YOUR REAL IMAGE.....MAKING IT FABULOUS....CHANGING YOUR MIND.....WHEN YOU FALL DOWN....29 FOREVER...Wrong Friends/RIGHT FRIENDS.
By Dianna-Brianne on May 05, 2014
YOUR REAL IMAGE……MAKE IT FABULOUS…..
I simply feel so many people are caught behind their VIRTUAL IMAGE rather than their real image because they simply feel they look better VIRTUALLY than in “REAL LIFE….” But either way, it is our REAL IMAGE that truly matters…..I like to think that my real image is even better than my virtual image as I work much harder on caring for myself in reality than my virtual image. Yes, I think I have a great virtual image and yet my in person image is much more important to me…..The image I see in the mirror as well as in the faces of those I love….
People have gotten trapped in the virtual world to the point that they have forgotten who they are in real life…..It is our real life images that we should be working on and using the virtual image of ourselves to compliment what we already are….
Giving time to our real lives and our real images is key to a happy life…..A Virtual life should simply compliment an already wonderful real life…..I most certainly like to think my real image far outshines any virtual image I can create….
WHEN IS IT OK TO CHANGE YOUR MIND…..
I think it is almost always OK to change one’s mind when they see a decision better a different way….Often we make decisions based on ever changing information…..and when new information comes in it can change the whole way we saw things before as well as the decision we made previously….So when is it OK to change your mind?
I personally think “Changing our mind” is like changing our socks….It is OK to do so when needed…..We all like to be consistent and stick with what we have committed ourselves to….and yet, sometimes we do have to change our course of action in life….If we are driving down a road and we see a Tornado ahead, we may need to change our direction significantly….We didn’t expect the tornado but now that we have seen it on our radar our plan of direction needs to shift….That is the way it is with almost anything in life…..
Great discernment needs to apply when changing ones mind. What will the fallout be if one changes their mind?….Will the new course of acton be better or worse than the original decision? If something is a better decision it is usually better to be willing to change one’s mind….if they can…Not always can we change our mind about something once we have committed and not always should we….but sometimes we can….
Changing ones mind is an individual thing….but it is one that I do quite often….
DOES ANYONE CARE WHAT I THINK?
I do think there are people in my life that truly care what I think and I care what they think….but overall I think most people are so consumed with their own lives that they pay little attention to what we think or care about or our views on things…..Most people concern themselves too much on what others might think of them any which way….I simply do not concern myself much about what others think of my opinions or what they even think of me….
When one is confident in who they are they simply realize that it comes down to what they think of themselves….for there will always be conflicting views of what others think of another….If we base our views of ourselves on how other people see us or our opinions then we are likely to be a nervous wreck….for we cannot keep up the pretense of trying to please everyone and everyone’s opinions…..Not everyone is going to like us or our opinions and that is simply the way it is….I would rather be busy appreciating my own opinions in life and who I am….for no one knows me better than I know myself…
WHEN YOU FALL DOWN…..WHEN YOUR SELF-ESTEEM GETS KNOCKED TO THE FLOOR….
I think most people at some point in time…perhaps more than one time in life gets their self-esteem knocked out of them….When they simply feel they have been knocked so low that they have to pick it up off the ground. Perhaps it is because of a mistake they made….or simply it can be because of what another did to them….Either way when our self-esteem gets knocked down it can be hard getting it back up…
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