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An African American Woman Seeking an Online Network

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I want to find a network of like-minded women of color. I want to join a community of dynamic women who are career-minded, preferably entrepreneurial. I would love to be a part of a group of women whose background and history are similar to mine, whose challenges reflect a similar and shared experience. Like the majority of women in the U.S. who use the Internet to blog, Tweet and update our statuses, I am looking for connection and friendship and support.

I love my connection with the fantastic BlogHer community, and I greatly value my friendships with the diverse groups of bloggers and writers and commenters that I have connected with online over the years. But I am, at this stage in my life, with older children and a budding business, in need of a more-structured, cultural connection that is specific to the woman of color experience.

I’d like to find a network that focuses on business — how to run a successful small business, how to brand oneself, and how to get the word out. But I’d also like to find a group that discusses personal challenges like relationships and kids ... and the best products to tame my natural hair.(You know, a black girl can’t use any ole thing on her hair!) And I’d like a place to discuss and share our common cultural connections. I want an online community where I can give back. Is that asking too much? Nope, I don’t think so.

So I have been looking. And as it turns out, I have discovered a few promising community options and am intrigued by the people behind them. LaShanda Henry has created a little fiefdom of cultural connectivity over at Many Shades of You Online and The BlackWomenNetwork. Henry is a web designer and work-at-home-mom who has, for the past ten years, been growing her crop of websites and networks into an interconnected web-world specifically for people of color. She is a whiz at design and an expert at brand development. But she clearly has a heart for all things African-American. Her networks include Black Business Women Online; The Black Mom’s Club; What Black Women Think; and the most recent addition, Social Media Sistas.

All of her networks are good-looking and well-populated. The Black Business Women Online has a million things going on. This network boasts over 8,000 members from very diverse backgrounds and business interests, ranging from college students to business headliners like Richelle Shaw, who owns a telephone company (as in a public utility) and was recently featured with Oprah in Black Enterprise Magazine. Henry showcases members and their success stories. She offers webinars and ebooks of her own and by others.

I was happy to see that she features new releases by black authors prominently on the main page. There are twenty discussion forums with subjects that run the gambit, though most of the topics are promotional -— members (and Henry) promoting their services and wares. Interestingly, the most active discussion topic by far is "Sistas Connect," where members can talk about anything and everything. And they do! Henry is very actively involved in the site. She contributes regularly in the forums and groups (there are over 300) mostly by promoting her members and her services. But despite the heavy presence of ads and promotions, the site feels welcoming, open, and friendly. It is especially designed for business beginners and aspiring entrepreneurs.

The Black Mom’s Club is a network for "Black Moms, African American Parents, Mothers of Color, Single Moms, Dads." This site, too, is visually appealing and engaging. I was thrilled to read a featured blog post by Henry of her interview with Terry Crews. Terry "Muscle Man" Crews, devoted Hollywood father of five and the funniest man on television (in my opinion), is the star of the new sitcom, Are We There Yet?

The Black Mom’s Network also showcases other Black parenting bloggers and Black family websites. There are over 3500 members, mostly moms with a few expressive dads. The forum has 8oo topics on record, but very little discussion is taking place. On the other hand, a featured member blog post titled, "Are Black Women Teaching Their Daughters to be Mean?" got 56 comments. The few exchanges that are happening in the forums are positive and supportive. The video section of the

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sharon2x 5 pts

I was wondering where were the networks for women of color. I took a peek at the Social Media Sistas site, and thought the site was very informative.

miz sharon

Gina Carroll 5 pts

Hey Ya'll,
I just found another network that is a keeper (pun intended!) Yes,I AM My Sister's Keeper A very cool destination!

Gina Carroll also blogs at Think Act: Proactive Black Parenting and Tortured by Teenagers

Gina Carroll 5 pts

I am so glad this is helpful, Valerie! And thanks for spreading the word!

