause: Banning the burqa.



I last wrote about pending legislation to ban burqas in Europe more than a year ago when France first proposed laws to make it illegal to wear the burqa in public. Proposed legislation is pending with a final vote set in September.

There is no argument that can persuade me that laws designed to bully women into abandoning their cultural traditions because it makes people uncomfortable are essential in a free society. If a woman chooses to wear the niqab, who are we to pass judgment? Lawmakers who argue that banning the burqa is a blow against extremism are naïve and lazy. Band-Aid approaches to fighting extremism are rarely successful. It only serves to pander to the ignorance and unfounded fears of politicians' constituents.

Yet I have grown to hate the burqa. I hate the burqa because it serves no logical purpose in Western society. The intent of the clothing is to draw attention away from the woman, but in the West it only attracts unwanted attention. Recently a Glasgow man was sentenced to prison for attacking a burqa-clad Saudi woman on the street. He ripped away her niqab. The woman was a graduate student. She has since quit her studies and refuses to leave her apartment. To her the attack was an act of rape.

I was reminded of this attack the other day as I was sitting on a bench in Newcastle's Eldon Square. I noticed a Saudi family leaving a rented apartment to walk through the square to a nearby restaurant. It was evening and the pub crowd was out and about. The mother was dressed in a burqa with niqab and she was wearing sunglasses. I watched her skirt along the edge of the square to avoid some loud young men who obviously had plenty to drink. The boys mocked her a bit but left the family alone.

I followed the woman into the restaurant. I tried not to be a scold, but told her that wearing the niqab in public on a late Friday night invited unwanted attention and could be dangerous. I suggested that under some circumstances she should consider leaving the niqab at home. A colleague told me he saw the same woman the next day wearing her burqa. Apparently she is willing to risk her safety to maintain her cultural identity.

The climate for Muslims living in the West is becoming intolerable. The UK's Guardian reported recently that three-quarters of the United Kingdom's non-Muslims have a negative view of Islam. About 63 percent agree with the statement that "Muslims are terrorists." And 94 percent believe that Islam oppresses women, according to the Guardian.

The image of Islam in the West is so badly damaged that Saudi Sheikh Aedh Al-Garni issued a fatwa that Muslim women may show their faces in countries where the niqab is banned or when wearing the niqab may pose a danger to the woman.

There are only a handful of niqabis in Newcastle, but each time I see one I want to grab her by the shoulders and shake some sense into her. Protecting her image is not worth the trauma their Muslim sister is experiencing in Glasgow.

This is particularly true for niqabis who wear the burqa for the most ludicrous reasons. Most Saudi women, like me, leave the burqa (abaya) and niqab in Saudi Arabia. But I'm guessing that more than a few Saudi girls wear the niqab because their husbands insist on

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mhndshr 5 pts

A real Muslim with a real faith should be more conservative and accurate when he talks about the fundamentals of Islam including the different " recognized" views of Muslism scholars about the imposition of Niqab or Burqa >>>..Does every body visit any western country would be more lenient or let's say more daring to talk about Islamic "Fiqh and Sharia Issues ' in such a way you broached up here when you say

"Yet I have grown to hate the burqa. I hate the burqa because it serves no logical purpose in Western society"!!!!

How come for a Muslim to hate something at least mentioned and decided by many Muslim scholars and the Prophet's sayings. How come to any Muslim to measure Sharia and Islamic rules on logic and to judge it according the purposes of Western life and norms ?!!!!!!!!!!!! May Allah inspires you the RIGHT and guide you to the Straight Path. Amen

mhndshr 5 pts

But your two different profile photos one on twitter's with Burqa and the other one on other American blog site like Huffington Post you have another extremely different photo with no niqab or burqa at all to the extent that the beholder would never assume that the two photos just belong to one same person - Sabria >>>what does that mean? is it a normal extension of the blatant contradiction most Saudis live in especially women when they remove THEIR hijbs or niqabs as soon as they got on board over a flight heading outside the Kingdom to more free state or liberal country .. And here what I mean in this link >>>

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/sabria-jawhar/why-i-...

The same blog content with two different photos - with and without niqab or burqa >>

Faiqa 6 pts

I am absolutely floored by this post. As a Muslim American woman who was born in the U.S., and who does not even cover her *head* much less her face, I think your position is very intolerant and I am extremely offended by the last few sentences of your post.

