How to Multiply Your Orgasms with Sex Toys
By TessDanesi on June 01, 2011
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Any orgasm is a good orgasm, but, let's face it, some are better than others. I've had mellow O's, mind-blowing O's (quite literally, but that's another story involving phone sex, a dying vibrator and what I thought was an aneurysm), and O's so strong that when I got up immediately after, I had to sit back down or risk falling over. I love them all and I'm sure you love yours too. But have you learned what it takes to get your orgasms to go from satisfying to off-the-chart? Whether you're engaging in sizzling solo sex or getting it on with a sexy partner, sex toys can lead the way towards new levels of pleasure.
Sex doesn't start in your groin, it starts in your head, therefore the logical organ to begin stimulating is your brain. Fantasize. What makes you hot every time? Is it something dark and forbidden or is it more sweet and sensual? Do you want to be overpowered, tied up and taken? Maybe what turns you on the most is the thought of being watched. Or maybe what gets every nerve in your body tingling is the idea of a slow and sensual erotic massage. It doesn't matter what your fantasy is; it's yours, so own it and use it to help get yourself in that juicy mind frame before the action starts.
Whether you have a very specific fantasy or not, one that really gets you in the mood for sexy times, reading erotica can take you farther into that mysterious place that makes you hot and bothered and it can help you realize that other things you'd never thought of can really push your buttons. By choosing either themed or more general erotica, anthologies are a great way to either target your specific fantasies or open you up to the incredibly wide scope of what turns people on.
Once the sexual energy is flowing, if you're a fan of nipple stimulation, go ahead and try some nipple clips. If you’re starting out get adjustable ones that will take you from light to heavy pressure. You can even get vibrating nipple clamps for added sensation.
I love rabbit style vibes, vibes that provide simultaneous internal and clitoral stimulation, but for some, anatomy can make hitting on the perfect one for you challenging. The easy way around that, and one that provides greater versatility, is using a clit vibe in tandem with a dildo or a separate vibrator, one that hits your g-spot is even better. It may require two hands but it's definitely worth the extra effort. Also, and this is true for me, after a while, you may not particularly need thrusting, but just love the feeling of fullness you get with a dildo or vibe in place. Giving your vaginal muscles something to grasp and squeeze against when orgasming tends to pump up the power.
So your head's in the right place, you're merrily buzzing along feeling those amazing sensations in and around you clitoris, you have a dildo inside that you can contract your muscles around bringing you closer and closer -- what else could you do to make this even better? Well, here's where I like to go for the trifecta and make use of a butt plug.
You can start your session out by inserting the plug of your choice, and with the amazing variety of butt plugs out there, you're sure to find one that's just right for you, or you can add one after you've warmed up a bit. The feeling of being filled, back and front, is truly one I adore. If you've ever had double penetration fantasies, this is a great, safe way to experience those sensations.
Using sex toys is one way to take your orgasms from great to un-freaking-believable. Take your time, give these techniques a go when you're not rushed and can really relax into the sensations, try adding one toy at a time, and remember you can try these with a partner too. There's no reason not to add a clit vibe or a butt plug when you're having sex with your partner.
Whatever you decide to try, let's all applaud orgasms. Orgasms relieve stress, help you sleep better and heal faster. They're a form of natural pain management and can help you lose weight, both my burning calories and curbing craving, and they increase blood flow keeping you looking younger and glowingly healthy. Simply put: orgasms rock. Yay, orgasms!
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