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After all this time, I always says that once I got married, I don't want to work.. Work here means 9 to 5 kind of work.. And I accept that suggestion.. Realizing that I start this family from the very zero beginning.. That it's not the right time to quit yet.. But, after what I saw today.. No.. Damn right I don't want to be like that.. 100% bloody sure about that :( One day..
Considering the situation, the city's traffic, the stamina factor n blablabla I really wish I could stay @home n let the hubby do the dirty things hehehe :))
But all the elders say, as a newlywed, both of us need to work.. Especially when u're in a 'so so' condition :) they say living cost would not be affordable if only one of us do the income.. Once we got enough saving, then maybe it's time for the wife to back off if she wants..
I start think it all over again..
I watched my friend, a mother of a 2 years old girl, must go to a meeting after working hour.. Experiencing the city's traffic.. And still on the way home on 9pm -_-
Luckily, today she got me n hubby to drive her.. All she need to do is just concentrate on the meeting and sit tight in the back of the car.. But, still I can see the exhaustment, the desperate n all the push-u'r-stamina-and mood to the limit feeling..
And listening to all her stories.. How she seldomly got a chance to spend quality time with the daughter and husband (she even needs to work on weekends)..
I realize..
That I surely don't want to be like her.. Getting home exhausted.. No stamina's left to play with her daughter.. No mood to share the day with her husband.. All she could think of was just get into the shower and went straight to bed.. Preparing for another working day..
I know, by remembering the elder's words.. I can't do it immediately right now..
I can't just back off while my new family still finding its place to stand on its own..
But I'm preparing..
Preparing, analizing and try to find other way to help this family in any other way..
Hopely, by the time when children comes along, I'm ready to be with them all the time instead of just seeing them in rarely weekends..
Hopely, one day I can share a day with my husband with a good mood.. So I can help to change the bad day into a blessing day..
Soon, I hope.. :)
