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Willow and Jaden Smith, Lauryn Hill: Is It Time to Stop Idolizing Black Celebs?

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Recently, best-selling novelist Terry McMillan caused a mini-furor via Twitter when she pondered whether actor Jaden Smith, 12, and singer Willow Smith, 10, were being "pimped out" by their actor parents, Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. Willow created a buzz last year with her “Whip my Hair” single, and Jayden appeared in The Karate Kid. Lots of actors' offspring have careers as of their own, so why did this particular family come under scrutiny?

Maybe because a lot of people agree with her? With the Internet, we have more immediate access to what celebrities are doing and whom they are doing it with. Also, with Twitter, people can forget to use their "inner voice" and in 140 characters, write whatever comes to mind. In this particular case, McMillan wrote what I certainly wondered about, which was why these kids aren’t in school and whether their parents are using their children’s fame as a way to keep their names in the press. As Womanist Musings pointed out, McMillan isn't the only one doing the speculating: "Just typing in Willow Smith and education in a Google search window will reveal many hits."

PARIS - JULY 25: Actor Will Smith poses with Jaden Smith (L) and Willow Smith (C) and wife Jada Pinkett Smith (R) as they attend

After all, we have seen Willow, with her crazy hair and ridiculous attire (and might I add, clothing a bit too old for a ten-year-old to pull off) on various red carpets -- and, based on the success of one song, open for the likes of Justin Bieber, an enviable opportunity for aspiring musicians, young or old.

We have seen the Smith kids get career opportunities that others would vie for, not necessarily because of their talent, but more because their faces are becoming a mainstay on various celebrity sites, and because their father has made a lot of money in the commercial movie industry.

And if you have ever watched Celebrity Rehab or even simply followed what happened to child actors Gary Coleman, Todd Bridges, Dana Plato, Britney Spears and Lindsay Lohan, we can easily surmise that becoming a celebrity at a young age isn’t always the best thing to happen to a kid.

Despite what we may feel about the Smiths, what is interesting about this story is that it's an example of how Black communities seemingly have an emotional investment in the goings-on of Black celebrities -- a personal stake in what they do and what they do not do to "discredit the race." There is a vested interest in the success of Black celebrities, despite their personal dysfunctions. After all, if they can make a name for themselves in the fickle (and some say racist) entertainment industry, so can we…or our sons and daughters.

The response to Terry McMillan’s tweets was interesting. McMillan was in the news a few years ago, when the man she married, 20 years her junior, announced he was gay. Because she had written a book (How Stella Got Her Groove Back, later adapted for the big screen) based on their relationship, the press went wild with the revelation. Many commenters went after Terry McMillan for her tweets, citing her failed marriage. From the Huffington Post:

As someone whose had the unfortunate experience of meeting her in a social setting, Terry McMillan came across as a very unhappy bitter broad. She was brusque and seemed angry. So it's not surprising she would characterize the Smith children in this way. People who are happy in their own lives have no need for this.
… She does give off that vibe. BTW she didn't seem to have a problem being pimped by her ex-hubby.

As usual, it is almost a given that one who offers a dissenting opinion is the one who becomes the villain.

Questions about how Black celebrities are perceived and the role they play in our lives, also came up recently around how Black-centric websites, blogs and even folks on the street are going after singer Lauryn Hill, who is currently on tour. As with the Smiths, people seem to be fixated on Hill's image, what she represents within Black communities,

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ModaMama 5 pts

I'll stear clear of comment on the Pinkett-Smith family business because I'm not in a position to say what I would do as a celebrity with my child's aspirations, but I think you've hit on something much larger than yea or neigh to kids in show-biz... a group's vested interest in the success of someone who they feel reflects the communities aspirations as a whole.

In Hill's case, because her music and message made her such an enormous role model in the lives of young women, black in particular... it is hard to not set her on a pedestal. I think it's natural for minority groups to feel a sense of belonging through protecting an image they see as a representative of the group.

