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Would You Want to Know at 20 When You'll Go into Menopause?

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Researchers have created a simple blood test that will predict when you'll go into menopause: the question is, do you actually want to know?

While the knee-jerk reaction may be a quick, "of course!," circumspection makes me wonder if ignorance is bliss, especially if I was offered this test early on in life. We all know menopause happens at some point and regardless, our fertility wanes as we hit our thirties, and even knowing that, we make choices about family building (and career) that best fit our life situation. But if I knew concretely that I was going to hit menopause early, how would that have colored my decision about attending graduate school, affected my relationships, or turned up the panic level to an ear-splitting decibel?

According to Australia's ABC,

Researchers at the annual conference of the European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology say a simple blood test will provide an accurate pointer of when a woman will hit menopause and the test can even predict when young women may lose the ability to have babies.

Close-up of a young female medical professional holding up a test tube

The blood test measures the levels of anti-Mullerian hormone (AMH) in the blood and the test can be given to women starting in their 20s. And the blood test so far has been scarily accurate. According to the Iranian doctor who created the test, there has been "only four months difference between the estimated age and the actual age."

Would I really want to know that I'm going to go into menopause some time between February and May 2014, with the date circled on my calendar with a thick black marker to symbolize the end of my child-bearing years? Even if you choose not to have children or hate your period with a passion, there is still something emotional about menopause in the same way that there are emotions surrounding the first menses. It is about possibilities starting or possibilities ending.

The test, of course, has its flaws and some researchers are still booing it. Still, it's impressive to have pinpointed that "a low AMH level of 2.8 nanograms per milliliter in a 20-year-old means she'll hit menopause by age 38."

Zoe Williams at the Guardian gets to the heart of the matter; that this test is more than a predictor to help women plan their lives. It's a slap across the face to pay attention to our biological clock. She writes,

The fertility conversation has less and less to do with the practicalities of people who want babies. Some – who see women's advances in the workplace and the world generally, as too extensive, too arrogant, too unseemly – seize gleefully on the female biological clock. It is an endorsement from the authority of brute fact that women can't have it all, however stridently they might want it. A feminist of any mettle, whether she has or wants children, or not, reacts against this mind-your-eggs argument, perceiving in it the subtext: know your place.

So is it a paternalistic tool meant to keep us barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen (and out of the office conference room) or is it a sympathetic tool meant to help women get into the work force by giving them a time frame where they won't have to worry too much about infertility (all other infertility factors aside)? I flip back and forth on this, obviously seeing the same subtext Williams points out and how the information can be used internally or externally in this manner. But I also know that many would want to know when entering fertility treatments how aggressive they should be or when to step away from the table. Some fertility clinics do a poor job helping women stop treatments, and this gives women a concrete piece of information to use in decision-making and being a self-advocate.

Getting pregnant immediately isn't the only option women have who learn they will be going into menopause earlier than expected. Egg freezing has made huge, successful leaps forward both in terms of being able to freeze the eggs and thaw them. People already in a partnership can also create frozen embryos (which are less tricky to freeze than unfertilized eggs) to use later

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LawyerMama 5 pts

I just can't decide if I'd really want to know something that might have changed how I lived most of my life. But that's in hindsight. At 20 or 25, I probably would have wanted to know.

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

Interesting to have those test results in hand and see how fluid they really are as well.

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

Just want to repeat your words while I nod my head: "Our technology outpaces our emotions and some of the technology has had people make some effed up decisions."

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 5 pts

Absolutely--it reduces female factor down to a single cause, and while it is A cause, it is not the ONLY cause.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 5 pts

I worry on both ends--that it would give people false confidence and that it would discourage women from following dreams beyond family-building. Having the information in black and white could sway a person in either direction.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Dora-isothegoldenegg.blogspot.com 5 pts

Since I haven't been married, and spent much of my adult life without insurance, I think it would have just freaked me out.

As for the test itself, I'm skeptical. My clinic uses it. My result was awful. My RE said with my number, I could expect symptoms within a year. Of course pg and nursing are delaying that. (one reason for continuing to nurse.) A friend who is a year younger than me tested exactly the same. She has been having hot flashes for a while. Another woman I know from my local SMC group, who is several years younger, also has a similar number. She got pg on her first clomid IUI. So, I think more studies need to be done. BTW, although my clinic uses this test, they do not base decisions on it, since it's still considered experimental.

Candelaria Silva 5 pts

One of the things that disturbs me a lot about scientific discoveries especailly as they relate to the body and nutrition is that a little bit of information is known and then people rush to apply it. Menopause is one of those phases of life. I had two false starts with menopause before finally going through it. Have not experienced the vaginal dryness or diminished sex driver.
I would not have wanted to know when I was 20 or 30 or 40. I tend to like to take life as it comes and have had enough experience to try to live life to the fullest because nothing in life is guaranteed, certainly not tomorrow, certainly not that you have the time you think you have to do all that you want to do. I think it's more important to take care of your body as much as you can so that you can face pregnancy (if it comes) and menopuase when it comes. Our technology outpaces our emotions and some of the technology has had people make some effed up decisions.

