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I am so glad that Michael Barone finally explained this all to me, because I really wasn't sure why I disliked Sarah Palin so much. Apparently, I just resented her for having had a baby that I - being a pro-choice zealot and all - would have aborted. Maybe if she'd been more willing to kill her baby, I would have liked her more. Because, you know, I just can't trust any woman who would pass up the opportunity to terminate a pregnancy. Terminating pregnancies is AWESOME.

Seriously. Did the right-leaning media learn nothing from John McCain and his dick fingers? Was nobody paying attention when women from North America and beyond FREAKED OUT at John McCain's suggestion that pro-choice women like abortions so much that they'll invent "women's health issues" to get them? Have these people all recently suffered blows to the head? Because, seriously, how can they be so stupid?

This is what Michael Barone said:

"The liberal media attacked Sarah Palin because she did not abort her
Down syndrome baby... They wanted her to kill that child. ... I'm talking about my media colleagues with whom I've worked for 35 years."

(I'll give you a moment. Feel free to shriek loudly. I have earplugs.)

He later said that he was joking - which, really, would qualify him for some kind of Howard Stern Lifetime Achievement Comedy Award, if it were true - but seeing as most thinking adults would recognize that dead baby jokes don't really play that well outside of shock radio shows, I'm guessing that this was a lie. Also, as the writers at Jezebel noted, he failed to mention that the very same argument had appeared in the National Review a few weeks ago, so he's not only guilty of stupidity, douchebaggery and extreme bad taste, but also unoriginality.

Kevin Burke - the co-founder of a "post-abortion healing ministry" - had this to say in the National Review:

"Governor Palin has been clear that, despite the challenges Trig’s condition will present, she and her husband Todd joyfully celebrate the gift of this precious life to their family. But this very heartfelt, natural expression of love may be striking at a deeply repressed and painful wound in our culture.

Seeing the Palin family, in a very visible public forum, with an uncompromising and public pro life philosophy arouses deeply repressed feelings in post abortive parents, as well as media members, counselors, health care professionals, politicians and others who promote abortion rights, especially the abortion of children with challenges such as Down Syndrome. These powerful repressed feelings of grief, guilt and shame can be deflected from the source of the wound (i.e., abortion) and projected onto an often uncharitable focus upon the trigger of these painful emotions… the Palin family."

And in case you missed his point:

"The Palin family’s decision to once again affirm the value of the
unborn child, and support a decision to give life confronts the
collective grief, guilt and shame of all who have participated in any way in the death of an unborn child... We must invite our post-abortive culture to leave the dead end road of anger and personal attacks on families like the Palins."

Because, yes, of course: my discomfort with Sarah Palin had nothing to do with her anti-choice, anti-woman, anti-intelligence ignorance-peddling, and everything to do with my repressed rage at her decision (dare I say CHOICE?) to keep her baby when I - pro-abortion zealot that I must be to even whisper the word choice - might not have. OF COURSE. Why didn't I think of that?

Here's the thing: I've had an abortion and it's something that I will have conflicted feelings about until my dying day. I've also given birth to two babies - and had a Down's Syndrome scare with the most recent pregnancy, and an even scarier scare (Duchenne's Muscular Dystrophy, a condition that is terminal for the afflicted child) in the first. So I've been down both roads; I've made the choice to terminate a pregnancy, and I've faced the fear that accompanies choosing a future with a possibly developmentally disabled or terminally ill child. In the first case, I agonized over my choice; in the latter cases, my husband and I agonized together. In the end, in the latter cases, we decided that we would carry on with the pregnancies no matter what. But I - we - remain grateful that these were choices that we were able to make

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Wakeupwomen 5 pts

Totally.. I couldn't have said it better myself..

Yea to you

Angie The Average 5 pts

What really sucks is the fact of what ever choice she made , she would have been wrong. People will never be satisfied unless they feel the right to judge others on their personal life. Men spew that kind of crap because they can stir debate, equalling attention to themselves. Women seem to care more about being better than other women rather then trying to change things so the option becomes less viable.

 Unless my neighbor is commiting felonies, I will continue to let them live their own lives quietly, while I consentrate on running my own.