I have many highly educated, clever, and vivacious women in my family that cover their faces and I find your comment that their clothing is "stupid" extremely insulting. Neither they, their clothing or their choices are stupid.

They are women who have chosen to assert their identity in a manner that they see fitting. I understand, given your Saudi heritage, that you would assume that the niqab is a vestige of traditional patriarchy, but for many South Asian (and I assume Arab) women, this is not the case. It is, frankly, often a political and social point. One that, I should add, that I don't necessarily agree with, but would never, EVER call stupid.

Additionally, it is narrow minded, ethnocentric and unfair to assume that every woman's reason for wearing the niqab rests upon principles premised upon Saudi culture.

Western ideals are not about assimilating or blending in. They're not even about thwarting danger from attacks by Islamaphobes. The "Western" ideals you allude to are about choice, freedom and respect. The fact that women cannot cover their face without fear of retribution is in contradiction to these same "Western" ideals. As is your use of the word "stupid."

Additionally, I think you should consider what the implication that women who cover their faces invite hostility really means. It insinuates that they are the culprits. This is the same as blaming the raped for inviting rape upon them. Criminals will hurt people regardless of what they're wearing. Hate is not predicated on the way another person is dressed, but stems from deep seated fear and anger.

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Sabria Jawhar 5 pts

Western non-Muslim women are not required to wear the headscarf.

Diana 10 pts

We would never condone someone saying a woman wearing a fitted top and short skirt is "just plain stupid" when a man uses that outfit as an excuse for raping her. So why are we telling women who choose to wear the burqa that they're "just plain stupid" when people use that as an excuse to, essentially, rape them? Because the tight outfit is a western tradition? Because the west is "bigger"? More powerful? Therefore "right"? I'm not buying that, not at all.

I also think, in this age, it's naive to think women can just abandon their burqa here "or go home" and wear it. The west's self-righteous crusade against the burqa will not stop at its borders. Mark my words on that. Whether it is eradicated here by law or by forcible, violent coercion in which women do just what you're suggesting, "choosing" to give up their burqa here, doesn't much matter. Once the work is done in the west they will move on to the Middle East and continue to right whatever they perceive to be wrong there too.

Sometimes, risking one's personal safety to stand up for what one believes in is the only way to enact change. It would be a sad, sad world if no one ever did just that. Rather than condemning these women for their choices perhaps we should focus our energy on finding ways to support them and change public perception of their dress.

Diana
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Melissa Ford 52 pts

This is such a fascinating post. I love the point you make about how the reason for the burqa becomes inverted when taken outside the culture.

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LionessWoman 5 pts

I heard about the ban in France but i had no idea about the extent of the resentment towards Muslims in West. If the state of affairs is truly as dire as you paint it out to be then I believe the new legislation serves a legitimate purpose. The only logical reason I can think of for a country to introduce such legislation is to protect its Muslim citizens from harm. The sad reality is there still is a lot of hatred out there towards Muslims and some radicals would manifest this hatred in the form of physical violence. So introducing this legislation becomes necessary to insure the safety of the Muslim population in that country.

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Random Chick 6 pts

I apologize for my fellow Americans who are consumed by fear and hatred against Muslims. It breaks my heart to see so many choosing to believe the false propaganda rather than educating themselves.

I apologize that these poor women have to be afraid for their safety by simply choosing to follow their homeland customs while living in the United States. Whatever happened to our credo, "Give me your tired, your poor. Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free."

I agree that any law banning the Burqa is an infringement on individual rights, and I agree that it would widen the gap that is already too big between Muslims and the West.

I apologize that the only thing that can be done is to raise our children with tolerance and compassion. Unfortunately, that will take a long time and it may be too late by then.

Great post.

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The Book Lady 5 pts

Hello - I feel so bad for that lady in Glasgow. We have a couple of ladies that wear them here in Omaha and while it definitely catches my attention I see it as being similar to a Christian who homeschools or the women and girls who dress modestly as they believe Christ would want them to.

It seems like people are so rude anymore. You would think in this day and age that people wouldn't taunt and terrorize others for what they believe in. But I'm sure it's only going to get worse. And that's a very sorry thing.

Tina "The Book Lady" Peterson

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SandraMort 5 pts

"I always try to smile at women who are covered"

me too, same reasons. though i tend to feel more comfortable around women than men to start with.