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sangela71 5 pts

Not sure if I would've wanted to take this test in my 20s. And if I had, it likely would have given me an artificial security about my future ability to get pregnant.

I am nowhere near menopause currently, based on my lab results, and yet we have been TTC unsuccessfully for over two years. The mere fact that a woman is not yet menopausal does not mean that her eggs will still be of a quality good enough to produce a healthy pregnancy.

MoreThanMommy 5 pts

In terms of the feminist perspective, I don't agree that this would necessarily have us tied to the kitchen barefoot and pregnant. On the contrary, it may give a lot of women the confidence to pursue a career before having children, knowing that they have the time. Most women don't go into menopause until after 40, but quite a few of us feel a strong tug from that biological clock starting around 30.

I don't know if I think it's a great idea to over-predict our lives, but I also don't think this is some giant blow to feminism. That seems like a glass-half-empty perspective.

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

Is it sort of like the equivalent to having unexplained vs. a reason? Everyone wants to have answers so they can do something--or simply know so they can move on.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 5 pts

Would you have been ready to hear that information at 20? Use it? I don't know--at 20 I was unmarried and deciding whether or not to go to grad school. If I knew that at 27, I would have high FSH, would I have panicked about finding a partner, made a decision to become a single mother by choice, not go to grad school?

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

VibrantMommy 5 pts

Yes, tell me. Tell me now. Some things are better left to mystery, but not this. I would like to know so I can prepare for it. I don't want crazy madness to just sneak up on me. I don't want to be wondering if my mood is because I am starting menopauuse or if I am just having one of those days. Where do I sign up to find out!

StolenEggs 5 pts

I think all of us POFers will say YES. Scream "Yes!" We're the ones who are going through it (early menopause, that is). I would have done so many things differently had I known. I didn't get my AMH test until it was 0.1.

Melissa Ford 5 pts

That is incredibly frustrating. You know your body better than anyone (they may know medicine, but YOU know YOUR body.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

LMAshton 5 pts

The glory that is the double post...

LMAshton 5 pts

I would have wanted to know. Absolutely. Two major reasons, both health related.

I would have wanted to know when the hell that was my periods would finally be over.

And secondly, I would want proof that I was going through early menopause (started at 36, now fully menopause sometime before 42) so that the stupid narrow minded asshole gynocologist would believe me. And so he wouldn't suggest vitamin E as a remedy for all the symptoms that are so obviously in my head. Because early menopause is impossible and just isn't the case with me, according to the gyno. Despite all the female relatives - mom, sister, grandmother, for example - who went through it, too.

For me, it's completely not fertility related - no matter what I do or could have done, there was no way I could ever have gotten pregnant anyway, early menopause aside.

And yes, there is at least a little bit of anger there. It would have been nice if even one of the docs I saw had taken me seriously.

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

It's true--what I would do now vs. what I would do then are two very different things. I wouldn't have been able to talk my 20-year-old self out of wanting that information.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 5 pts

True--there are a bunch of POF blogs on my blogroll.

At 27, I had the FSH levels of a 40-something. You just never know and this test can only measure the AMH in your blood--not account for any other infertility factors.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Just_Margaret 6 pts

My forty-year-old self would tell my twenty-year-old self not to bother finding out. My twenty-year-old self would probably go ahead and find out if possible. Because I could.

I think Jenna makes a good point--what if you were to ignore symptoms because you'd already attributed them to menopause?

And suppose the test is just plain wrong?

~Margaret

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Julie Ross Godar 5 pts

That early it's called "premature ovarian failure" (fun term, huh?) I was lucky, really -- I had already decided I didn't want children. But I would have appreciated the test to give myself some time to wrap my brain around it and make some health choices unrelated to fertility, and then just to have more options to ponder.

I had hot flashes the same time as my mom! We would call each other up and compare. Weird bonding experience.

POF happens to 1 in 1,000 women under 30 -- not common but not super-rare. Something to think about.

Melissa Ford 5 pts

This is an excellent point: "we're learning more and more about the human body... and we don't always know what to do with that information once we have it in our hands."

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

JennaHatfield 12 pts

Fertility aside, what about the other health issues that accompany menopause? If a woman knows she is going to enter menopause early, she will know that her decreased sex drive, vaginal dryness and changes in vaginal bleeding would not be something big, scary or personally wrong with her. Then again, if she was headed toward early menopause and knew about it, she might ignore those signs when they were actually also a symptom of something else. Double-edged sword, really.

While I see the points regarding a "get back in the kitchen" viewpoint, my thoughts lean more toward the fact that we're learning more and more about the human body... and we don't always know what to do with that information once we have it in our hands. I'm not sure what the uses of this knowledge will do for women and society. For me? I don't really want to know. I already take good care of my bones (osteoporosis runs in my family) and it won't affect any of my other life choices so it would be a pointless, glaring circle on my calendar.

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