PunditMom 5 pts

Can Michael Barone be done now? Really. No need to see him. Ever. Again.

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Crimson Wife 5 pts

An individual's right to privacy is not absolute. It does not allow one individual to committ an act of violence against another individual. That second individual's right to be protected from violence against him/her trumps the first individual's right to privacy.

 As a society, we have no problems with the government limiting the right to privacy when it comes to such things as marital rape and child abuse. And the violence in those cases is not even fatal. Why, then, do so many have a problem with the government preventing the violent ending of an unborn baby's life?

 Women have the right to choose BEFORE a new life is conceived. Afterwards, the right of that child to life deserves government protection. 

caro 5 pts

Ok, I am pro-life, and even I wouldn't vote for her.  Although I strongly feel that all life is precious, I certainly realize that pro-choicers are not "anti-life". 

This election was not based on one issue/law.  The fact that everyone got so tied up in it shows that they're trying to deflect attention from the fact that Palin is unqualified, unintelligent, negative, and along with John McCain, determined to ruin our environment, health care system, and safety. 

Ok I'm done.  But when even my uber-religious Pro-Life (doesn't even support birth control) mom won't vote for her ticket, you know they've got a problem.

Wakeupwomen 5 pts

For me to be right I will not make another person wrong. So in the most gentle way I will respond to this comment without using the word Wrong, which would imply sorted judgement. I do not stand outside the abortion clinics and try to catch some woman or girl before she walks into the clinic in an effort to talk her out of an abortion. However I have two sons that are 21 and 24, and a grandson that is 2. I am presented with many young ladies that come my way that are friends with my sons who find themselves pregnant.(only one has been one of my sons) When my grandsons mother told me she was pregnant, I did talk her out of having a abortion, however a year later when she found herself pregnant again she did. Now she sufferers from depression, regret, and guilt. She had an abortion because she was unmarried and did not feel she could care for another baby.

I have a genetic brain disease that I carry, my mother, sister, brother and two if my sisters children have already died from the disease and it will show up again some where in my lineage, my grandson is fine he does not have the disease but he is a carrier. My sons are carriers but they do not have the disease, but somewhere sometime there will be a pregnancy in my immediate family where we will have to make a choice based on genetics. I will cross that bridge when it is in front of me. But to have an abortion when the pregancy bears no problems, I do not agree, there is a better way, and I spend my energy not defending pro-choice or pretending that abortion is OK for healthy pregnancies, but presenting other options like adoption, because I feel that for the parents who are unable to have children who would make wonderful parents they should have that opportunity, and for the unborn child I offer a vioce of reason.

As a metaphysician I feel that each spirit is whole and perfect and is only housed in a organic animated body suite, and when those spirits are aborted they will get another chance at life, maybe with the same parents maybe with someone else, or maybe those spirits chose to be with the parents with the knowledge that they would never be born, as part of a plan that will help us free willing humans make different decisions not based on convenience, or inconvenience, or pro-choice or pro-life but based on Spiritual principles to guide us. The value God attributes to the human being begins with the Fetus.

Part of my platform is to assist in the process of helping prevent unwanted or unplanned pregnancies by using modern contraceptive methods that are so plentiful, and offering spiritual guidance when ASK. It appears our best efforts to prevent Sex has not worked.

I could continue but I need to change a poopy diaper because we haven't potty trained a two year old, and let a dog out before I have another mess to clean up.

Life is beautiful Live it..

Her Bad Mother 5 pts

That sums it up - what is right for YOU.

I'd add, though - when another woman is going through the very difficult (in some cases agonizing) process of deciding whether or not to terminate a pregnancy, I would hope that you'd only share your feeling if asked for it. This is such a deeply personal issue - what is right for you, what your feeling is, isn't necessarily so for another woman.

If anyone had offered unsolicited advice when my husband and I were deciding what to do when it looked like our child might have a terminal, disabling condition, it would have messed with my head bad. And that is, simply, wrong.

I understand your feeling very well - but remember that it's just that: YOURS.

