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Is Your Facebook Friend a Fed, or Sex Offender?

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When you think about it, Facebook is weird. Where else in the world do you call people who you don’t know your friends? I probably have about 10-15 friends. Most are acquaintances and the others 400 are total strangers.

There’s a lot of excessive trust in the Facebook world. People have entirely dropped their sense of cynicism when logged on. They have no reason to distrust. People who are your “Friends” are generally those who you “know, like and trust.” In this world, your guard is as down as it will ever be. You are in the safety of your own home or office hanging with people all over the world in big cities and little towns and never have to watch your back.

Reports of sex offenders on social media abound. Do you know who your child is befriending?

Many of the “strangers” came into my life as a result of what I do, and I appreciate and accept them for connecting. But I know plenty of other people who don’t write or do media and might be in college, and have 2000 friends! And they know 5 of them! Social media is weird.

Employers, potential employers and others will often friend someone for the sole purposes of getting a solid profile of that person to determine if they want to hire them. Now the AP reportsU.S. law enforcement agents are following the rest of the Internet world into popular social-networking services, going undercover with false online profiles to communicate with suspects and gather private information, according to an internal Justice Department document that offers a tantalizing glimpse of issues related to privacy and crime-fighting.”

I don’t think there is anything wrong with this; it’s a good thing actually. There is a question of legality and whether or not government agents can pose as someone else and lie, which often violates the terms and conditions of the sites themselves.

But the fact remains, there are bad people out there and they need looking after. And if it means an FBI agent posing as someone to catch the bad guy, I’m all for it. So next time you get a friend request from a stranger, they might be someone checking up on you. Guilty conscience? Hope not.

Robert Siciliano personal security expert to Home Security Source discussing social media security on Fox Boston.

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Vita lingus 5 pts

I am sure that is indeed the case and a very sensible approach indeed to take Denna... Do you write online or just a commenter can not see a site attached to your profile .. Another new aspect of the 'social networking platforms over 10 years spectators!!
Bless you darl start a column you may find you have a dialogue and voice to share on a larger scale darl!

Vita lingus 5 pts

Interesting article Robert indeed! Well it could possibly also beg the question do we really know anyone?

Like do we know you or me? And if you remember the story of the 'Yorkshire ripper in England in the 89's " the police on finding him said "we were not looking for an ordinary guy"
The description of him was he was " lonely lorry driver " SOo hard to tell when we've been given a certain view/ paradigm of what the Yorkshire Ripper "should have been" and in fact the man they found !! So I do wonder why you even mention "guilty conscience" Robert very odd indeed!! Or maybe i am just very cautious and alert too language and what others say as opposed to what they do !!

Or maybe it is just your way of speaking or your writing style? I do get entirely what your talking about though!! Less is best and privacy is essential in fact.

I do think however this article may be seen to be lacking a little discernment when talking about "S,OF's ' in this particular domain Robert that is a safe haven for women, who may have experienced these things of which you so eloquently speak!

However I have no doubt Robert you had best intentions NOT to scare people on this site yet keep them informed aware and alert to the genuine issues that are indeed prevalent and growing in this new very public frontier.

A new world order of narcissism rudeness and fear!!

I have seen it evolve over 10 years as a world where people throw caution to the wind when it comes to the topics you discussed..

Old fashioned manners like responding to emails for example or what they call "chatter and Goddess me the world of twitter are new ways of speaking ones mind to friend or foe!!

Twitter used wisely can be a healthy forum of communication or for those wanting fame or something unknown to me could appear gossip in silence in the broadest sense!

Then I was an early adopter in cyber land and have often wondered why complete strangers would need to attach to ones face book etc or expose EVERYTHING ABOUT THEMSELVES ON A WORLD FORUM,,,,

I have mentioned this to the women in this NOW "all in" website space to be very careful and posted this to Blogher some months ago worth people rereading

http://www.democracynow.org/2009/10/22/cia_invests... ( http://www.democracynow.org/2009/10/22/cia_invests... )

With best intentions and very clear boundaries

Vita

DeanaBirks 5 pts

I know all the people I'm friends with on Facebook.

That isn't true on Twitter; I follow a lot of people I've never met and have conversations with people who sometimes not only aren't using a real name but have a picture of something that isn't even a face.

But on Facebook I only accept friend requests from actual friends I care about or family members. Of course, how well do you know a family member that you haven't talked to since 1982?

Deana Birks
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