"Of course, I also think women should be allowed to walk around topless if they so choose, but that's an argument for another day.)"

not so sure it's a different argument.

SandraMort 5 pts

do they claim to have religious freedom and equal rights for women? how is it relevant?

Alison Chambers 5 pts

Go to Saudi Arabia and western women must wear head scarves.

Judy Schwartz Haley 32 pts

whether a garment is a magnet for attention or not, to restrict a woman's choice as to whether or not she can wear it is oppressive.

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mashadutoit 7 pts

I agree that laws outlawing the burqa are not liberating to women. But I would like to share my slightly different experience.

I live in Cape Town, South Africa. South Africa is (so I'm told) majority Christian, but the neighborhood I live in is very Muslim. We live part way between three Mosques, and many of our neighbours are Muslim. At the moment, we are surrounded by people celebrating Ramadan.

I frequently see women in various forms of Muslim dress - from those who dress pretty much as I do with the addition of a head scarf, to those who wear the full burqa and niqab.

The latter, I believe, are Somalians.
My friends tell me that these Somalian women are very limited in their freedom - apparently many of them are not allowed to learn to read.

It is strange - because we all live so close to each other, but our lives are so very different. On the one hand, it is disturbing to see the evidence of such a rigid and oppressive attitude to women.

On the other - there is a part of me that loves to see this evidence of cultural difference. I love to see them walking so confidently and gracefully. I cannot know what it is like to be them - but it seems arrogant to pity them.

SandraMort 5 pts

almost everybody wears uniforms to declare who they associate with, how they identify themselves. whether it's the monochrome goth clothing, button down shirt and tie of office workers or the conservative clothing and wigs of orthodox jews, people use clothing to express their role within their subculture and the larger world around them.

while i agree that women who dress in traditional muslim garb face additional dangers, i strongly disagree with placing the responsibility for being safe on these women at the cost of their values. do women deserve to be raped for wearing miniskirts or going out alone at night? do gay people deserve to be beaten for holding hands with their partners in public? do jewish men deserve to be targeted for religious hate crimes for wearing the more obvious fur hats and black suits during the summer or even for wearing a yarmulke instead of a bare head in public?

let's not let the world's current islamaphobic rage confuse us. hate crimes are abhorrent and the perpetrators need to be held accountable for their actions. don't let the media frenzy confuse the issues. regardless of your feeling about islam, blaming the women for wearing their chosen garb is unfair.

j_gumieny 6 pts

I enjoyed reading your perspective!

J
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jaelithe 7 pts

Because I know no one else in the crowd does.

It makes no logical sense for people to get angry at women for wearing these clothes. Either the woman is wearing those clothes because her husband and family have coerced her (in which case, why be angry at HER?) or she is wearing them as a personal sign of faith (in which case, I think, who would attack a nun for wearing a habit?), or she is wearing them because she just plain feels most comfortable that way (because she enjoys feeling modest, because she enjoys feeling anonymous, because it reminds her of her first home, whatever).

You are right that these bans in the West are NOT about women's rights. If officials were really concerned about women's rights, they would open free women's education centers and domestic abuse shelters. They would go into the community and engage with women in a respectful way, without insulting their religion or their intelligence. Telling women what they can and cannot wear is just another way of curtailing women's rights.

(Of course, I also think women should be allowed to walk around topless if they so choose, but that's an argument for another day.)

NotJustAnotherJennifer 7 pts

I had no idea they were wanting to ban wearing it. That's crazy! You're absolutely right - what's the difference between a law saying you must wear a burqa and one saying you must NOT wear a burqa? That's ridiculous.

The source of bigotry is fear. And unfortunately, a small group of Muslims has created fear in everyone, resulting in hatred for the majority instead of the few radicals. I saw this sketch regarding the mosque in NYC on Facebook yesterday, and I could not agree more:
http://www.facebook.com/Levis?v=app_11066572565567...

I'm sorry that the burqa is a source of frustration for you. I can understand how it would be hard for a Muslim woman in the West to know what to wear.

Jennifer Barr is a wife and working mom of two beautiful girls, 3 going on 13 and 9 months, which means she's sleep deprived but constantly kept on her toes! Most of those experiences are chronicled on her blog, http://midwestmomments.blogspot.com.