Wakeupwomen 5 pts

In the past I have been pro-choice, but after I miscarried a baby after 13 weeks and saw just how developed it was it was then and there that I turned Pro-life. I am well past the age of having babies now but there are so many parents who are childless that would love to adopt any unwanted baby that I can't imagine abortion as an option. But that is what is right for me. And given the chance I will certainly share my feeling with someone who is considering abortion to choose adoption.

schmutzie 5 pts

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sugarbritches26 5 pts

Glad they cleared that up for me. For the life of me I just couldn't figure out why I dislike her so much.

Mrs.Micah 5 pts

I thought it was a courageous choice she made to go ahead and have the baby and I think Trig is just adorable. But her choice to have a baby had nothing to do with why I didn't like her. There are so many reasons I didn't like her and I can honestly say that Trig never even crossed my mind. If anything he was a plus for being so cute. ;)

I wasn't even pissed that her daughter is keeping the baby. The closest I came on that was being worried that her daughter was/is being pressured into getting married to someone for all the wrong reasons and that the marriage won't end happily. I hope that now the Palins are backing off (I hope) the national stage, Bristol will have more time to think about feel less obligated to go through unless she wants to.

Also, I think that her daughter's pregnancy is an excellent illustration that teaching abstinence won't stop kids from getting pregnant. Teaching contraception won't either, but to pretend that contraception will turn absinent kids active is ludicrous and I hope Palin learns from this lesson at home.

lilmommythatcould 5 pts

In a way this article sums up where the anti-choice movement is going wrong.  Scare-tactics, blatant lying and allowing men to be the mouth-piece.  

~Susan

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RenaissanceTrophyWife 5 pts

What a scary article!

That's right, the "pro-abortion" movement is composed of baby-hating women who just get pregnant so they can have the joy of terminating a pregnancy, viable or non.

It makes me livid that McCain (and countless others) characterize pro-choice as being pro-abortion.  

Oh, and the 20+ years of education I got, thanks to women's rights and equality?  Might as well flush that down the toilet since apparently I'm still not smart enough to decide what I want for my body and my future. And the corollary to that is: Sarah Palin is a female candidate who can't put together a simple sentence, therefore women should vote for her because they're not smart enough to know what they want. 

Looking on the bright side, at least they're keeping pitchfork manufacturers and pitbull breeders in business.

RTW

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florencia 5 pts

Catherine, as always, you said it right.  It's hard to believe that in this day and age we, pro-choice people, still have to defend ourselves for thinking a woman should have the right to choose. It's unbelievable. It's ridiculous. But there are soooo many out there who probably read this guy's article and thought "oh, yeah! that's right! them baby haters!" and that is the scariest part of this. Thanks for writing and sharing, you really make a difference :)

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chibijeebs 5 pts

"He later said that he was joking..."

The obnoxious standpoint aside (how assinine can you get?!?), the whole "I was just joking <insert eye-roll>" defence makes my blood boil.  

Super Jive 5 pts

Well said! I had not heard this. Thanks for this. I can only sit back and clap.

SJ

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gunfighter 5 pts

Shows what YOU know... I have always been angry at pro-choicers.  Who the hell do they think they are, with their notions of making their own decisions?!

Don't they realize that if they would just abdicate the thinking process to Phyllis Schlafly, Sarah Paling, Ann Coulter, Gary Bauer, and that creepy Michelle Malkin chick, they'd be much happier?!

"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing"

Edmund Burke 

zchamu 5 pts

Everyone knows all us pro-choice freaks just walk around telling every pregnant woman we see to terminate or we'll taunt them forever.  Silly Sarah Palin exhibiting free will and informed decisions.

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Southerngirl 5 pts

Thanks for clearing this up for me.  All this time I was thinking it was because of her lack of intellectual curiosity, her mean spirited speeches, her being completly unprepared, her anti-choice, anti science veiws and many others I do not care to list.  I did not know I was harboring resentment at her having Trig.  I guess I can cancel my therapy apointment.

GIVE ME A FREAKING BREAK!!! 

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Backpacking Dad 5 pts

I'd forgotten all about him. That's how outraged I was about her choice to carry him to term: totally exited my awareness.

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