But I think Foxyc hits the nail on the head, do these celebrities become the target for harsher criticism because there is a feeling that a community wants them to succeed? How come nobody was asking about the Lohan kids and their education on hold?

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foxyc 5 pts

Willow & Justin Bieber were mentioned in the same sentence, which made me want to ask? Shouldn't Justin be in school as well? I don't think overall people are idolizing black celebrities...
Entertainment makes for great pasttimes. People shouldn't make assumptions & I think Willow and Jaden's talent should be exposed and commended...

Homeschool & tutors seem to be the norm for kids who follow in the footsteps of their parent's celebrity, or am I missing something?

dianaelee 5 pts

As someone who loves Lauren's music it makes me sad when we hear about her erratic behavior. It seems like she's struggling. But it's kind of silly and really rather self indulgent to expect a real live human being to continue to be exactly what we thought she was for the rest of her life because we have enjoyed her music and her ideas.

My husband and I were lucky enough to see her on tour with the Roots when she was promoting Miseducation and it was magical. But you can hardly expect the woman to be doing the same thing well over 10 years later.

I'd love to hear some coherent new music from her, but more than that I just hope she's got the support she needs for whatever she's been dealing with in her life.

As for the Smith kids, I'm not going to lie. Terry's comments seemed random and kind of bitchy, but then again 140 characters doesn't provide enough context to really know where she was coming from. Further, there are also a number of examples of celebrity kids who've grown into extremely successful, healthy adults. I think we're just quicker to think of the tragic examples.

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QiSoftware 5 pts

Yes, the last paragraph seems to be the answer. But why a limited title?

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mrswright 5 pts

Great post! I speculated on some of the very same things concerning this issue in a post on my blog. Overall though, I share kdc521's sentiments. We don't know them and what goes on in their home. How they raise their children is their business. To each his own.

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WritingItRightForYou 5 pts

What is wrong with involving the kids in "the family business"? Happens all the time in all industries.

What do you mean "the kids should be in school"? Does the person who made that comment know that Will and Jada started their own charter/private school based on the highest educational standards, goals and objectives? That's the school Jaden and Willow attend.

Of course those kids have things and opportunities that most kids can only dream about! Their parents are rich! Duh!

I am much more pleased seeing a loving, nuclear intact and secure family than worrying about whether Willow is overdressed or Jaden attends premieres with other well-known people.

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kdc521 5 pts

Although she has been a bit "off" career-wise, Hill was 100% correct when she told the fans "You don't know me."

While it's great to take note of (and learn from) things that are admirable in celebrities and other public figures, no person is perfect/worthy of being an idol.

As far as the Smiths, I think that it's good that they are supporting their kids' interests. I think THAT (rather than trying to make your kids fit in societal boxes)is worthy of imitation. But then again, that's just my perception of what is happening. I (like most other onlookers) have no idea what is going on in their home...

Melissa Ford 5 pts

I think some of it depends on how you're idolizing them. If you see them as humans who will always change and grow, I think that admiration is healthy. I get a lot of joy out of watching concert videos ($16 DVD is a lot cheaper than the tickets to the show :-), and one we were watching last night had an interesting point. The new album was a departure from their old music. The band was saying that people were calling them sell-outs, and they were confused because they were under the impression that they were musicians first and foremost, and that meant their style of music was bound to change over time. And then there are the people we admire instead of admonish for reinventing themselves -- we admonish Lauryn Hill and we admire Madonna. Why is that?

I think every group does this -- looks at their celebrities and hopes the rest of the world will see them differently based on the admiration of their celebrities. But it doesn't really work in either direction. When celebrities do something terrible, as much as the group collectively cringes, the reality is that the rest of the world goes on as usual. And when celebrities do something amazing, it doesn't really reflect back on us as individuals either. Racists will remain racist until taught otherwise, whether or not they're subjected to and admire the coolest celebrities in the world.

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