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Would You Get Plastic Surgery to Further Your Career?

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Nobody likes to think that an attractive colleague might have a greater advantage in the workplace. After all, promotions and other opportunities should be based on how well you do your job -- not the length of your hair, or the size of your chest, or the slimness of your waist.

But apparently that’s not the case. Attractive people tend to get paid more, and they’re promoted more often, and because of that, plastic surgery procedures are becoming more common.

Now, of course this all depends on the industry in which you work. If you’re a freelance writer who uses the internet to send submissions and never (or hardly ever) has contact with your employers? You probably won’t feel the same kind of pressure. But other workplaces are different. Maybe they want an attractive person interacting with their bigwig clients, or sitting at the front desk greeting visitors.

I wonder...what’s the reason for the rise in cosmetic surgery? In the past few years, have women suddenly become so much more uncomfortable with the way they look? Has the stigma lessened, along with the risks? Or are reports like these -- telling us we’ll have more opportunities in the workplace if we look more attractive -- partly to blame as well?

I have mixed feelings about plastic surgery. On one hand I wish there was never a reason for a woman to feel insecure about the way she looks. But, unfortunately, that’s not realistic. I also know there are plenty of women who have had procedures done and felt a whole lot better about themselves afterwards. Who am I to judge and say they should have remained the way they were?

After all, if people want to look better, there are other things you can do to your body that could be compared to the risks of having a surgical procedure. What about going to tanning beds and/or laying out in the sun to darken your skin? At least cosmetic surgery doesn’t cause skin cancer.

There are also certain procedures you can have done that don’t have the same stigma attached as, say, having liposuction on your thighs or getting a face-lift. For instance, I had laser-eye surgery last year, and I’m happy with the outcome. That was an elective procedure, and I could’ve chosen to wear glasses for the rest of my life if my contact lenses were really bothering me that much. But even though I chose to have that surgery, no one has ever questioned my decision or said, “My, how vain of you.” (Unless it was behind my back and I never heard about it.)

As another example, what about going to a dentist to have your teeth whitened? Just because it’s safer than going under anesthesia to have a boob job, it’s still elective. You’re having your teeth whitened because, in your eyes, whiter teeth will make you look more attractive. (And I have no problem with that. I’ve been thinking about having my teeth whitened, too.)

In US News, Liz Wolgemuth describes How Plastic Surgery Can Help Your Career.

[T]here's increasing research that says looks matter in jobs beyond the silver screen -- that beautiful people make more money and have more opportunities for advancement. So it's no real surprise that plastic surgery is being deployed as an instrument of career advancement. [...]

The American Academy of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery reports that, among last year's most prominent trends, about two thirds of its members reported seeing men and women who requested cosmetic surgery because they wanted to remain competitive in the workplace.

Moe at Jezebel reacts to this trend of getting plastic surgery to stay competitive in the workplace.

Fun new trend being reported by two-thirds of plastic surgeons! People are getting it done to "remain competitive in the workplace," with eye jobs and teeth-whitening two of the most popular procedures. Hey, cheaper than going back to school and easier than learning Flash design!

If you want a non-surgical alternative to a rounder rear end? There’s always the option of booty-boosting panties. Leslie at The Weighting Game tried them (and posted pictures of the before-and-after).

And yes, I did wear them out in public, all day and all night long. […]

8:20am I run into the bedroom where Dan is still sleeping and start yelling and screaming for him to "look at my new butt!"

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Kathleen3 5 pts

At my age, probably not........

But, for those women who might not be confident they can compete in a world such as we live in these days, plastic surgery might well be the confidence booster they need.

Making certain they have a board certified plastic surgeon for any procedure is a MUST!

A friend of mine was put in contact with the website http://www.ebreastaug.com/ where she not only got answers to many of her questions regarding the breast augmentation she wanted done, but was able to search their directory for the surgeon nearest her. I would hope others in need of information of this nature would go to their site.

Zandria 5 pts

I completely agree that there are cosmetic procedures that may not be elective, but they also require a lot of thought -- hell, I had one myself back in 2001 (corrective surgery for scoliosis). On one hand, it was something that was recommended for me to do (because the curve in my back was likely to get worse, and cause more pain as I got older), but it was cosmetic as well. The rods that are attached to my spine fixed the protrusion of my right shoulder blade.

Are there things I wouldn't do? Sure. Just like you, even though I have small breasts I wouldn't get implants (unless, like I said in a previous comment, it was one of those situations where a mastectomy was involved). I have a bump in the bridge of my nose, but I have no desire to get that "fixed."

I agree 100% that people should be judged on the merits of their work, not on the way they look! :)

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lauriewrites 5 pts

Great, another topic I have strong feelings about. ;)

I've had plastic surgery, none of it elective. Born with a cleft lip and palate, I had to have several reconstructive procedures, beginning at six weeks old, to be able to breathe, eat and function properly. Besides, unlike countries where such procedures are a luxury and not a given, it's pretty much a done deal here in the States that the repair will happen. (Lip and palate repair are considered essential procedures...although access to medical care/insurance still often determines how much surgery/continual reconstructive work a person has access to throughout their formative years.)

