Bio
A sweet Southern girl. Married 5+ years to a devilishly handsome man. Harrison est. October 14, 2009. Miscarriage survivor. Reflux warrior. Beating po...
 
 
 
 

Most Popular

Wills & Kate: I Just Can't Hate

  • Share This Post
  • Pin It
  • 11
  • Sparkle (
    )
     

When I was a little girl, I adored Princess Diana. She was perfect in my eyes. I knew nothing of the struggles to be royal but only saw pictures of her swirling through a ballroom with John Travolta. Her tragic death came as such a shock; I felt horror at the paparazzi involved and the voracious appetite of society for details. I hoped that in the midst of tragedy, a lesson of privacy and personal space was learned. For the next few years, I snubbed my nose at every gossip column regarding the young princes William and Harry. I rolled my eyes constantly in the check-out line, thinking that we should just give those tea-drinking royals a break. I shook my head at the years-long hype of, "OH MY GOD, IS WILLIAM ABOUT TO PROPOSE?!"

But then he did propose. To a gorgeous, sweet-looking gal named Kate that could make jeggings look high-end if she ever sloughed around and oh my God, is that Diana's ring? How sweet, how thoughtful. I wonder what he said on one knee...

Will and Kate (Poppy Scarlett/Retna Pictures/UPPA/ZUMApress.com)
Photo Credit: ©Poppy Scarlett/Retna Pictures/UPPA/ZUMApress.com

WAIT. No. I swore I would not get wrapped up in the Royal Wedding. People get married every day and it's no big, right? The only thing special about this couple is that she could take bird poop and limp spaghetti and wear it as a charming hat (and more importantly, make it look amazing). And oh yeah, there's that whole heir-to-the-British-throne thing.  Plus the jewels. Oh, the jewels! I wonder what tiara she'll wear on her wedding day. Oooh, People is running a list of possibilities and I think #3 would be fantastic because it's so dainty...

WAIT. No. Not getting wrapped up in this, remember? I want to hate Wills & Kate and shun their wedding out of principal, despite her being a commoner and the really cool notion of charity donations in lieu of gifts. And I certainly won't think about her dress. Like if she'll wear cream or pure white. Or the length of her train. Rumor has it they'll be hitched in Westminster and there's no freakin' way she could get away with a chapel length. Someone's sister's cousin's ex-boyfriend's roommate heard that she's going with Sarah Burton as her designer... oh my, she is starting to look thin in pictures. I get that she wants to shed a few before the big day (what gal doesn't?), but she's small enough to put in my pocket already....

STOP. Just stop.

Somewhere in the innocent midst of wedding dress theories and flower choices, the topic of Kate's weight came up with readers and journalists incensed that the palace refused to disclose the number on her scale. And so the dangerous slide begins. Where do we as a society come off thinking we deserve to know this girl's weight? We start off simply wanting to know the lace on her veil, but soon we're breaking levels of appropriate curiosity and questioning every move she makes. What makes us entitled to know the things that William has ever whispered to her, the promises made in the dark hours of the morning? Are they not any more sacred than our own and deserving of privacy?

Kate Middleton deserves her day and her groom. She and William also deserve privacy on delicate matters of the heart to prevent history from repeating. So Wills & Kate, while I cannot hate you or snub the excitement mounting over your wedding, I will take the lessons we should have learned a decade ago and be keeping my polite distance across the pond.

How do you feel about the Royal Wedding publicity? Do you think that as public figures, it's just "part of the job" and we are entitled to every nitty-gritty detail? Will you be keeping your respectful distance from the tabloids in the grocery line, or have you already placed your order for a Wills & Kate commemorative china plate?

 

Beth Anne blogs under a pen name at The Heir to Blair where she dishes on motherhood & life.  She also delivers tidbits of random in 140 characters or less.

  • 11
  • Sparkle (
    )
     

Comments

Post comment as twitter logo facebook logo
Sort: Newest | Oldest
Jane Byers Goodwin 5 pts

Frankly, it's such a relief to see some sweet loving Royals instead of the skanky adulterous "I want to be your tampon" nastiness and so much of the deliberate hurting of someone who loved someone who loved someone else and who didn't give a hoot about hurting her as long as he got what HE wanted (his cake and the eating of it, too). I only hope William takes after his mother's side and not his father's. So far, so good. Was Camilla at the wedding? How awful if she was. . . . She has my vote as the cruelest, most selfish woman (note: I didn't say "lady") on the planet. Plus, there's the ick factor.

But no, other than ranting about the Buckingham Den of Personal Selfishness & Iniquity, Wherein We Care Nothing About Anyone Except Ourselves and Don't Even Know How To Buy Shoes in a Store, I think it's all a lot of expensive hooey - money used frivolously that could have been put to so many better uses.

P.S. I loved Diana, and intend to like Kate & Wills - unless the Windsor genes start showing.

Also? Not a fan of any kind of expensive, money-wasting nonsense. I've taught too many years and seen too many children whose shoes are held together with tape and string to smile at people who throw money away on fashion designers and a cake that costs more than a house.

"Don't be content with being average. Average is as close to the bottom as it is to the top."