Gina Carroll also blogs at Think Act: Proactive Black Parenting and Tortured by Teenagers

Valerie Ritchie 5 pts

THANK YOU!!! Your blog was very informative and helpful. I have come across many helpful websites for women entrepreneurs but not many websites that are specific to women of color. I appreciate your recommendations and have posted your blog to my Facebook page!

teendoc 5 pts

I've got my hands full with all the communities I'm now juggling, but I'm thrilled to find this list and will definitely bookmark it for later. Thanks!

Liana 

My color is my joy and not my burden...

Gina Carroll 5 pts

Vanessa,
Just visited your site, TheGirlFriendGroup  ( http://www.thegirlfriendgroup.ning.com/ )--another keeper! You guys have a good thing going over there! You know what? I scoured Ning to find groups like yours and you didn't show up. If there is a way to increase your groups visibility(searchability), I recommend you try it. I'd hate for woman looking for your group's energy and support to miss you!

By the way, you are not an aspiring blogger. You are a full fledged blogging machine!!

Glad to find you and your community!

Contributing Editor Gina Carroll also blogs at Think Act: Proactive Black Parenting  ( http://www.proactiveblackparenting.blogspot.com/ )and Tortured By Teenag ( http://momhouston.com/torturedbyteenagers )

Gina Carroll 5 pts

Welcome to the blogsphere, Rhonda!

Thank you for adding such an uplifting blog to the mix!

Please let me know if you find a network you like and decide to join!

Contributing Editor Gina Carroll also blogs at Think Act: Proactive Black Parenting  ( http://www.proactiveblackparenting.blogspot.com/ )and Tortured By Teenag ( http://momhouston.com/torturedbyteenagers )

thegirlfriendgroup 5 pts

I thoroughly enjoyed this blog Gina. Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone out there! I founded TheGirlfriendGroup last summer and it saved my life. I'm creating, helping, blogging and inspiring everyday. Keep up the good work.

reason 5 pts

Gina,

Bravo to you and your efforts and thank you for posting such good information. I am also an African American woman who has started a blog in hopes of creating a conversation among all women about issues, big and small, that will serve us in a positive way. My site is only two weeks old but hopefully will have a faithful following in time.

It's good to know that so many female writers and entrepreneurs are making their voices heard on the Internet.

Rhonda
www.awickedaffair.com ( http://www.awickedaffair.com )

Gina Carroll 5 pts

Yes, Melissa, coming from you, the queen of all network builders!

I do agree that fashioning a community to welcome future friends, share common interests and ignite mutual endeavor would be very rewarding! Creating such a space is a much different activity than finding and settling into a lovely existing community. I think, for now, I am in more of a settling in kind of mode. But we'll see! :-)

Contributing Editor Gina Carroll also blogs at Think Act: Proactive Black Parenting  ( http://www.proactiveblackparenting.blogspot.com/ )and Tortured By Teenagers ( http://momhouston.com/torturedbyteenagers )

Melissa Ford 5 pts

I agree with Jenna--if you build it yourself, people will come. Though it's great to find these sites already in place. Especially if you can add your energy to the group energy.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Gina Carroll 5 pts

As I was perusing the sites that I found, I was in awe and wonder of the women who invest the time and energy to keep these sites going and growing.

So hats off to you Jenna. From what you say, it's been well worth it!

Contributing Editor Gina Carroll also blogs at Think Act: Proactive Black Parenting  ( http://www.proactiveblackparenting.blogspot.com/ )and Tortured By Teenag ( http://momhouston.com/torturedbyteenagers )

JennaHatfield 10 pts

There was no "safe" online group for birth mothers when I started blogging about my experience. Through my blog and the comments I've left on others, I have created my own safe community of like-minded birth parents. They hold me up when I'm down, rejoice with me when I experience something awesome and give me advice when I don't know what to do.

Online niches are what you make of them, whether you're using someone else's site tools or reaching out on your own. Best of luck finding a community that fits you!

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.