I am pretty much "live and let live" when it comes to plastic surgery, although not being in a position to choose whether I wanted it or not from infancy makes me biased. Make no mistake - it is a bitch. Recovery is often quite difficult from rhinoplasty (nose jobs) and I cannot IMAGINE having invasive surgery on my breasts without a medical reason. Having had a bone transplant, I'd have to be pretty desperate to do it again - OUCH. HELLO. This hurts.

Yes, I do think that if you need to feel good about yourself and feel like reconstructive surgery is a necessary step, go for it. But I don't agree with it in principle, mostly because I've done the hard work my whole life of grabbing onto this process of living happily and successfully as a function of competence and drive - and with building up confidence and purpose as an inside job. No amount of surgery, for anyone, will repair a belief system - fed by a society that really fails on this issue, repeatedly - that they must be physically altered to be acceptable. My best friend from college is beautiful. Absolutely. Inside and out. She got breast implants and it broke my heart, because I knew that it was based on some internal sense that she was unacceptable and would never be good enough. I don't know that it helped. Hugging her felt weird. Again, her choice, but to me it was sad.

As my face has shifted and changed over the years (hi gravity) I have considered further repairs because i thought advances would make my scars less obvious, and actually been asked, rather rudely I might add, if I'm going to have "any more work done?" And every time I think about it I immediately become exhausted from the thought and I buy myself a new shade of nail polish or some cute shoes. And I also smile at myself a lot.

Structural work looms for me because my jaw is shifting and this is affecting my alignment, and the frequency and severity of migraines. The thought of having to get this fixed is so upsetting, not the least of which because it will take precious time that I don't have. I have work to do. I am also a professional person who KNOWS I have been judged based on appearance not just because people often stare, but because I also judge other people in the same way. I notice how they look. But you know, some of the prettiest people I've worked with have been the least competent. I do not go in for advancement based on looks at ALL, and a lot of the people i've worked with haven't been beauty queens, even my bosses who have made more money.

I'm also (GASP) overweight, so the results of many studies indicate that I should be picking up garbage in a parking lot somewhere. I absolutely refuse to buy into it. I believe that my brain and the rather snazzy way I present myself are the best I can offer...and I have seen FAR too many people succeed who have far worse impairments than a strangely shaped nose or a few extra pounds to believe that it's all about that.

At least I hope it's not. Short answer - would I have surgery to improve my career. No. And no one should, I judgmentally say. It's not worth the trade-off.

Laurie

nellewrites 6 pts

I'd never have sought out such surgery absent the sinus issues.

What was interesting was the justification. I've never been one to look back after transition, nor would I let what others think cloud my own self perception...

with that, the surgeon submitted this to the insurer based on the fact that as a transsexual woman, a more feminine looking nose would help alleviate trauma from comments made by others.

Now that was amusing, given it has never ever been an issue.

nelle ( http://www.nelle2nelle.org/ )

Zandria 5 pts

But at least you can say the reason you had your surgery was because of breathing issues -- you didn't do it just because you wanted to change the shape of your nose. There were definitely other factors involved. It's the same kind of thing with women who have mastectomies because they're at high risk for breast cancer, and then have implants put in -- the reason isn't cosmetic.

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Zandria 5 pts

A lot of people who have made great advances in our way of life -- past and present -- weren't considered particularly good-looking. It's scary to think we might be overlooking someone in the future because they don't fit the way WE think they should look.

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nellewrites 6 pts

since 11 days ago, I underwent surgery.

To be sure, I'd personally not make the choice in a work related way, but that is me, someone who works in a secure access, no public allowed, work area, and who makes a living via a telephone and computer. 

My own reasons are rather hybrid. There were significant and increasing sinus issues, creating pain around the sides of my nose and up around my eyes. A CAT scan showed a deviated septum, narrow nasal passages, and an air pocket.

Three choices. Option 3 is surgery. My choice. Ah, and while we do that, why don't we shave some off of your nose on the downslope, and give it a subtle curve?

I initially said ok, then changed my mind the following Monday. I called the person who scheduled surgery and got an 'mkay.' Several weeks later, authorisation for a sept and rhino plasty showed in my mail. Does this mean?

Yes, it did... they sent it in for approval, and the insurer authrorised the whole package. And so it was done.

It isn't a drastic change, but it is a good change, one that I am quite happy with, worth the days and days of nothing but sleep and bleeding.

In the end, it all comes back to one word that rules my outlook in so many things: choice.  

nelle ( http://www.nelle2nelle.org/ )

stormcarver 5 pts

The trend toward plastic surgery as career move is a frightening one.   That it might take the place of further education or personal effort within a company is very telling of our social values.

 We get closer by the year to a society that more values the cover than the book.  It really pains me, because, historically, some of our best, brightest, and most talented, were by no means attractive, even by the standards of their time.  When does our society begin completely ignoring content and ability in favor of glossy giftwrap?

I recently explored on my blog the topic of cosmetic plastic surgery where it pertains to breasts (http://stormcarver.blogspot.com/search/label/breas..., and ran into some frightening statistics.  There were 94,000 plastic surgeries done for children in 2006.  Of these, 14,000 were breast reductions for teenaged boys!  You can't tell me that the majority of these weren't done for the "appearance over content" reasoning.

Would I have plastic surgery done to further my career?  No.  If I was not respected for my abilities, I would increase my abilities.  I want to be respected for who I am - not what I look like. 

~Stormcarver

www.stormcarver.blogspot.com