Jane blogs as "Mamacita" at Scheiss Weekly, ( http://janegoodwin.net/ )hitting the fan like nobody can.

suzstreats 5 pts

I totally understand & feel like I agree with this post...but that said, I know I'll devour my mom's People magazine as soon as she's done with it. Does it make it better if I'm not actually buying the paparazzi rags?!

Suz blogs about life's treats {& tricks} at http://suzstreats.blogspot.com & tweets more than Husband would like @suzstreats.

Rachel @ UpperBottom.com 5 pts

There's so many negative and trajic things in the media lately, I think a little light royal wedding chatter is refreshing. I don't particularly follow it- let's see... busy with Sister Wives season 2, DWTS, Teen Mom, the norm- but I do welcome the relief from news that makes me want to cry in my jammies and feel guilty for whining over spilled caramel macchiato.

It's a release, I think. And people need that sometimes. I do.

Thanks for the witty post!

lifeasaSAHM 5 pts

I loved Princess Diana. I really did. She was like a real life Cinderella to me.

I always swore when I grew up I would marry Will. Hello? My name was the same as his mom. It was fate. :p

I was HORRIFIED when the press launched the whole "What does Kate weigh" thing, and even more saddened when she seemed to start disappearing before my eyes. She is a beautiful, classy woman who is simply perfect. And there is no need for us to know anything more about her.

Diana is the author of the blog Hormonal Imbalances ( http://hormonal-imbalances.com )"The Confessions of a Crunchy Housewife". She blogs on her marriage, life as a temporary single mom, and realistic parenting.&

LanitaMoss 6 pts

Hi, my name is Lanita and I am an anglophile.

I was in high school when I became enchanted with Lady Diana....the fairytale, the horse-drawn carriages, the big dress, not to mention a slight passing resemblance.

I got up at 4:00a to watch her wedding, and I got up at 1:30a to watch her funeral. Despite the paparazzi, I am still fascinated. I don't need to know her weight or what Wills whispered to her when he proposed. I just want to see the wedding, the jewels, the dress, and the horses. I want to believe in fairytales.

I am also going to let my 6 year old stay home from kindergarten that day and get up at 4:00a to watch the wedding live. I think I will make scones and we will have tea.

Lanita Moss 

A Mother's Hood ( http://amothershood.com )

Nobody wants to be Ethel 5 pts

I will toast their happiness and wish them well. Then they can go hide in Northern Wales where William will be stationed for the next two years away from the media (I hope).

The Patty Beat can be found at  http://pattyabr.wordpress.com ( http://pattyabr.wordpress.com/ ) where The Fearless Cook resides ready to take on your most feared items in the kitchen.

tophersgirl 5 pts

about taking the lessons we learned from Diana's life as well as her death.

Being curious about her veil or her dress or her ring are a far cry from demanding to know the number on her scale or the promises they make to each other when the lights are out.

But whether or not the public learned that lesson, I sincerely hope William and his family learned it.

I really do.

Mae Winter blogs at Parenting In Progress ( http://parentinginprogress.com ) and tweets @tophersgirl1 because some poser who never tweets already took tophersgirl without the 1.

HeirtoBlair 5 pts

yes, yes, yes.

Beth Anne blogs under a pen name at The Heir to Blair ( http://theheirtoblair.com ) where she dishes on motherhood & life in general.  She also delivers tidbits of awesome ( http://twitter.com/heirtoblair ) in 140 character

HeirtoBlair 5 pts

It is fascinating, absolutely.

I even wrote a post when they got engaged about how I used to pretend I was marrying Prince William as a young girl.

I think it's all about appreciating the "fairytale of it" (aka watching the wedding & Dateline stuff) versus genuinely being upset that they only released two engagement photos or asking how much Kate weighs.

Beth Anne blogs under a pen name at The Heir to Blair ( http://theheirtoblair.com ) where she dishes on motherhood & life in general.  She also delivers tidbits of awesome ( http://twitter.com/heirtoblair ) in 140 character

Mom2Peanut 5 pts

I am one that was so excited to see they had finally gotten engaged and cannot wait to watch the wedding on tv. The hubby thinks I am insane for wanting to be up in the middle of the night to watch, but I think they are both so sweet and kind. He seems to have inherited his mother's traits of kindness and Kate seems like a really nice, down to earth woman.

The weight of the future Queen of England should be off limits as should the other personal details.

A wedding day is so special, especially for the bride. They need to have their own little secrets that the public is just not entitled to know about.

I'll still watch every news story that comes up about them though, and read every magazine I see with them on the cover.

Hypocrite much. I suppose so.

What She Said 5 pts

I agree with you. While I love learning about the wedding details, I think they're entitled to their privacy. Every nitty-gritty detail of their lives is NOT part of the job as public figures, nor is it any of our business. I wish them every happiness and sincerely hope they're able to live out their lives in peace.

Kristin (@SaidKristin ( http://twitter.com/#!/SaidKristin )) blogs about everything from motherhood to stink bugs at her virtual mind dump, That's What She Said. ( http://twss-blog.blogspot.com/p/who-she-is.html )