PyCon and Adria Richards: When a Woman Speaks Up
By Virginia DeBolt on March 24, 2013
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- Standardista, in Death by 1000 Cuts, comments, "It’s tiresome when you’ve heard inappropriate sexual jokes in a professional setting 1,000 times. It’s ‘Death By A Thousand Cuts’. At some point the micro-aggression kills your spirit. Adria was tired of confronting directly. Many people argued “why didn’t she just confront them.” Is that our job? How many times do we have to repeat this chore? Many people are too scared to confront people. When was the last time you confronted a mother who was smacking her child? Or a police officer who was harassing a black teenager? Why do people think it’s OK for them to insist that Adria have confronted the men behind her when they themselves don’t confront when they’re offended."
Hold the Elevator
Imagine we are all trapped in an elevator together. It's a common enough movie trope for when the characters in a story need to make up or get acquainted. Here we are – the offenders, the offended, the trolls, the opinionators – all together in a small box from which we can't escape. What would we say to each other while we waited for the elevator to move? Let's do that.
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